20/12/2025
Stop “protecting your core” like it’s made of glass.
If you’ve had back pain for a while, there’s a decent chance you’ve been taught some version of:
“Brace your core before every move.”
“Keep a neutral spine at all times.”
“Don’t bend / don’t twist / don’t round.”
“Your core is weak, that’s why your back hurts.”
Here’s the problem…
For a lot of people, that advice turns your back into something you feel you have to constantly guard.
And when your brain starts treating a movement as dangerous, pain often ramps up, you stiffen, and you stop trusting your body.
Stability isn’t about being rigid.
It’s about having options — being able to move, load, bend, rotate, and return to calm again.
What I see all the time:
People “brace” so hard they:
hold their breath (hello pressure + tension),
move like a robot,
avoid the exact patterns they need to get confident again,
and then wonder why their back feels tight and fragile.
Try this instead (3 practical ways to lift and move with less fear)
1) Swap “brace hard” for “breathe and move”.
Before you lift something (a weight, a laundry basket, a child), try this:
gentle exhale as you start the effort,
let your ribs move,
keep your belly engaged but not locked.
Think: “strong, but not stiff.”
If you’re bracing like you’re about to be punched… you’re probably overdoing it.
2) Use the “Goldilocks load” rule (not too much, not too little).
Most flare-ups happen when people go from:
avoiding → to doing loads of bending/lifting in one go.
Instead, choose a starting point that feels:
easy to moderate (you feel it, but it doesn’t spike fear),
repeatable,
and you recover from it within 24 hours.
Then build in small jumps:
a bit more weight,
a few more reps,
a slightly deeper range,
or one extra set.
Progress beats perfection. Every time.
3) Change RANGE before you quit the activity.
If bending/lifting feels “dodgy”, don’t automatically stop.
Try scaling it:
smaller bend,
higher start position,
split stance,
slower tempo,
or lighter load.
This keeps you practising the pattern your back needs to relearn as “safe”, without poking the bear too hard.
The goal isn’t a perfect spine.
The goal is confidence under real-life loads.
Because life involves:
picking things up,
getting in/out of the car,
gardening,
kids,
work,
shopping bags,
and awkward movements you didn’t plan.
And your back is built for that.
If you’re stuck in the cycle of over-bracing / overthinking / avoiding, I can help you rebuild it properly — hands-on when useful, but always with a clear plan to get you stronger and more confident.