National Male Domestic Abuse Information

08/05/2026

05/05/2026

Parental alienation and men’s mental health: understanding the impact and how therapy can help support healing and resilience.

04/05/2026

Tamworth Male Mental Health

Many men do not recognise that what they have experienced is abuse.
It may not always look how people expect; it can be emotional, psychological, controlling, or physical. Over time, it can become normalised, minimised, or dismissed.

If you are questioning it, that matters.
Male survivors of abuse are often overlooked, but you are not alone.

There is support, there is understanding, and there is a way forward.
Speaking about it is not a weakness; it is the beginning of change.

28/04/2026

A while back I had the opportunity to sit down with British Thought Leaders — shown on Sky TV and Epoch TV — to talk about something I feel very strongly about.

Male domestic abuse. Why men stay silent. Why the system so often fails them. And why I walked away from a successful corporate career to write about it instead.

It was one of the most honest conversations I have had on camera and I am really proud of it.

The full interview is on YouTube and the link is in the comments below. 💙

If it resonates — my books Why Didn't You Just Leave Them? and Such Reckless Hate go even deeper into everything we covered.

19/04/2026

The problem is the widespread acceptance and degradation of equality in favor of privilege and special treatment for women, which leads to discrimination against men and their unfair treatment.

It's not men who are the problem, but double standards where toxic behaviors in women are normalized as the new norm, and justice and equality are replaced with opposing negative values ​​that are supposed to elevate women and grant them unfettered freedom from responsibility.

"But the pendulum has swung so violently the other way that we have arrived at a new orthodoxy where fundamental masculine qualities – assertiveness, competitiveness, physical strength, and stoicism, all of which are inherent – are not merely unfashionable but actively framed as destructive.

I see it in everyday life, where I've often heard it saying that women are “better than men” when it comes to many jobs. Yet the very thought of a man saying something similar would be condemned as a gross act of sexism.

This double standard – where casual disdain for men is permissible, but any assertion of male worth is taboo – has become so normalized that many no longer notice it.

We have created a society that preaches equality but practices prejudice, telling boys and men that the best thing they can do is to stand aside to allow others to rise up. This is not equality; it is a zero-sum game that breeds resentment and alienation."
More in link
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/04/18/western-societys-prejudice-against-masculinity-is-becoming/

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18/04/2026

Tamworth male domestic abuse
Here at Male Domestic Abuse Information, we have noticed a worrying trend in how some men report their partners engaging with online content and ideology that presents negative or generalised views about men, and how this can influence relationships, emotional wellbeing and in some cases, lead to abuse.

In some cases, strong online narratives can shape how people interpret their partner’s behaviour and how they respond in conflict, which can include:

• Viewing a partner through rigid ideological frameworks, rather than as an individual ''you are part of the patriarchy''
• making misandric comments about men ''all men are''
• Interpreting disagreement or conflict as evidence of wider gender-based beliefs

• Feeling justified in control, criticism, or emotional withdrawal based on those beliefs
• Escalation of arguments due to entrenched online narratives rather than lived relationship context
• Difficulty separating personal relationship issues from external ideology
• Breakdown in communication and mutual understanding
• Increased emotional tension, mistrust, and disconnection within the relationship

When beliefs become rigid in this way, they can distort understanding, escalate conflict, and in some cases risk contributing to behaviours that are emotionally harmful or abusive.
This can affect anyone, and it can leave one or both partners feeling unheard, stereotyped, or emotionally unsafe.
Healthy relationships are built on respect, openness, and the ability to see each other as individuals, not as stereotypes or ideologies.
If this resonates with you, you are not alone. Support is available, and therapy can provide a safe space to reflect, communicate differently, and rebuild healthier patterns.

12/04/2026

At 15, James said he realised he was too young to get justice after he was abused by his girlfriend. He is now joining calls to lower the legislative age of domestic abuse victims. Harriette Boucher reports

04/04/2026

Tamworth Male Domestic Abuse
Unfortunately, many men can't see or accept that they are/have been a victim of domestic abuse.

If a friend told you they'd been a victim of a crime, would you know how to support them?

40% of domestic abuse is against men, and it is estimated that 49% of male victims do not report it. Male su***de is also linked to domestic abuse.

The victim's code explains the rights that everyone ''should'' expect to receive as a victim of crime.

Men can also report their perpetrator to ''Clare's Law''.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/the-code-of-practice-for-victims-of-crime

04/04/2026

If a bias becomes normal…
Do people even recognise it as bias anymore?

Misandry: The War on Men Uncovered asks questions many people avoid; about stereotypes, assumptions, and fairness.

📘 https://amzn.eu/d/aiUH5rT

Where do you think the line is between humour and harmful stereotype?

04/01/2026

What would you advise in this situation?

Financial abuse is part of coercive control, it involves a pattern of controlling, threatening and degrading behaviours relating to money and finances. The perpetrator uses money to control their partner’s freedom. This can include using credit or debit cards without permission or building up debts in their partner’s name.

If you are concerned about your own behaviour towards your partner or that of a friend of family member there is help available.

See first comment for more information.