13/05/2026
Aa a neurodivergent, daily interactions often make me feel like Jean Grey, the Dark Phoenix absorbing the powerful energy of the sun.
As an English teacher and Trauma-Sensitive Yoga Therapist, this has helped me understand how social communication affects the nervous system. Yet, for years, my own biology was completely depleted from fighting my own AuDHD traits. Accepting my neurodivergence wasn’t a mindset shift; it was a survival strategy to recharge my batteries.
Here is what that looks like for me:
🧠 Object Permanence: If it’s not in front of me, it slips away. People, places, things. It’s never a lack of caring; my brain just prioritizes what’s in front of me.
⏱️ Time Blindness: Two months or 20 years feel identical. When I reconnect with a friend, my brain picks up exactly where we left off. Linear time feels irrelevant.
📝 The “Surprise Essay” Effect: Group chats, messages, and random calls feel like high-stakes cognitive assignments. Masking makes digital contact utterly exhausting.
🌀 Monotropic Focus: When my work is busy, my brain funnels all power into one single tunnel to avoid burnout. Cutting off social bandwidth is a mental necessity.
💬 No Superficial Scripts: I loathe small talk. I prefer passionate deep dives. Because I am blunt and direct, I often get misunderstood as rude.
⚖️ Injustice Sensitivity & Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria: I over-analyse every interaction: feedback feels like severe criticism. I also deeply struggle to connect with anyone indifferent to social injustice or politics because it affects my disability.
🧘♀️ How This Connects to My Work: In my trauma-sensitive yoga sessions, I build the exact unmasked spaces our brains need. Zero social scripts. No expectations to perform. If your batteries are flat, you can show up entirely non-verbal and let your body safely process the overload.
Drop a 🔌 below if this is your brain, or DM me (zero pressure!) for 1:1 neuro-affirming somatic support.