30/10/2025
I haven’t shared much about Breast Cancer Awareness Month this year…
and for a while I felt a bit guilty about that.
But as everyone knows, cancer doesn’t just belong to October.
It’s threaded through every single day, in the living scan-to-scan, the constant planning and re-planning,
and the slightly chaotic, whack-a-mole feeling when something new pops up and needs attention.
Just because I’m quiet, doesn’t mean it’s not there. I have survived four diagnosis over the last 20 years but it doesn’t end. It’s simply woven into life now, motherhood, work, joy, grief, all sitting side-by-side. It led me to my doula life, it has made me a better mumma, more understanding, empathetic and kind than I could ever hope to be and I have had the fortune to meet the most inspiring and wonderful people. I am so proud of who it has made me and the resilience and courage it continues to give me.
I’m endlessly grateful for the hands that hold me. My friends, family, incredible care teams and for the women walking this crazy, ever undulating path too.
We see each other.
We get it.
And we carry on, messy, brave, and human.
Sending big love to anyone in this space right now.
You are not alone. 🩷
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