The Empower Coach

The Empower Coach We have helped 100s of women achieve the ultimate freedom from diet culture.
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We help women over 30 stuck in diet cycles achieve food freedom & confidence in their bodies through not focusing on numbers, rewiring your relationship with food and your body.

I’m 41, and I’m calling BS on the 'slow metabolism' excuse.As a 41-year-old anti-diet coach, I see women every day mourn...
29/01/2026

I’m 41, and I’m calling BS on the 'slow metabolism' excuse.

As a 41-year-old anti-diet coach, I see women every day mourning their 'lost metabolism' like it’s a dead pet. 🪦

Newsflash: It’s not dead. It’s just buried under stress, lack of movement, and the fact you are not active as you once were.

It is not your fault, we have extremely busy lives now, the pressures and the responsibilities are a lot.

But if you stop blaming metabolism and actually look at what the real issue is then you can make changes.

Stop trying to fix your biology and start adjusting your environment. You’re not broken; you’re just busy. Let’s work with that instead of against it.... Let’s work with that instead of against it.

Here is how you actually move the needle without adding another 3-hour chore to your week:

1️⃣ Stop the "Hour or Nothing" Mentality: You don't need a 60-minute gym session to count. 15 minutes of lifting something heavy in your living room protects your muscle (and your metabolism) better than a workout you never show up for.
2️⃣ Protect Your Protein: Stop eating like a bird. If you want your metabolism to hum, you have to feed the muscle. Aim for protein at every meal—it’s the simplest "metabolic hack" there is.

3️⃣ Audit Your Movement: It’s not about "cardio"; it’s about NEAT. Take the call standing up. Park further away. Pace while the kettle boils. These tiny "activity snacks" add up more than a single spin class once a week.

4️⃣ Lower the Baseline Stress: If you’re red-lining 24/7, your body is in survival mode, not fat-loss mode. Five minutes of actual silence or a 10-minute walk outside isn't "self-care"—it's a biological necessity.

Stop looking for a "metabolism reset" in a bottle. The "fix" is simplifying your life so your body can actually do its job.

Which one of these feels like the biggest hurdle right now? The time, the protein, or the stress? Let’s chat in the comments. 👇

28/01/2026

With the rise of skinny coaches and the skinny ideal making a comeback…

I feel like we need to talk about this.🙌
Because being thin has been sold to us as the ultimate goal.
Happiness. Confidence. Worth. Success.

All wrapped up in a smaller body.

But no one tells you what that chase can actually cost.
Your brain alone needs hundreds of calories a day just to function.
Your heart, liver, kidneys, lungs and gut are working 24/7 to keep you alive.
Not to look a certain way.
But to exist.
When you restrict, it doesn’t just affect your body.
It impacts your mood. Your patience. Your sleep.
Your ability to think clearly.
Your relationship with food.
Your relationship with yourself.
I know because I have been through it myself. And why I am hellbent on breaking this narrative.

I’m not here for another era of women shrinking themselves to fit an aesthetic.
I want more for you than that.

More energy. More calm. More freedom.
More health, physically and mentally.
Feeling strong and empowered and not conforming to some unrealistic beeuty standard that keeps us small.
It’s time we stopped chasing skinny…
And started choosing health instead.
If this hit, tell me.

Let’s talk about it. 💭💛

28/01/2026

POV: You’re unlearning the 2000s diet culture that raised you.
We really let magazines tell us not to eat, huh?

I’ve worked hard on reprogramming my mind from the “Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” era.
And its been a journey, one that took 20+ years (thanks diet culture)

Looking back, it’s wild how normalised these sayings were. They weren't just quotes; they were rules we lived by. And everyone said them! Generations of women in fact.

Tough to shrink, to stay small and fear food or eating “too much”

If you are also unlearning the toxic diet culture of the 90s/00s, you are in the right place. I am breaking the cycle, and helping women to eat the food without the side of shame that this era taught us, and to change that inner narrative to be kind to yourself. Rather than brining yourself down.

