06/04/2021
Do you ever feel like you're living someone else's life, not your own?
This was how I felt for the majority of 2019. I had done all the things that society tells you to do in order to be happy and yet I felt miserable. I would sit inside my house full of all the stuff Iโd worked so hard for and yet it would still feel empty. I would look around at my seemingly perfect life and feel completely disconnected from it.
It wasnโt until a year ago when I started to delve deeper to figure out what the hell was wrong with me that I started to see the truth. That the happily ever after I had been sold by society โ get a good job, get married, buy a house, start a family โ was for ME never going to satisfy me. That by continuing down the path I was on, I was denying who I really was and what I actually wanted. So why was I doing it?? Because it was easy.
And this is the trap that so many people fall into. They want change but they donโt want to put in the work to make it happen. Because to actually create the life you want takes effort, hard work, radical responsibility and a hell of a lot of courage. It means you have to be willing to make sacrifices, face difficult decisions and sit with uncertainty about whether or not something is going to work out or not.
This is why I buried my head in the sand and refused to admit to even myself what I wanted. Because I knew once I did that I would have to do something about it and that was going to mean I had to change. But without being honest with ourselves and admitting what it is that we really want how can we ever expect to achieve it.
Has the past year been terrifying?? Yes every fu***ng day. Has it been worth it though?? Absolutely, a million percent, every fu***ng day
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