The Fairy BirthMother

The Fairy BirthMother Hi, I’m Vicky, a mummy of 3 and founder of The Fairy BirthMother. I provide holistic antenatal and postnatal support for bump, birth, baby, and beyond.

Antenatal | Postnatal | Hypnobirthing🤰🏻
Breastfeeding🤱
Holistic Support Pregnancy & Baby Classes
Continuity of Care🌟
Accredited📍
Woking/Guildford/surrounding areas
Online My mission is to empower and support families through their journey with personalized care, guidance, and love. Let’s nurture your pregnancy and parenting journey together! 🌿✨

Some things are worth waiting for… 💛 The last days of pregnancy are full of excitement, nerves, and anticipation. Asking...
03/09/2025

Some things are worth waiting for… 💛

The last days of pregnancy are full of excitement, nerves, and anticipation. Asking “has the baby arrived?” can add extra pressure, so let’s let parents share their news in their own time. Your support and patience mean the world. 🤍

If you’re pregnant, save this post for later, share it with friends, or send it to someone who’s expecting, they’ll thank you!

🍂 Hello September! 🍂I’m a September baby, and I’ve always loved this month, not just because it’s my birthday 🎉, but it’...
01/09/2025

🍂 Hello September! 🍂

I’m a September baby, and I’ve always loved this month, not just because it’s my birthday 🎉, but it’s also my anniversary, and the start of beautiful autumn vibes.

Are you a September baby or expecting your little one this month? 💛 Tag yourself or your bump below!

To celebrate my birthday month, I’m offering a huge discount on my Prepare to Breastfeed course – just £25! 🎁
More info in the pinned post or via the link in my bio.

🌙 Why babies and little ones wake at night 🌙Night waking isn’t a “bad habit” or something that can be 'trained'.  Waking...
31/08/2025

🌙 Why babies and little ones wake at night 🌙

Night waking isn’t a “bad habit” or something that can be 'trained'. Waking up is completely normal and actually a protective part of their development (research even links it with a lower risk of SIDS).

Think about your own nights this week… did you wake to go to the loo? Have a drink? Roll over? We all wake. The difference is, as adults we know what time it is, how to get back to sleep, and often we have someone beside us.

Now imagine being tiny, in the dark, with no concept of time, missing your mummy. Of course they wake and call out.

We need to change the story around baby sleep, ditch the impossible expectations, and remember that night waking is biologically normal.

I know it’s hard – I’ve been there, I’m still there. Sleep deprivation is brutal. But it is a phase, and it will pass. You and your little one will get through it 💛

🚨 Attention parents in the UK! From January 2026, all children will be offered a free chickenpox (varicella) vaccine as ...
29/08/2025

🚨 Attention parents in the UK!

From January 2026, all children will be offered a free chickenpox (varicella) vaccine as part of their routine NHS immunisations. 🧒💉

The NHS will also provide a catch-up programme for toddlers and preschoolers who have recently missed it.

Protect your little ones from chickenpox complications and keep up with the latest vaccination schedule.

📍 UK parents: Speak to your GP about your child’s MMRV vaccine appointments and catch-up options.

This is not for a debate on vaccines. Any misinformation will be deleted. ❤️

It’s Black Breastfeeding Week UK (25–31 August) a week to celebrate and support the breastfeeding journeys of Black and ...
25/08/2025

It’s Black Breastfeeding Week UK (25–31 August) a week to celebrate and support the breastfeeding journeys of Black and Brown mothers.

This week highlights the disparities Black and Brown mothers face, from lack of representation in support, to being more likely to be offered formula in hospital, and generational barriers.

Representation matters. Support matters. Community matters.

✨ Tag your favourite breastfeeding, antenatal, or baby accounts run by Black or Brown women.

BlackBreastfeedingWeek

🌈 Today is Rainbow Baby Day. A rainbow baby is a baby born after loss, representing hope, love, and light after the stor...
22/08/2025

🌈 Today is Rainbow Baby Day. A rainbow baby is a baby born after loss, representing hope, love, and light after the storm.

This day is about gently recognising the mixture of emotions many families hold, remembering the babies gone too soon, while celebrating those who arrived afterwards.

For every parent who has walked this path, your story matters, your grief is valid, and your babies, both in your arms and in your hearts, are always loved 🌈✨

✨ Fourth Trimester Tips Every Parent Should Know ✨The first few months with your newborn can feel overwhelming, confusin...
21/08/2025

✨ Fourth Trimester Tips Every Parent Should Know ✨

The first few months with your newborn can feel overwhelming, confusing, and exhausting, but a few simple tips can make a world of difference. I’ve put together my top tips for the fourth trimester to help you feel more confident, supported, and organised.

