The Relationship Resilience Coach

The Relationship Resilience Coach Advocating for authentic, healthier, and more rewarding relationships that bring happiness in the home and workplace. I wish I could visit every week!!

My journey began as a child with my hands called 'hot' and 'calming' and a gift of 'sight' being able to channel guidance and messages. I completed my Reiki 1 in 2005 and went on to become a Reiki Master Teacher in 2017. I'm also qualified in Colour Spiritual Healing and have been a volunteer therapist at the Fountain Centre in Guildford for three years. I work with people of all ages face to face

in clinics and remotely. Clients want to feel better emotionally and mentally, physically and spiritually. I see clients who have struggled with losing a loved one, healing emotions from abuse, who are stressed and anxious, feeling lost and ready to refind their 'mojo' after unexpected life events. As a long-term student and since 2015, a teacher of mindfulness, I've taught in companies, schools and charities supporting adults and children to better manage anxiety and stress.

“Tosh worked her magic when I was recently unwell with covid. She used energy healing and it worked miracles! I woke up the next day – my sense of smell had returned and I felt so much clearer. Not only that but she is a fountain of knowledge regarding how to support health naturally. Thank you Tosh" AT, Hampshire

“I struggle with holding on to negative emotions and suffer from anxiety. The healing sessions I have done with Tosh have helped me enormously to release this and rebalance my body and mind, leaving me feeling more relaxed and focused for the challenges I’m facing in my life at present. Thank you Tosh – JE, Hampshire

“I use a number of healing modalities and one of my most life-changing healing sessions happened with Tosh Brittan. With the many issues I had Tosh managed to allay my fears and help me heal the seed which was the root of all my issues. Her kindness and approachability helped me feel relaxed and after the treatment a clear space had been created. I thank you so much for the work you did” – JAT, Lincs

“I have been fortunate enough to have had Tosh’s help on a number of occasions; her Reiki has helped me relax and unwind but most noticeably has helped enormously with stress-related tension as well as physical pain as a result of painful and swollen veins. Her empathy, soothing, wise words and guidance, and, above all, her ability to help steer my thoughts in a positive direction has made a difference to my emotional well-being at various pinch points in my life. I recommend her to you wholeheartedly” – FR, West Sussex

“I went to Tosh at a difficult time in my life when stress from work was really taking its toll and it was starting to make me ill. Tosh’s treatments were empowering, amazing, and life-changing. During the treatments, I could literally feel the negative energy clearing away. Afterwards, I was left with the most overwhelming feeling of calmness and peace. This gave me the renewed inner strength that I needed to re-address my work in a more constructive, calmer, and positive way so that I felt in control again.” – RP, Regional Sales Manager, Dubai, UAE.

Kindness for conflict encourages you to step into your power. Be the change for you first and help yourself move out of ...
01/05/2025

Kindness for conflict encourages you to step into your power. Be the change for you first and help yourself move out of feeling like a victim and into a future that is less emotionally charged when coparenting, dating and living your new chapter.

You are in control of so much more and you’re not falling into victim mode and your Ex’s drama when you come from a place of kindness. The energy feels better, easier and more in control (rather than controlling) less gut punchingly unkind and tiring - the DMMs (divorce mind monkeys) are running the show in victim mode and you know they’re not helpful.

Coming from a place of calm, clarity and confidence is where you reconnect to you, you take your power back and where your strength lies.

If you’re ready to change the energy around how you are feeling and coming from a more empowered place that feels better for your divorce pop me over a DM to book a 90 min call with me and let’s get you feeling more lighthouse - shining your lovely light.

Tosh x

Cannot say how much fun this was!! Through the most incredible scenery, white water rafting on fresh chilly water (and i...
30/04/2025

Cannot say how much fun this was!!

Through the most incredible scenery, white water rafting on fresh chilly water (and in - yes we dipped too) and wonderful instructors.

Putting myself out of my comfort zone, managing those mind monkeys and finding the courage within to just ‘do it’ is what I’m never going to stop doing. This reminded me of how easy it is for life to become smaller and safer - not having any of that! 🤣

Sharing this experience with my beautiful girl was the gift. 🌊💖🌲

Something that can be forgotten in amongst divorce messiness.Our divorce mind monkeys (for more on them see my book) wan...
23/04/2025

Something that can be forgotten in amongst divorce messiness.

