Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge

Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge We can help you with Past trauma, Stop smoking, childhood issues, weight issues, past life, Stress, relationship issues, focus, depression, habits & more.

We offer Hypnotherapy, CBT, Counselling, EMDR, Life-coaching, NLP. We hold additional Specialist skills in Neurodivergent clients. Phobias, Stop smoking, Anxiety, Confidence, Childhood trauma, Depression, Stress, Public speaking, Bad habits, past life, couples therapy & more. We all need a little help from time to time. Its not about pride, nor does it make you weak, infact quite the opposite. You are here reading this page aren't you? Well thats the first step to change, wanting to change. What gets you through life is having the right mindset. Like anything, this can take time and for some people in life they may never find what they are looking for. Some lack the confidence to do what they love, or perhaps feel lost and not entirely sure what they want? Others may struggle to let go of the past or have unwanted habits. Whatever it is that you want, or don't want, you can be certain of one thing, we are here to help. My name is Jason Firmager and I own Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge. like many of us, I have had some amazing highs in my life and also some real lows. I have loved, lost, been through a challenging childhood, and had my share of challenges as an adult too. After creating a successful magazine for holistic therapists (Holistic Therapist Magazine) my passion turned to helping people become the best version of themselves. My life experiences along with my professional training allows help me to fully understand what many of my clients are going through on a deeper level. I am real, understanding and will be able to facilitate change in the most effective and reassuring way possible. You can either come to us, or we can come to you, either way both myself and my team at Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge look forward helping you create the life you deserve.

Jason Firmager DipHyp, AdvDipNlp

14/05/2025

Hello friends, followers and colleagues

Just a brief message conveyed personally from yours truly, the founder and CEO of Mentalk Health Sittingbourne, and Director of Kent hypnotherapy Lounge, in the light of commemorating Mental Health Awareness Week.

The motive behind this message isn't just to spread awareness but also to initiate conversations about mental health that hold profound importance. It's about time we dismantle the stigma attached to mental health issues that acts as a barrier preventing many from seeking help.

Please remember, you're never on your own in this. Never hesitate to extend your hand for help or take a step forward for someone in need. Let's join together on this path towards mental well-being, supporting one another.

We are here for you…
Mentalk health Sittingbourne Team.
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Ever have those moments where it feels like your acts of generosity and kindness mostly go unseen? Do you always feel li...
27/04/2025

Ever have those moments where it feels like your acts of generosity and kindness mostly go unseen?

Do you always feel like you give so much of yourself, freely and unconditionally, to others, yet you remain unnoticed?

Let me share something important with you, for those who need to hear this… I see you. I want to give you the acknowledgment that often goes unreceived.

I want you to know, you are amazing:

• You have a heart that cares more deeply than most people even conceive is possible.
• You notice the subtle signs that others neglect—the unspoken word, the slight changes, the depth of a person that lies hidden beneath the surface.
• You are both loyally devoted and guardedly protective of those you cherish.
• You own the courage to feel, even when feelings usher you towards chaos and suffering.
• Even throughout the most challenging and somber moments of your own existence, you've been a beacon of light for others.
• Let me express my gratitude towards you, for everything you contribute to this world.

Now, if I may gently point towards one sphere where growth could be fostered:

At times, you bear an immense burden of trying to be flawless for the people you love. You are so tenaciously committed to respecting and honouring others—ensuring you don't cause them any harm, always striving to make the correct decisions—that there's a tendency for you to internalise this weight, leading you to be excessively critical of your own self.

While it's indeed admirable that you aspire to be virtuous, it's important to understand that you're not obliged to meet perfection to be worthy of affection. Even in your vulnerability—when you're fatigued, overwhelmed with emotions, uncertain or have made mistakes—you're deserving of love.

You don't have to justify your heart to anyone else who truly sees you. Your luminosity is already glowing brilliantly. If one were to propose an area where you could refine, it would be in trusting that your blemishes and flaws are an integral part of your individuality, what makes you uniquely spectacular.

