24/03/2024
My first birth was wonderful and fairly quick (six hours start to finish), in the Mulberry room at Stroud Maternity. I had such a good experience that I was keen to return for my second birth. I was primed for it to be even quicker so was ready to get to Stroud the second I felt anything starting.
As it was, I had ten days of prodromal labour (regular contractions for a couple of hours each evening that then faded and didn't progress). This was pretty torturous, we were on the edge of our seats every night...
But finally on 3rd January I was woken at 1am with what felt like period pains, and my waters having broken. We called my in laws to come and look after our son and prepared to get to the hospital. I spent about an hour at home, rocking on a birth ball but not experiencing the surges as particularly intense. This was quite different to my first birth, in which contractions had come on hard right from the start.
We got to the hospital and were delighted to be welcomed into the same room in which my son had been born. Just like with my son, I felt more comfortable standing up so we spent an hour or two standing and swaying, leaning on the counter to help when contractions came. The lovely midwife popped in and out but largely just gave us space, which is exactly what I needed.
As the contractions got more intense I wanted to get into the pool, which provided incredible relief. The contractions slowed at that point for quite a while, but eventually picked up again. As they became more intense I asked for gas and air, which I had found useful during my first labour.
The midwife was keen to be certain that I was in established labour before I started the gas and air, so asked if she could do a VE. I had a bad experience with this during my first birth so had been really keen to avoid one this time round, but in the moment it felt necessary in order to get the gas and air, so I agreed.
(More in the comments!)