26/12/2025
Sometimes the words "Are you okay?" can feel hard to answer - especially when things feel messy inside. Instead, you could try saying something like "I am here if you want to talk", "I have noticed you seem a bit quieter than usual", or "You do not have to go through this on your own". Gentle openings can make it easier for someone to feel safe enough to respond.
You can also show support without needing the perfect words. Sitting with them, checking in later, sending a message to say you are thinking of them, or simply listening without trying to fix everything can mean more than you realise. It is not about having all the answers - it is about letting someone know they are not alone.
If you feel worried about a young person or are unsure how to start these conversations, support is available for you too.
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