The Fairy BirthMother

The Fairy BirthMother Hi, I’m Vicky, a mummy of 3 and founder of The Fairy BirthMother. I provide holistic antenatal and postnatal support for bump, birth, baby, and beyond.

Antenatal | Postnatal | Hypnobirthing🤰🏻
Breastfeeding🤱
Holistic Support Pregnancy & Baby Classes
Continuity of Care🌟
Accredited📍
Woking/Guildford/surrounding areas
Online My mission is to empower and support families through their journey with personalized care, guidance, and love. Let’s nurture your pregnancy and parenting journey together! 🌿✨

15/10/2025

Why Lactose-Free Isn’t the Answer for Almost All Babies…

Most babies aren’t actually lactose intolerant. Lactose is the main carbohydrate in human milk and it’s essential for brain growth, gut development and overall health. Taking it away long term can have a real impact on how babies grow and thrive.

Lactose-free formula is often sold as the answer to wind, reflux or tummy upset, but in reality, this is just another marketing tool.

Need personalised feeding advice? 💛
Send me a DM and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

What is a let-down? 🌟The let-down reflex is your body’s amazing way of moving milk from your breasts to your baby. It ca...
13/10/2025

What is a let-down? 🌟
The let-down reflex is your body’s amazing way of moving milk from your breasts to your baby. It can happen a few times in a feed, sometimes without you even noticing! You might feel a tingling, warmth, or slight fullness, or it can just happen quietly. Gentle breast compressions, your baby’s suckling, or even hearing them cry can trigger another let-down. Every mum’s experience is unique, but it’s all perfectly normal. 💛

For personalised feeding advice, send me a DM and I’ll be happy to help.

12/10/2025

Want to avoid a C-section or assisted birth? Start with this.
Most people don’t realise that lying on your back in labour wasn’t designed for safer births. It was created for doctor convenience. Upright, forward and open (UFO) positions can dramatically lower your risk of intervention and help your body work with gravity, not against it.
Birth was never meant to be flat, still or controlled. It was instinctive, supported and powerful. When you move, squat, lean or kneel, your pelvis opens, your baby can descend more easily and labour can progress more smoothly.
If you want a better chance of a straightforward, physiological birth, your position matters more than you think.
✨ I teach all of this (and so much more) in my antenatal and hypnobirthing course launching next year. Follow to stay updated and get on the waitlist.

🤱 Did you know that 8 out of 10 people stop breastfeeding before they wanted to?Most of the time, it’s not because you d...
09/10/2025

🤱 Did you know that 8 out of 10 people stop breastfeeding before they wanted to?

Most of the time, it’s not because you didn’t want to continue, it’s because you didn’t have the right support or knowledge to overcome early challenges.

My Preparing to Breastfeed course will change that. It will give you the knowledge and power to absolutely smash breastfeeding and handle all the bumps in the road from day one. You’ll get a comprehensive handbook filled with all my knowledge and up-to-date advice to keep by your side.

I don’t just dump and run. I offer continuity of care, which is why you get a free check in call when baby arrives with no expiration date, so you can use it anytime in your breastfeeding journey.

✨ Let me help you turn your breastfeeding hopes into a reality, one feed at a time.

💬 DM me the word BOOB for more info and to book your place.

💗 Baby Loss Awareness Week 💗(9th–15th October)This week, we honour and remember all the little ones who never got to sta...
09/10/2025

💗 Baby Loss Awareness Week 💗
(9th–15th October)

This week, we honour and remember all the little ones who never got to stay, the babies loved beyond measure and never forgotten.

If someone you love is walking through baby loss, know that your words, presence, and compassion can mean the world. Sometimes it’s not about finding the right thing to say, but simply being there. 💫

Here are a few gentle ways to offer support:
🌸 Say their baby’s name, it matters.
🌸 Listen without trying to fix.
🌸 Acknowledge milestones and anniversaries.
🌸 Offer practical help, a meal, childcare, a walk.
🌸 Keep showing up, even long after the loss.

To every parent who has experienced loss, your grief, love, and strength are seen. 💕 You are never alone.

🕯️ Join the Wave of Light on 15th October at 7pm by lighting a candle in memory of all the babies gone too soon.

✨ My DM is always open to anyone that needs or wants to talk ❤️

Pain Relief in Labour: Your Options, Pros and ConsLabour can feel overwhelming, especially when you are trying to decide...
09/10/2025

Pain Relief in Labour: Your Options, Pros and Cons

Labour can feel overwhelming, especially when you are trying to decide what pain relief is right for you. Understanding your options and how each might impact your birth wishes is essential. From natural coping techniques to medical options like epidurals, knowing the benefits and considerations of each choice helps you feel confident and in control.