Your love and acceptance do not occur despite your imperfections; they happen through these apparent flaws, and even because of them.

For those who are struck by this message:
I am incredibly proud of you, exactly as you are. I wouldn't desire to change the essence of your being, not for anything in this world.

Never underestimate the impact you have. Stay strong. The significant work you accomplish often extends far beyond your comprehension. Thank you for being you, for bearing the light-instilling torch for others, regardless of your personal struggles, sacrifices and wounds.

NEVER…forget how extraordinary you are. 😉

Jason - Founder of Mentalk Health Sittingbourne. Clinic Director of Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge and Wellbeing Clinic

mentalk-health.org
kent-hypnotherapylounge.co.uk

I wanted to share some important information with you about stress, something that's often overlooked. We often speak of...
16/04/2025

I wanted to share some important information with you about stress, something that's often overlooked.

We often speak of stress as if it's a fleeting moment, but what you might not know is that according to neuroscience, if left unchecked, stress can become a lifelong struggle.

Can you believe that stress can reshape your brain, body, and even your genes? Here's how that works:

1. Stress triggers the fear circuitry in your brain. When you're stressed, your amygdala sounds the alarm and your brain sends a signal to your body, making you feel unsafe. This sets off a chain of events from your hypothalamus to your pituitary gland, then to your adrenals, resulting in a surge of cortisol. This can be useful in short term but dangerous when it's persistent.

2. Stress floods your brain with chemicals. High cortisol levels disrupt your prefrontal cortex, hippocampus, and the levels of dopamine and serotonin in your brain, affecting your ability to make decisions, learn, remember, and stabilize your mood. Your brain chemistry is altered.

3. Stress changes how your genes behave. Through a process known as epigenetics, chronic stress doesn't alter your DNA, but it does modify how your genes function. This means that genes responsible for mood, inflammation, and brain plasticity become dysregulated and can potentially pass this 'epigenetic signature' to future generations.

4. Persisting stress can make your body and brain normalize this imbalance. Under constant stress, the corrective system ceases to be effective, and the chemical imbalances become your new normal.

From all these, what started as stress might progress to Major Depressive Disorder, Generalized Anxiety, PTSD, autoimmune conditions, or cardiometabolic diseases. At this stage, therapy alone may not suffice. It could require medication, structured rewiring of the brain, and long-term support.

So, when should we intervene? Recognising early signs like sleep issues, irritability, withdrawal, and reduction in joy can deter progressing from mere stress to severe mental health disorders. Equipping oneself with mental health education, resilience techniques, mindfulness, self-awareness, and stress recovery practices can nip the problem in the bud.

Our understanding of mental health needs to evolve from the notion of treating either symptom or cause to treating both. It means not only employing talk therapy or medication alone but employing them in tandem. It entails treating both the emotional and biological aspects and working on prevention along with healing.

Remember, stress isn't just mental – it's encoded in your genes, present in your bloodstream and manifest in your brain. And without early intervention, it becomes your biology. I believe it's important to disrupt this process before it's too late.

If you would like help managing stress and learning more about yourself.
get in touch today.

Jason - Clinic Director of Kent hypnotherapy lounge and wellbeing clinic and Founder and CEO of Mentalk health Sittingbourne.

Become the best you that you can possibly be, invest in yourself! From CBT, Hypnotherapy, counselling, life coaching, EM...
01/04/2025

Become the best you that you can possibly be, invest in yourself! From CBT, Hypnotherapy, counselling, life coaching, EMDR, to NLP; whatever your preferred method, we've got you sorted.

Our expertise can assist with multiple issues such as confidence, self-esteem, trauma, addictions, unlocking facets of yourself, managing relationships, anxiety, stress, resilience to career challenges and more.

Our practice is far from intimidating or clinical, instead it's relaxed and approachable. So, what's keeping you back?

In person, zoom, or phone sessions available.
Free phone consultations.

Look forward to hearing from you.

