03/08/2025
Ever feel like the more you “work on yourself,” the more exhausted and confused you feel? 😩
You’re meditating, journaling, reading all the self-love books, doing yoga, attending workshops… and somehow still wondering:
“WHY am I not a glowing goddess of inner peace yet?!” 😅
You’re not broken. You’re just in it. And guess what? You’re doing better than you think 💛
Here’s a little laugh (and truth) for all the women doing the work… and still feeling a bit wobbly:
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10 Things Women on a Self-Growth Journey Do… and Still Wonder If They’re Doing It All Wrong” 😅✨
1. 📖 Read a book about self-love… and then argue with their reflection in the mirror.
2. 🧘♀️ Meditate… but spend the whole time planning dinner and mentally fighting with their mom.
3. 🧎♀️ Go to yoga, but the only thing really stretched is their patience.
4. ✍️ Write down three things they’re grateful for, then throw the pen because it’s always “coffee, cat, and a warm blanket.”
5. 🗓️ Try to slow down, but their calendar says: “Inner Child Healing at 6PM.”
6. 😬 Feel more connected to themselves, and simultaneously can’t stand themselves (hello, hormones).
7. 🪞 Say affirmations like “I love myself,” while their inner voice rolls its eyes.
8. 🍫 Start the day with a deep quote on Instagram, end it face-first in chocolate and Netflix tears.
9. 💥 Understand their emotions, but still scream at their partner (with love, obviously).
10. 🚗 Hear “You’re on the right path” and think: “Then why do I feel like I’m in the trunk?!”
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💛 And that’s okay.
Self-growth isn’t a clean, sparkly Pinterest board.
It’s messy. It’s sweaty. It’s full of overthinking and mood swings and breakthroughs at 2AM.
Don’t quit reading the books. 📚
Don’t stop going to yoga,
Don’t stop your breathwork exercises
Don’t stop attending workshops
Don’t stop looking for an answers
But maybe… also allow yourself to just BE sometimes.
Not fixing. Not upgrading. Just existing — soft, human, enough.
Because growth isn’t about becoming a perfect version of you.
It’s about becoming more you. The real one.
Messy, magical, moody and magnificent 💫
Sending love & laughs — because healing can have both 🫶💛