15/06/2025
Father's Day.
A gentle reminder that it is OK if you..
π€ Find today difficult. Not everyone had/has a good relationship with a father figure.
π€ You want to have some time to yourself, to grieve or hold space for whatever emotions come up for you.
π€ To post amazing pictures and heartfelt dedications to the father/father figure who is/was your best friend. Your protector, biggest cheerleader. Just because this time of year can be hard for some doesn't mean you can't celebrate the joy you feel.
π€ To take a break from social media if you feel sad and upset.
π€ To keep things private, to not share with the world or others, what is going on today.
π€ To be kind to yourself if you had/have a challenging relationship with a father figure. Allow yourself to experience and enjoy even just one happy memory. Just because the bad might outweigh the good doesn't mean that you cannot have peace, only remembering the good.
To those father figures who step up where others have stepped down. To the father figures who have loved, protected, and helped their children to feel safe. I hope today is filled with love and acknowledgement for the amazing person you are.
To those of you who are struggling today. I extend love, compassion, understanding, and a giant hug. This time of year is also hard for me for many reasons. You are seen, heard, and loved.
Be kind to yourself, to those who are struggling, but also allow those who have good relationships with their father figures to express that joy, free from suppression.