Understanding persuasion. (Skillsets)Persuasion isn't about manipulation. It's about influence. Your influence. Have you...
07/03/2025

Understanding persuasion. (Skillsets)

Persuasion isn't about manipulation. It's about influence. Your influence.

Have you ever noticed how some people have a way of making you say 'Yes' before you even realise it? What's their secret?

Persuasion is a skill, not a gift. The most successful persuaders have habits that are impossible to ignore. Here are seven habits you can adopt today:

1. Leading with Questions: Rather than imposing their point of view, they prompt you to see as though the idea was yours. For example, 'What would happen if you kept doing things the old way?'

2. Using the Power of Pause: Silence can make one uncomfortable, and a well-timed pause draws attention, adding emphasis to your spoken words.

3. Speaking in Stories rather than Facts: We forget statistics but remember emotions. Encapsulating your key point in a story makes it easy to recall. Steve Jobs didn't merely launch the iPhone but shared a story of a world without buttons.

4. Mirroring and Matching: Skilled persuaders subtly mimic the tone, body language, and energy of their audience to establish immediate trust.

5. Creating a Sense of Urgency: Best persuaders make it seem as though now is the best time to act. For instance, 'This opportunity won't be here after six months. Act now before the window closes.'

6. Using the Power of 'Because': Research shows people are more likely to comply when given reasons, even if they are simple. Like, 'Could I skip the line? I need to catch a flight.'

7. They Simplify Saying 'Yes': The easier you make it to agree, the more likely people will agree. Offer small, low-risk steps first. 'Would you be open to a quick chat to explore ideas?' makes it a more comfortable choice than 'Let's partner.'

Which habit have you been leveraging the most?
If you would like to build your personal or work confidence, get in touch today.

Jason - Clinic Director
Kent-hypnotherapylounge.co.uk

17/02/2025

Some people will never forgive you for what they did to you.

Read that again…

If this hits hard and you need support, get in touch with us today. We can help support your self worth, confidence, and help with historic and current mental pain.

You don’t have to do it alone.

Have you been considering therapy?Let's begin this journey together with renewed vigour and an aimed focus to achieve yo...
02/01/2025

Have you been considering therapy?

Let's begin this journey together with renewed vigour and an aimed focus to achieve your desired results.

Be it overcoming addictions, regaining confidence, dealing with traumas or unresolved issues, enhancing relationship dynamics, or simply finding a space where you feel comfortable expressing yourself, we are here to support.

Our broad spectrum of support services includes Hypnotherapy, CBT, Counselling, Life Coaching, EMDR, and NLP to name a few. All curated to catalyse your personal growth.

If the idea of embarking on this self-betterment path with us resonates with you, please do not hesitate to drop us a message.

Looking forward to helping you work on you.

Best regards,
Therapy team.

I wanted to share some thoughts on ADHD…It seems like there's a wave of negative perspective around ADHD, with endless t...
11/11/2024

I wanted to share some thoughts on ADHD…

It seems like there's a wave of negative perspective around ADHD, with endless talks online about issues and medication. However, I wanted to bring to light the other side of the coin, the positives that we often overlook. So, here's to seeing things differently!

Individuals with ADHD truly make for the best clients, and I'll tell you why. These individuals possess a brightness that is unmatched and show a level of motivation that is inspiring. They have an unshakeable sense of humour and a relentless determination that refuses to be put out. When they latch onto something, it becomes difficult to shake them loose - they commit until they have mastered their subject.

Imagine a group of individuals who are not only intelligent and hardworking, but also a joy to be around, determined to better themselves. What more could one possibly ask for?

This is not a deficiency, nor is it a deficit. This is a gift. A gift that needs to be embraced, celebrated and understood. Countless sporting legends, musicians, entrepreneurs, writers, inventors, artists and more have shown these same qualities. They weren't built for monotony - they thrive on exploits, excitement and creation.

Living with ADHD can sometimes feel like a journey, but it's important to remember that being ADHD isn't indicative of something wrong with the person. They are complete as they are. Sometimes, it's not the person that's unfitting but the environment that's not suited.

