12/01/2026
Neighbours are often the first people to notice worrying sounds or patterns.
You may hear shouting, crying, threats, or things hitting walls.
You may see signs of intimidation or control.
You do not need to intervene directly.
Your safety matters too.
Here is what you can do:
Trust what you hear or see
Many people doubt themselves. If you feel uneasy, pay attention.
Make simple notes
Record dates, times and what you heard or saw. This can help later if services need information.
Call 999 if there is immediate danger
If you hear:
Threats to harm
Screaming
Property being smashed
Someone asking for help
Children crying in fear
Sounds of physical assault
It is okay to call 999.
You can say you are a neighbour and explain what you heard.
For non-urgent concerns, you can call 101
You can report patterns of behaviour, noise, or repeated arguments.
You can contact Crimestoppers: 0800 555 111
Crimestoppers lets you report concerns anonymously.
You do not need to give your name or details.
This is a safe option if you fear the partner may find out you reported.
You can speak to your local domestic abuse service.
They can help you think through what you’ve heard, how to respond safely, and what options may help the person.
Your awareness can help keep someone safer.
Even one call can be important.