I always encourage parents to make informed decisions that suit their own needs and their baby’s wellbeing rather than following outdated advice or societal pressure. My complete antenatal and hypnobirthing course goes through all pain relief options in detail, helping you feel prepared and empowered for your birth.

📩 DM me to learn more or book your place on the course.

Realistic expectations for the first 3 months: your baby will want to be held… a lot!Wondering “Why does my newborn alwa...
07/10/2025

Realistic expectations for the first 3 months: your baby will want to be held… a lot!

Wondering “Why does my newborn always want to be held?” or “How do I cope with a clingy baby?” You’re not alone. Society sets out-of-date expectations, but biology tells a different story: newborns need almost constant physical contact in those first months.

I always emphasise following your baby’s cues and respecting biological norms rather than forcing unrealistic schedules.

If you’re struggling or unsure what’s normal, my Power Hours over Zoom are perfect. We can talk through your concerns and create practical, supportive solutions tailored to you and your baby.

This is the first post in a series on realistic expectations for the first 3 months—follow me for more insights and guidance.

📩 DM me for more info and to book your session.

05/10/2025

Did you know that all standard baby formulas in the UK have to meet the exact same legal nutritional standards?
That means Aptamil, SMA, Cow & Gate, Kendamil, Mamia, Lidl, Hipp are nutritionally the SAME. The price difference? Branding.
Formula companies aren’t allowed to advertise stage 1 milk under the WHO Code, so what do they do?
They market unnecessary follow-on and toddler milks just to get their branding in front of parents. Babies never need to switch from stage 1.
And those “hungry baby”, “comfort”, “colic” and “anti-reflux” formulas?
❌ Not recommended by NHS or WHO
❌ No proven nutritional benefit
❌ Include additives that don’t fix the actual issue
If added ingredients really worked and there was scientific research to prove this, they’d legally have to be in every formula.
Some babies tolerate one brand better than another because of oils or probiotics, but nutritionally they are all identical by law.
And those feeding guides on the tin And purposely Iinflated. More scoops = more tins sold.
Responsive feeding and safe prep will always matter more than the brand.
If you’re unsure what to choose or when to switch, ask someone trained in infant feeding, not the marketing team behind a gold lid.

Induction of labour explained Induction of labour is one of the most common maternity interventions in the UK. Many pare...
01/10/2025

Induction of labour explained

Induction of labour is one of the most common maternity interventions in the UK. Many parents feel anxious or unsure if they haven’t been fully informed about the process. Understanding induction, the methods used, how long it can take, and how it may affect your birth options can help you feel calmer, more prepared, and in control.

Pregnant parents often ask:

What is induction of labour and how does it work?

When is induction medically necessary?

How long does induction take?

Does induction hurt more than natural labour?

What are the risks and benefits of induction?

Can I still have a natural birth if I am induced?

My Complete Antenatal & Hypnobirthing Course launching in 2026 covers induction of labour, natural birth preparation, pain relief options, and everything else you need to feel confident for birth. With evidence-based guidance, practical tools, and mindset support, you can approach labour with confidence and clarity.

💡 Preparation and knowledge reduce anxiety, support positive birth experiences, and help you make informed choices.

✨ Birth doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or out of your control ✨When you understand how your body works in labour, wha...
26/09/2025

✨ Birth doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or out of your control ✨

When you understand how your body works in labour, what your hormones are designed to do, and how hypnobirthing techniques can keep you calm and confident, you give yourself the best chance of having a smoother, more positive birth experience.

My Complete Antenatal & Hypnobirthing Course will:
🌸 Teach you the stages of labour and what to expect
🌸 Give you practical tools for relaxation and comfort
🌸 Empower your birth partner with knowledge and confidence
🌸 Help you feel prepared whether you’re planning a home birth, midwife-led unit or hospital birth

📍 Available in person around Woking & Guildford or online anywhere in the UK, this course is designed to support you through pregnancy, birth, and beyond.

💌 DM me today to book your space or find out more.

✨ Don’t Forget to Prepare for Breastfeeding ✨We spend so much time planning for birth, writing preferences, researching ...
23/09/2025

✨ Don’t Forget to Prepare for Breastfeeding ✨

We spend so much time planning for birth, writing preferences, researching options, and thinking about how it might all unfold. But breastfeeding is often left until after baby arrives, when you’re already tired, emotional, and trying to figure it out on the spot.

Preparing before birth makes such a difference. Knowing what’s normal, how supply works, and what to expect in those early days helps you feel calmer and more confident, giving you the best start to your feeding journey.

That’s why I created my Prepare to Breastfeed course. Available in person or online, it gives you practical tools, evidence-based knowledge, and reassurance for the journey ahead. 💛

📩 Message me or visit my website to book your space.

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