05/03/2024
DAY 2: 14 Day Grief Support Challenge!
Do NOT run away from this one!
I want you to write to your loved one today. If you have experienced multiple loss, then write to the person that is on your mind the most.
I want these pages tear stained, so go from your heart and pour it all out.
Nobody will ever know what you have written, but your body will feel it.
This one should bring a sense of immediate relief, in some way or another. It may be a small shift or a big one. You may find that you struggle to start, please remember what you are writing are YOUR feelings. This is no reflection on your loved one and this doesn't make you an awful person for being angry or resentful, for example. Let it all out!
Optional Extra:
Now you have let it out, you are going to know from the content of your letter what feeling/emotion is really wanting to come out to play.
I would like you to acknowledge this and be okay with it. Where in your body is it stored? I am now going to ask you a question and the very first thing that comes to you, is what you need to do:
What is your body needing you to do right now, to help push this out?
For example: crying, swaying, hitting a pillow, walking, dancing, shaking, curl up etc? Do this for as long as feel you need to.
This is a hard one, I know. But, it was THE game changer for me and I began writing regularly - I had a lot to say!
Just start, one word, then one sentence and let it flow.
Let me know in the comments how you found this and how you felt after.
To be in for a chance to win a 30 minute 1:1 session with me, share your letter (cover up the content if you want to) or you can just share my post to your stories, tag me and use