20/03/2026
Parents, I see you.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by your baby’s sleep, I have one message: Stop trying to control the uncontrollable.
As a certified sleep practitioner, the absolute biggest shift I work on with new parents is learning where to focus their energy.
You are NOT failing if your baby is awake! Instead, try to reframe rather than letting the stress of the things ‘not in your control’ steal your peace.
Your job isn’t to make the baby sleep. Your job is to set the stage, the ‘controllable’ environment and routine. Once those elements are set, the actual act of sleep is a developmental milestone your baby must reach in their own time.
Tag a tired parent who needs to see this validation! And save this to remind yourself: Focus on the inner circle, and let the outer circle go.