09/05/2021
Don’t forget YOU 💜
It’s the end of so time for a post with a few ideas of how to make sure you don’t slip through the gaps that can open up, chasm like, in your time & energy after having a baby...
👶 Keeping baby close in a sling or carrier means you can get on with your day with a bit more freedom, whilst Baby stays calmer and happier... they will even cry less! You can get 1:1 appointments in person and online for more information and advice on the best sling for you at your local sling library, which you can find on the website.
🤝 Don’t be afraid to reach out for help if you’re struggling. This past year has been one helluva challenge for everyone, but no more so than for parents. If you’re struggling by then there’s no shame is asking for support or even just a listening ear. And don’t forget: If you or your partner are finding life difficult then your health visitor and GP are there to help!
🛀 It’s completely fine - essential even - for you to put yourself first every now and again. The adage that “you can’t pour from an empty bucket” might be over used but that’s probably because it’s very true! Whether your relaxation is a good book, a soak in the tub, a long walk or a chat with your bestie, you ARE allowed to indulge... and you’ve definitely earned it!
❤️ Enjoy all the snuggles. Research shows that the longer you hug someone, the more oxytocin you release. This stabilises your autonomic systems (temperature, heart rate, breathing rate), calms you and even helps Baby’s brain to grow. There’s no downside, so snuggle them close to your hearts content (they won’t let you do it forever)!
Take care of yourselves, parents. You’re smashing it. 💪