This is where you can make a change, where you can start feeling free from food and confident in your own body.

Which quote do you remember hearing the most? Tell me in the comments (and let's roast it together). 👇

If skinny is the goal… you’ll never feel happy.We were taught that smaller = happier.That once we hit that number, that ...
27/01/2026

If skinny is the goal… you’ll never feel happy.

We were taught that smaller = happier.

That once we hit that number, that size, that version of ourselves… we’d finally feel enough.
But skinny is a moving target.

You get closer, and suddenly it shifts.

There’s always something else to fix. Something else to shrink. Something else to change.

And before you know it, life becomes about control.
Controlling food.
Controlling your body.
Controlling how you’re seen.
Waiting to live “properly” once you feel good enough.
That’s not confidence.
That’s a cage.

Weight loss can be a part of someone’s journey.
But it should never be the purpose of your life.
The real goal is feeling at home in your body.
Strong. Energised. Calm.

Able to go out, wear the clothes, take the photos, eat the food, live the moments… without mentally battling yourself.
Happiness doesn’t live in a smaller body.
It lives in self-trust.

And if you’ve been chasing skinny for years and still don’t feel happy…
It might not be you.
It might be the goal. 💛

The "F*ck It" button is officially broken.We’ve all been there. Friday night hits, the boredom creeps in, and by Sunday ...
27/01/2026

The "F*ck It" button is officially broken.
We’ve all been there. Friday night hits, the boredom creeps in, and by Sunday morning you’re drowning in a guilt-and-shame spiral because you "blew it" again.�
My client spent years in that loop. Her self-talk was harsh, and her weekends were a danger zone of binging and regret.�
But look at her wins from this week:
* The Saturday Spiral? Cancelled. She navigated the weekend without a single binge.
* The Mirror Test: Instead of cringing at her reflection, she’s actually enjoying watching her body move.
* The Food Freedom Test - she’s moving away from labelling foods as good and bad and thats stopping the spiral�
How did we do it?
We didn't "try harder." We worked on her mindset, reframed her relationship with food, and ensured she was eating regular, substantial meals so her body didn't feel the need to rebel.�
Now, the exercise and the balanced eating are coming naturally to her. No willpower required.�
If you’re tired of being at war with your body and you're ready to actually feel "at home" in your skin, I’m ready to show you the way out.
DM me "SATURDAY" and let’s build your blueprint.

You don’t need another post to nod along to.💁🏼‍♀️You don’t need another “Monday reset.”You don’t need another reminder t...
25/01/2026

You don’t need another post to nod along to.💁🏼‍♀️
You don’t need another “Monday reset.”
You don’t need another reminder that you deserve better.
You already know.

You feel it when you look in the mirror.
When you get dressed.
When you say “I’ll start next week.”
When you feel stuck in the same loops, the same thoughts, the same patterns.

And it’s not because you’re lazy.
Or lacking willpower.

It’s because change is uncomfortable. It’s scary!And staying the same feels safer.

But here’s the thing…
Awareness without action keeps you stuck.
I’m not here to give you motivational quotes that make you feel good for 10 seconds.
I’m not here to tell you everything will magically change.
I’m here to help you actually change.

How you think.
How you treat yourself.
How you show up in your life.
How you make decisions.
How you trust yourself again.

That’s what my 1:1 coaching is about.
Not quick fixes.
Not surface-level habits.
Not shrinking yourself.

Real change.
From the inside out.

And it starts with one brave decision.

If you’re done watching from the sidelines
and ready to step into your life…
DM me EMPOWER ❤️‍🔥

I was destroying my confidence without even noticing.I thought this was just… life. Just the way it had to be.I thought ...
25/01/2026

I was destroying my confidence without even noticing.

I thought this was just… life. Just the way it had to be.

I thought it was normal to look in the mirror and pick myself apart.
I thought it was normal to ruin nights out because I hated how I looked.
I thought it was normal to believe I wasn’t enough.

And the worst part? No one else could hear the things I was saying to myself.