Our divorce mind monkeys (for more on them see my book) want to keep you safe, they just don’t always have the best knowledge to do so.

With clients we look at their divorce from an ‘observers’ perspective. We get out of the ‘they did this and they did that’ blame game and we look at what we can work with moving forwards rather than having to redesign the wheel.

Having a better divorce is also about kindness to yourself and this is about emotionally disentangling yourself from within an old framework and creating your new one.

Being discerning with your precious time and energy is a choice and if things are still too messy for you and it’s time to change everything up a level DM me for details on my personalised 90 minutes one off divorce coaching call where we get this framework in place for you to be able to build upon.

It’s really never to late, negative emotions such as anger, guilt, grief etc are good when they are cleared. They can hang around otherwise, which isn’t ever great for your future. More on this to come…






A solo visit to experience time with my beautiful girl, meet others and time on my own exploring a city, drinking coffee...
18/04/2025

A solo visit to experience time with my beautiful girl, meet others and time on my own exploring a city, drinking coffee alone on a holiday weekend (Bel is working). Watching those families walking together is often a wake up call not just for a sadness, but also to how fortunate we are and can feel enjoying the peace, solitude and the knowing that it’s actually okay to be on your own.

What’s your experience and how have you managed? 👇👇 I’d love to know.

adventures yesterday 🌲 🌲
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For anyone who needs to hear this 💛💛💛💛💛
11/04/2025

For anyone who needs to hear this 💛💛💛💛💛

Einstein said doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome is the definition of insanity.I...
05/04/2025

Einstein said doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome is the definition of insanity.

I love the quote about we all have to do what we don’t want to do to get to where we want to go.

There’s not one person who wants to change their life and how they feel, that doesn’t have to do the work- and sometimes maybe even enjoy the ride.

Changing how you view and choose to experience your divorce is ultimately up to you. It takes one small (and big) step out of your comfort zone first.

Or you can stay where you are, doing what you’ve always done and stay holding and feeling what you feel about you and perhaps your Ex.

How do you start changing this? You begin to do small stuff differently - like changing the words you use about yourself - there’s no place for ‘should’, ‘idiot’, ‘fool’… and the words you use that undermines you, makes you feel small and judged. Begin with changing you first, with self-love and kindness, make some gentle time for you always. 💛 begin today.
And if you’re stuck my one off 90min Empowerment Divorce coaching session could just be what you need to kick start the change - to book a clarity call chat DM me💛🦋









How are you doing? 👇let me know below x
25/03/2025

How are you doing? 👇let me know below x

Stand in your power 🔥 people will believe what they want to believe - remember they look through the lens of their own e...
28/02/2025

Stand in your power 🔥 people will believe what they want to believe - remember they look through the lens of their own experience not yours.

They’ll be people that listen and those that don’t - you’ll know your people.

And the old ones? Them leaving makes space for new lovely people.

Happy days x





💖it’s all about fun  thank you via  💖
14/02/2025

💖it’s all about fun thank you via 💖

Gratitude is a fierce tool to be having in your divorce toolbox 🔥🔥🔥🔥
09/02/2025

Gratitude is a fierce tool to be having in your divorce toolbox 🔥🔥🔥🔥






Just one step for you… what are you going to do? Let us know in the comments ❤️
30/01/2025

Just one step for you… what are you going to do? Let us know in the comments ❤️







It begins with👇Learning to trust yourself again.I’m excited to offer new Instagram clients a special one-time, 90-minute...
04/01/2025

It begins with👇

Learning to trust yourself again.

I’m excited to offer new Instagram clients a special one-time, 90-minute online coaching session in February 2025. During this session, we will outline the precise steps needed to establish a solid framework that empowers you and lays a strong foundation for your future through and beyond divorce. Many others have successfully done this, and I am confident that you can achieve it and trust yourself again as well.

DM me for info pack.

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You are in this space to WIN not fail!

If no one has told you today, you are valued and capable of rising like a Phoenix to create the life you desire.

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