💌 Want my FREE Fourth Trimester Caddy Essentials Checklist? Comment CADDY below and I’ll send it straight to you!

What side do you naturally hold a baby?
14/08/2025

What side do you naturally hold a baby?

What if birth didn’t have to be scary?From the moment we’re old enough to hear birth stories, we’re shown dramatic TV sc...
12/08/2025

What if birth didn’t have to be scary?
From the moment we’re old enough to hear birth stories, we’re shown dramatic TV scenes, told horror stories, and given rushed, surface-level information that leaves us doubting our bodies and our ability to give birth.

💡 Antenatal education and hypnobirthing can change everything.
By learning how birth works, what your options are, and how to work with your body instead of against it, you can walk into labour feeling calm, confident, and in control, no matter how your birth unfolds.

My Antenatal & Hypnobirthing Course is designed to:
✨ Replace fear with knowledge
✨ Give you practical tools for labour and birth
✨ Help you trust your body and instincts
✨ Prepare your birth partner so they can fully support you

Both in person and online options available

📩 DM me to join the waitlist and be the first to know when dates are released for both in-person and online sessions. Spaces are limited, so priority booking goes to my waitlist first.

It’s a question almost every pregnant person asks at some point, and the truth is, even second or third time parents can...
10/08/2025

It’s a question almost every pregnant person asks at some point, and the truth is, even second or third time parents can feel unsure.
Braxton Hicks are your body’s “practice contractions”, a bit like a rehearsal before the big day. They help tone and prepare your uterus for labour. You might first notice them from around the second trimester, but they often become more noticeable in the third. They are usually irregular and don’t get closer together. The sensation is often described as your bump going hard or tight for a short while before relaxing again. They tend to last 20–30 seconds, sometimes up to two minutes, and can be triggered by things like being active, having s*x, feeling dehydrated, or even your baby moving around. They often ease off if you change position, have a drink, or rest. They shouldn’t be painful, but can feel a bit uncomfortable, especially later in pregnancy.
Labour contractions, on the other hand, come at regular intervals and get stronger, longer, and closer together over time. They usually don’t go away with rest, a bath, or a change of position. They may start in your lower back and move around to your bump, and gradually make it harder to talk or walk through them.

💡 If you’re ever unsure, it’s always okay to call your midwife or maternity unit. They’ll be happy to help you work out what’s going on.
Remember, every labour starts differently and your experience is unique. Trust your instincts and listen to your body, it knows what to do.

Ready to Breastfeed Like a Boss? 👑Celebrate my birthday month with a massive £60 off your all-online Prepare to Breastfe...
07/08/2025

Ready to Breastfeed Like a Boss? 👑
Celebrate my birthday month with a massive £60 off your all-online Prepare to Breastfeed Course! Use code BIRTHDAY25 to get the full live course for just £25 (usually £85), available for all September dates only.

Get everything you need to confidently start your breastfeeding journey in a live online course where we chat, discuss, and learn together as you go. You’ll get exclusive access to a members-only area packed with easy-to-use PDF handouts, quick-reference guides, and personalized updates. Just like my other courses, I am passionate about continuity of care which is why you will also receive a postnatal check-in to celebrate your wins, offer reassurance, and support you through any challenges.

Join now and breastfeed with confidence from day one.

Book your place here: http://bit.ly/3HjGHjY

If you want more info, just send me a message!

Around the world, babies typically wean between 2 to 4 years old. The WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the fir...
06/08/2025

Around the world, babies typically wean between 2 to 4 years old. The WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months and continuing alongside solids for at least 2 years.

In the UK, while 80 percent of parents start breastfeeding, only 1 percent are exclusively breastfeeding at 6 months and just 1 percent are still breastfeeding at 12 months.
Many journeys end earlier than planned, often because of a lack of support, mixed messages or cultural pressure.

If your breastfeeding experience didn’t go how you hoped, please know you are not alone.
I’m Vicky, a breastfeeding consultant based in Woking and Guildford, offering evidence-based compassionate support both online and in person.

My Preparing to Breastfeed course is designed to help you feel confident, informed and empowered right from the start. There is also a special discount coming very soon, so keep your eyes peeled.

You can DM me or email vicky@thefairybirthmother.co.uk to find out more or book your place.

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