08/05/2026
What I have been trying to communicate since I started this path of working with the body and with another human being - and what I continue to observe, read and experience - namely calm touch, slower pace of work, safety, not forcing tissues and the self-regulation of the person working with someone during a session, is becoming more and more supported by research related to the nervous system, co-regulation and the therapeutic relationship.
Research shows that the level of activation and the state of the therapist’s nervous system have a direct effect on the client, because both nervous systems influence each other.
The sympathetic nervous system is responsible for mobilisation of the body.
It is what activates the fight or flight response.
It increases heart rate, muscle tension, raises the level of activation and prepares the body for action, defence or quick reaction. In other words, whenever the nervous system, through the senses, detects a lack of safety.
The parasympathetic nervous system works in the opposite way.
It is responsible for recovery, rest, digestion and returning the body to balance. This happens when we observe and perceive a safe environment.
It is thanks to the parasympathetic system that breathing slows down, the heart starts beating more calmly, the body releases tension and the organism can regenerate.
One of the main nerves connected to the parasympathetic nervous system is the vagus nerve, which I wrote about here:
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More and more research also points to the fact that the client’s nervous system responds not only to the technique itself, but also to the state of the person providing the therapy.
The pace of movement, tone of voice, quality of touch, presence, predictability of contact and the therapist’s level of activation all influence how the other person’s body perceives the situation.
The nervous system is constantly scanning the environment for signals of safety or threat.
If the therapist is calm, stable and does not work aggressively, the client’s body can gradually lower its level of activation.
Breathing begins to deepen, muscles stop maintaining such a high level of tension and the body starts lowering its state of readiness and protective tension.
Research is also increasingly referring to HRV, meaning heart rate variability.
This is one of the more important indicators showing how flexibly the nervous system can shift between activation and recovery.
Higher HRV is generally associated with a better ability to regulate, adapt and return to balance after stress.
That is why in bodywork it is not only the technique itself that matters.
Equally important are the pace of the work, the quality of contact and whether the body receives signals that it no longer needs to defend itself.
Work performed aggressively, mechanically and with forceful pressure on tissues often increases the body’s defensive response.
The body may perceive this as another stress stimulus.
That is why calm, precise work and gradually entering tense areas instead of “attacking” them with force is so important.
This is when the body is more likely to begin releasing tension naturally rather than through pressure.
And more and more evidence suggests that it is not only about the tissues themselves, but also about the state of the nervous system and the sense of safety the body experiences during contact.
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