National Male Domestic Abuse Information

18/02/2026

Politicians and experts say police should be better trained and move away from ‘tickbox approach’ to su***des

17/02/2026

What if the key to reducing domestic violence in South Dakota was actually increasing the involvement of both parents? 🛡️ The "Natural Experiment" in Spain provided a clear, life-saving answer that the opposition in Pierre refuses to discuss.

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In regions that adopted presumptive shared parenting, intimate partner violence (IPV) fell by nearly 50% because the "Winner-Take-All" trigger was removed. This global data is the core of our evidentiary rebuttal for SB 224. The opposition claims these laws are "dangerous," but the global reality is that they are protective. South Dakota has the opportunity to lead the Midwest by adopting the same evidence-based policies that are saving lives across the ocean. Let’s look at the results, not the rhetoric.

15/02/2026

At Sheepbridge Inn Newry today. (If you own this please get in touch.)

14/02/2026

💔 A Story That Needs to Be Shared 💔

I want to share a deeply personal story from someone who has agreed to speak out about their experience with domestic abuse, not just the kind you see, but the kind that continues long after leaving.

“During my marriage, I received daily insults, put-downs, and lies were told about me. I had never felt so alone and targeted, not just by my wife but by the system as well. My wife cheated, and to get me out of the house, she made a false allegation so I would be removed. I lost access to my children. I still had to contribute to the house because my credit rating would have been affected. I had to pay child maintenance and new rent, which meant I had to work longer hours, leaving me with even less time to spend with my children. On top of that, she would tell our children that because I didn’t spend time with them, it meant I didn’t love them, which caused further emotional pain. Even after being kicked out, the daily abusive text messages didn’t stop. The police wouldn’t help, and I was hounded by the child maintenance system. I felt like ending my life, and people wonder why the male su***de rate is so high. Men are told to talk more, but when we do, nobody listens.”

No one should ever have to go through that.

This story highlights how abuse can take many forms, emotional, verbal, financial, and systemic, and how deeply it can affect a person’s life, identity, and mental well-being. Abuse doesn’t always end when someone leaves a home; it can linger in text messages, in the legal system, and in relationships with children.

In England and Wales, the su***de rate for males was 17.4 deaths per 100,000 in 2023, the highest rate for men since 1999, which shows how serious this issue is. Around three-quarters of all registered su***des were male, and the rate continues to be much higher for men than for women, underlining the scale of the problem.

If you’ve ever felt ignored, hurt, or alone, please know this: you are not alone, and your feelings are valid. There is support out there, and there is hope.

🧡 If this resonates with you, please share or reach out — let’s raise awareness and make space for conversations that truly matter.

07/02/2026

As Valentine's Day approaches,, people may be looking for love online ..however, there are some people online who are only looking for your money.
Abusers and scammers create fake profiles and build connections before finding ways to ask for your money or personal information.

05/02/2026

Myth: Sexual abuse only happens to women.
Truth: Sexual abuse can happen to anyone — any gender, any age, any background. It’s also a form of abuse that often takes place within relationships, behind closed doors, and out of sight.
At EDAN Lincs delivering LDASS, we believe every survivor deserves to be heard, believed, and supported.
You are not alone, and you deserve safety.
For support with any form of domestic abuse in Lincolnshire call us :01522 510041
or visit:https://ldass.org.uk/
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04/01/2026

What would you advise in this situation?

Financial abuse is part of coercive control, it involves a pattern of controlling, threatening and degrading behaviours relating to money and finances. The perpetrator uses money to control their partner’s freedom. This can include using credit or debit cards without permission or building up debts in their partner’s name.

If you are concerned about your own behaviour towards your partner or that of a friend of family member there is help available.

See first comment for more information.

27/12/2025

https://menaregood.substack.com/p/bias-against-men-and-boys-in-mental?trk=feed_main-feed-card_ingested-content-summary-external-video-content

This video is a summary of the three studies we have examined the last three Saturdays.

25/12/2025

21/12/2025

Feeling humbled and happy that men are receiving clarity from male-centred therapy.
Thank you to all the men that walked through the doors this year.

Men: if you have been domestically abused (past or present) you will recieve a compassionate and non- judgemental counselling service. We see you, we hear you and we believe you.