17/12/2025
Festivals come in many forms - Christmas, Hanukkah, Lunar New Year, Eid, Kwanzaa, Diwali, and more. They can bring joy, but they can also stir tender feelings. Sometimes they highlight whatās missing, bring up family tensions, or leave us feeling drained.
If your relationship feels fragile or unsettled during these times, youāre not alone. Festivals can amplify what already feels sensitive. It doesnāt mean youāre failing, it means youāre human.
A few gentle reminders:
- Take a breath before reacting
- Speak your needs softly, even if they feel small
- Lower expectations just a little
- Share time and space, rather than trying to fix everything
- Remember that small acts of kindness can shift the emotional climate
Festivals donāt have to be magical to be meaningful. They can be spacious, quiet, and real. You are allowed to show up just as you are.
Echo Forest Therapy
The Counselling Space