01/02/2025
Well I've just watched " night bitch" the film with my wife.
Motherhood is a constant reminder that we frequently lose ourselves whilst being all things to our children, a woman loses and finds herself constantly throughout her life, we decide who we are we adapt and change for our partners and children ...we feel lost, we find ourselves we empower us, and when our kids become teenagers we do it again, whether you are a mother, a step momma or a single momma trying to be everything to your children, life should change for both parents not just one, that birth ravages our bodies and we have to run after the small extensions of us that make different choices than the ones we would have made if the choice was ours , and we adapt , mutate create and wear so many hats in our life times...that it's no wonder we lose ourselves, retreat inside ourselves with our emotions frazzled , then rise like the phoenix to recreate a different version of us whilst trying to hold on to the woman we know we are in our primal happiness, so many women say I'm not who I used to be , no ur not children teach us to grow to transform and alter our lives accordingly and we are lucky if we regain our inner goddess at all xx
