
16/05/2025
"Who am I if I'm not this version of me?"
The one who earned love through perfection.
Who anticipated everyoneâs needs before they were spoken.
Who never asked for help, but always offered it.
Who stayed two steps ahead â just in case.
When I began healing from the fawn response, I didnât just rest.
I grieved.
Because I realised how much of my life had been built from survival, not truth.
And what followed wasnât just recovery. It was a complete identity unraveling.
This is the part no one talks about.
The space between who you were⌠and who youâre becoming.
Itâs disorienting.
Lonely.
Liberating.
And itâs also where your power begins to return to you.
If youâre here now â feeling unrecognisable, unsure, and quietly awakening â
youâre not broken.
Youâre becoming.
This is the journey of recalibration.
Of returning.
Of learning to live, lead, and love from a place that is finally yours.
⨠You donât have to go back to who you were. Youâre allowed to become who you truly are.
This is my personal invite to your own journey of awakening. DM 'recalibration' to find out more.
With love,
Debs