“My thighs are fat.”
“I look horrible.”
“No one will ever love me.”

I let those thoughts control me. They were 100% in the driving seat.

✨ Until I realised something.

It wasn’t my body holding me back—it was my mind.
I was spending every waking moment consumed by self-hate.
I was ruining my own life.

And I didn’t need another diet or workout plan.
I needed to change the way I spoke to myself.

Now? Do I still have negative thoughts?
Of course. Because I’m human. Not some weird only positive thinking being. We got to be real here!

But now, I know how to challenge them.
Now, I don’t let them steal my happiness.
Now, I don’t waste my life waiting to be ‘good enough’.

And this is exactly what I teach in EMPOWER. ❤️‍🔥

24/01/2026

What Life looks like when you no longer....

I spent years worrying over the calories on my plate, comparing myself to others and thinking that my worth was tied to that number on the scale.

I was missing out on living, when these thoughts consumed my head and it took up every waking thought.

I wasn’t present when with my friends, I wore a smile but behind it was sadness, thinking I wasn’t good enough.

I worked on my mindset as well as training and nutrition, I broke free from the hold diet culture had on me.

I found food freedom and body confidence.

And thats exactly why I created EMPOWER, because I believe no women should feel the way I did.

You can break free and I am here to help.

Comment “Mind” and I’ll pop you over something to help

So many women come to me in their 40s convinced they’ve “missed their chance.”That their body is now against them.That w...
23/01/2026

So many women come to me in their 40s convinced they’ve “missed their chance.”

That their body is now against them.

That weight gain is inevitable.

That energy loss is just part of getting older.

That they need to eat less, move more, and accept feeling rubbish.
And honestly? That breaks my heart.
Because none of that is true.

What is true is that your body changes.
Your needs shift.

Your hormones play a bigger role.
Recovery matters more.
Stress hits harder.

But that doesn’t mean that you should just give up.
It means that you just need a different approach.
Not more punishment.

You don’t need to shrink yourself.
You need strength and understanding your body. With some love and kindness.
And a mindset that works with your body, not against it.

If you’ve been blaming yourself for struggling…
It might not be you.
It might be the advice you were given.
And we can change that 💛
Tell me, which myth have you believed for years?

You grew up in the 90’s... now you can’t shake the he**in chic ideal 🖤��I remember it vividly.The magazines scrutinising...
22/01/2026

You grew up in the 90’s... now you can’t shake the he**in chic ideal 🖤��I remember it vividly.
The magazines scrutinising "cellulite" on a size 6 celebrity.

The "Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" mantra we all memorised.
The constant message that to be accepted, we had to be smaller.
We were brainwashed into thinking that reaching a certain number on the scale would solve all our problems.

But it was a lie. Chasing "skinny" doesn't make you happy, it makes you exhausted. �It leads to a life of obsessing, comparing, and missing out on the things that actually matter.�I know I have been there!

The 90s and 00s diet culture has a lot to answer for, but you don't have to carry that weight anymore.

Breaking the cycle isn't about slogging it out in the gym or finding a "better" diet. It’s about healing your mindset and reclaiming your power from a culture that told you, you weren't enough.

I help women over 30 break free from these cycles so they can finally feel confident without the scale ruling their lives.

Ready to start your unlearning journey?

👇 Comment “BREAK” below and I’ll send you my “Thin Ideal Trap” to help you break the pattern and find food freedom.

21/01/2026

One quiet moment that changed everything

It was that moment where I felt so exhausted that I knew I couldn’t go on any longer.

My body and my mind couldn’t take it any longer. I was over exercising and underrating.

My body was screaming for rest and nurture, but I was ignoring. Because thats what we got told to do right?

But when I realised I couldn’t go on like this, that the upset was coming from tiredness and exhaustion. Thats when I knew things needed to change.

So I changed. I focused on my relationship with food and my body, I healed.

I became more confident, stronger and had wayyyy more energy.

The biggest change was that I was happier.

Thats why I became a coach. To help you feel this way too.

DM “coaching” to know more

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