In Your Corner Hypnotherapy & NLP

19/12/2025

19/12/2025

Every time a parent compares, a child learns to hide their true self.💔

19/12/2025

If you avoid conflict just to keep the peace, you may look calm on the outside, but inside, a war slowly begins.

Every time you stay silent when something hurts you, every time you swallow your truth to make others comfortable, you teach yourself that your feelings don’t matter. You call it “being mature,” “being patient,” or “not wanting drama.” But what you’re really doing is storing resentment, frustration, and unspoken pain. And those things don’t disappear. They pile up.

Avoiding conflict doesn’t create peace. It creates tension within you. It shows up as anxiety, exhaustion, irritability, and emotional distance. You start feeling unheard, unseen, and slowly disconnected, from others and from yourself. You smile in public but feel heavy in private. That’s the war you’re fighting alone.

Real peace doesn’t come from silence. It comes from honesty. From having uncomfortable conversations. From setting boundaries even when your voice shakes. From choosing self-respect over people-pleasing. Yes, conflict can be uncomfortable. Yes, it can be messy. But it’s often the doorway to clarity, growth, and deeper respect.

When you express how you feel, you give others a chance to understand you. And if they choose not to, that tells you something important too. Peace that costs you your mental health, your self-worth, or your voice is not peace, it’s self-betrayal.

You don’t need to fight everyone. You don’t need to explain yourself to everyone. But you owe it to yourself to stop shrinking just to keep things “smooth.” Your inner peace matters more than fake harmony.

Choose courage over comfort. Choose truth over silence. Because the loudest battles are the ones we fight within ourselves, and those are the ones we deserve to win.

16/12/2025

Until you heal yourself, you’ll be toxic to every person who tries to love you.

That doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. It means you’re carrying wounds that were never given the care they deserved. Unhealed pain doesn’t stay quiet, it leaks. It shows up as anger when someone is patient with you, distance when someone gets close, control when you feel unsafe, and defensiveness when love asks you to be vulnerable.

When you haven’t healed, you may push away the very people who want the best for you. You may test their loyalty, doubt their intentions, or hurt them before they have a chance to hurt you. Not because you want to, but because pain has taught you to protect yourself at all costs.

Healing is not about becoming perfect. It’s about becoming aware. It’s about recognizing your triggers, taking responsibility for your reactions, and choosing growth over comfort. It’s learning to sit with your emotions instead of projecting them onto others. It’s understanding that love is not meant to fix you, you must do that work.

The truth is, people can only meet you as deeply as you’ve met yourself. If you are broken inside, you will break connections no matter how pure they are. But when you choose healing, everything changes. Love feels safer. Communication becomes softer. Relationships stop feeling like battlefields and start feeling like homes.

So take the time you need. Do the inner work. Heal your past so it doesn’t poison your present. Because when you heal yourself, you don’t just save relationships, you become someone who can finally receive love without fear.

Healing isn’t selfish. It’s necessary.✅

16/12/2025

I got over 290 reactions on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉 I really appreciate your support

11/12/2025

Wise words from Carl Jung. Allow me to help you to help you. Together we can look inside

10/12/2025

The Story of the Two Pots

An elderly woman owned two large pots that hung from opposite ends of a pole resting across her shoulders. Each day, she carried them along the long path from the stream to her home.

One pot was flawless. It always arrived filled to the brim, proud of the perfection with which it performed its duty.
The other pot had a crack along its side. By the time the woman reached home, it was only half full.

For two years, this routine continued without change. The woman brought home one-and-a-half pots of water each day. While the perfect pot swelled with pride, the cracked pot felt only shame. It believed it had failed in the very purpose for which it had been made.

After years of quiet disappointment, the cracked pot finally spoke one day beside the stream.

“I am so ashamed,” it said to the woman. “Because of my crack, I leak water the entire walk back, and I cannot do what I was meant to do.”

The old woman smiled gently.

“Have you ever noticed the flowers growing on your side of the path?” she asked. “Look closely — there are none on the other side.”

She continued,
“I have always known about your crack. Long ago, I planted flower seeds along your side of the trail. Every day as we walk home, you water them without even realizing it.”

“For two years, I have gathered those flowers to decorate our table and bring beauty into our home. Without you being exactly the way you are, those flowers would not exist.”

The cracked pot fell silent — not with shame this time, but with a newfound sense of purpose.
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Moral of the Story

Every one of us has cracks, flaws, and imperfections. Yet it is often those very imperfections that allow beauty to grow in our lives and in the lives of others.

We don’t succeed in spite of our flaws — sometimes, we succeed because of them.

When we learn to see people not for what they lack, but for the quiet beauty they bring, we discover how wonderfully meaningful our differences truly are.

10/12/2025

07/12/2025

Proof we need to talk