If you are someone living with ADHD, you are incredible. Remember that. If you have someone in your life with ADHD, see them, hear them, embrace their need for understanding and give them the praise and recognition they deserve. Don't try to suppress or block their flow.

To all you amazing ADHD individuals out there - keep being you. You are beyond brilliant, and don't ever forget it.

If you have ADHD or know someone with ADHD, please comment what you love about this trait, let see the brilliant, not the “deficit”.

Jason
CEO - Mentalk Health Sittingbourne
Clinic Director- Kent Hypnotherapy Lounge

Reflection of the day:YOUR TONE OF VOICE MATTERS.Dear all, I've been reflecting today and thought to share this thought....
01/11/2024

Reflection of the day:

YOUR TONE OF VOICE MATTERS.

Dear all, I've been reflecting today and thought to share this thought. It’s occurred to me how significantly our tone of voice can affect someone's emotions or perceptions. Even with the best of intentions, the way we communicate could remain etched in someone's mind, the echo of harsh words potentially inflicting emotional pain we never wished to cause. Such experiences can be deeply affecting, leaving a lasting emotional sting that is hard to brush off. I've known people who have spent in anguish over what was said and the way they perceived it, letting it take over their lives completely.

It's crucial that we remain aware of not only our message but also the way it is conveyed. The tone, the methodology, and the choice of words can either raise someone's spirits or adversely deflate them. Remember, every individual you come across is harbouring something within them, maybe an unseen battle - fears, aspirations, vulnerabilities.

Therefore, in every interaction, opt to be gentle, speak with understanding and warmth. Your words have an immense capability to heal and to comfort, to show that you genuinely care. After all, it's the emotional imprint we leave on others that often remains with them the longest. So, pay heed to your tone; it matters much more than you may realise.

Jason - CEO-Mentalk Health Sittingbourne

Director - Kent hypnotherapy lounge & Wellbeing clinic

28/09/2024
I get asked frequently, Jason.I am struggling to help someone I care about.I don’t know how to help them?I’ve tried ever...
28/09/2024

I get asked frequently, Jason.
I am struggling to help someone I care about.

I don’t know how to help them?
I’ve tried everything!
I’m exhausted…
I feel helpless…What do I do??

I wanted to share some guidance and a reminder which I hope helps you and those you care for.

Sometimes, all it takes is a listening ear and a reassuring presence to make a difference. Just being there for someone can mean the world.

During our darkest times, we're not always searching for solutions or advice. We yearn for the simple human connection. A comforting presence, a soothing touch - these are the anchors that keep us steady amidst life's turbulent storms.

Remember, you don't need to ‘fix’ anyone. It's not your duty to shoulder their burdens or dispel their shadows. Rather, offer a steady hand they can grasp as they traverse their inner turmoil. Sit with them in stillness, bearing witness to their struggles without attempting to amend them. Allow them to be seen and acknowledged.

Each person's pain is uniquely their own, their battles meant for them to engage. Yet, your presence is a reminder to them that they are not walking this path alone. It reassures them that they are deserving of love, in spite of their fractures.

So ask yourself this, are you willing to be there when the night grows long and the path elusive? Will you rise up, not as a saviour, but as a constant companion, staying by their side until they regain their strength?

Your silent support is your greatest gift.
It's a love so profound, it helps them recognise their core essence and remind them they are absolutely worthy of love, even when they momentarily forget.

For those reading and connecting- I see you…
Thank you for all ‘you’ do, ‘your’ efforts in this world, ‘you’ are doing amazing.
And remember - look after ‘yourself’ too.

Jason - Founder and CEO of Mentalk-Health Sittingbourne - mentalk-health.org
& Kent hypnotherapy Lounge & wellbeing clinic - kent-hypnotherapylounge.co.uk

Professional, Friendly, Relaxed Hypnotherapist in Sittingbourne, Kent. Hypnosis,Hypnotherapy, NLP, Lifecoaching.

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