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13/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Seven (7)

ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS

It's not what happens to you that determines the quality of your life, but what you do about it that changes everything. Take action, and take it now! Don't wait; jump in and get started. The hardest part is getting started, but once you do, you'll generate momentum and energy for your endeavor.

Newton's First Law of Motion applies to human motivation as well: a body in motion tends to remain in motion. That's why taking a single step forward is crucial. It's not courage that comes first, but action. Courage will always follow action.

As Matthew 21:28-31 teaches us, it's not what we say that matters, but what we do. Two sons were asked to work in the vineyard; one refused but later changed his mind and went, while the other agreed but didn't follow through. Which one did what his father wanted?

Remember, your success is determined by your daily agenda. It all comes down to what you do today. Ideas without action are worthless. You are not what you think or say; you are what you do. So, take action now, and make your ideas a reality.

Have a nice day



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11/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Six(6)

A married man who's a credible public speaker once said that if he had the opportunity to marry again, he wouldn't marry his current wife. I was perplexed because this man looks fine with his wife on the outside.

He said that they are basically fine as partners but that she doesn't just fit into his vision as an inspirational public speaker and counselor.

Here's the point, many people marry for where they are, forgetting where they are going and when they have gone to a distance, they realise the reality of their mistake.

You don't marry according to your capacity now because your capacity will evolve and you'll get somewhere greater in life.

Do you see your partner fitting that person you will become? I know you love him, you love her, but love is not all.

They don't have to be everything right now, but looking at them and their perspectives, do you see them impressing your future?

Your spouse must not do exactly what you do but there must be a connection, there should!

Don't marry for where you are.
Don't marry for who you are now.

Imagine your greatest success and destiny ever and find someone who matches that place you're going.

Cheers and have a lovely week.



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08/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Five(5)

RESPECT YOUR MAN

Talk to him humbly. Listen to what he says. Support his career and dreams. Don’t argue with him in the presence of others. Instead, lavish him with praises and compliments.

Never gossip your man with anyone. Women who are breaking down their families are looking for company. Instead, let everyone know how you’re proud of your man.

Never compare your man with other men. Instead, celebrate him every day. The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands, the foolish one tears hers down (Prov 14:1).

Never contradict your hubby before your kids. Work as a team. Welcome him home with a broad smile. Hug him warmly. Caress his face playfully with your fingers. And take him to the shower.

It’s in your self-interest to respect your husband. If he feels respected, he tries to measure up to your expectations. If he feels trusted, he easily fulfills his duties as the head of the family.



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07/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Four(4)

One of the most important decision you would make in your lifetime is who to marry. It will shape the rest of your life.

It could make you happy or miserable.
It could make your life beautiful or full of nightmares so it is worthwhile to spend time and prepare yourself adequately for it.

Do not choose a spouse because you are desperate, do not listen to public opinion and do not now to societal pressures.

Focus on being the best person you can be and live your life without external pressures. Do not expect someone to change their lifestyle because you are taking them to the alter.

When you see a red flag in your relationship, ensure you deal with it. Don't jump into romance without having logical conclusions, it might blind your sense of logical reasoning.m because s*x is a blinder and a bonder.

Marriage is not a contract you should terminate at will, it is designed to last as long as you have life so don't just jump into it. Don't gamble with Marriage.

Prepare for marriage, if you desire to be married. Seek the face of God, abide by His precepts. Believe in Him and He will grant unto you the Holy Spirit to guide you accordingly and do not despise knowledge and wise counsel.

Always embrace wisdom with your both hands.
Nourish your soul with it continually.

Do have a lovely day and remain purposeful.



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06/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Three (3)

TRUE LOVE

The foundation to finding true love is knowledge, understanding, and Wisdom. Proverbs 4:7-8, Proverbs 24:3-4, Hosea 4:6-7.

For a person who desire a happy union, it is imperative to learn how to live with the opposite gender, how to manage emotions, how to communicate effectively, how to handle trust issues, how to resolve conflict, how to manage finances, etc.

It is rare to be connected to someone emotionally, spiritually, mentally, intellectually, and not find the person attractive but you can find someone attractive based on their physical appearance without any form of connection mentally or emotionally.

Physical connection has never sustained any marriage.

There's no couple that has longevity in marriage that would say the secret for their sustained union is the beauty of the wife or the handsomeness of the husband.

Before marriage you might be seeking for a beautiful wife or a handsome man but in marriage, you'll need a submissive, respectful wife and a caring, faithful husband.

The scripture says that "a beautiful face on an empty head is like putting a gold ring on a pig's nose." Proverbs 11:22

The outward man dwindles as the day goes by while the inner man renews daily when nurtured.

You can have a beautiful marriage.
However, it's largely your making.



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05/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article Two (2)

HOW DO I KNOW WHO IS RIGHT FOR ME?

This is a question many people always ask when seeking for a life partner.

Most people focus only on physical looks, ignoring the advice from the professor of love, professor Solomon, who had over 1000 women at his beck and call.

He stated in Proverbs 31:30 that "charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a God fearing woman shall be praised".

It is important to remind us that man is tripartite in nature, consisting of Body, Soul and Spirit.

Man is a Spirit with a soul in a body.

In choosing a partner, you must look at your connection in Spirit, Soul and Body.

The Spirit deals with your religion and spiritual beliefs, the Soul deals with your mental and emotional capability while the body is about your physical looks.

The body deteriorates as you grow old but the soul when nurtured appropriately, keeps maturing because it houses the mind, the Will, and the emotion.

So basically, in choosing a partner, the spirit and the soul should be giving due consideration before the body.

Always remember that the Character of a person is a function of the soul and not the body so choose wisely.

Do have a great day.



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04/08/2025

RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER

SEVENTH EDITION, Article One (1)

A PRETENTIOUS LOVER RARELY MAKE SACRIFICES, THEY'LL NEVER COMPROMISE.

Today, people claim to be in love when they are truly not in love, most times for their selfish desires, and in other cases, they make these claims ignorantly.

If you have no cynical motive and not desperate of a relationship, you can identify a pretentious lover with these tips.

A pretentious lover rarely make sacrifices, they'll never compromise.

They keep important informations out from you, they have secrets, they're professional liers. They'll always act busy, never wants to spend quality time except they need s*x.

They always want to put blame on their partner, never would they apologise sincerely, even when they are wrong. They don't pay attention to valid issues, always building a wall of defense.

They undermine and criticize their partner, they disagree about everything, every trivial issue leads to conflict, they're willing to walk away anytime things get soar.

They don't love you for you, they love you for the person they expect you to be and and for their gains. They always compare you to other Persons.

They are ready to take a break anytime because the relationship is not truly their priority, they just fake the love for what they get from it.

If your partner has these characteristics, you are in an unhealthy relationship.

True love makes you better, not bitter.



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SIXTH EDITION, Article Twenty (20)

A wise man wouldn't wait till he is sick before going to see his doctor.

He eats healthy, exercise himself and periodically goes for checkup to ascertain his state of wellness because he knows that prevention is better and cheaper than cure.

Likewise in a Relationship/Marriage, you don't wait for issues to arise, cluster, and deplete your love tank, you tackle them even before they arise by avoiding habits that would destroy your relationship because it is fragile and it should be handled with utmost caution.

You resolve conflicts daily before going to bed.
You seek for superior intelligence because if you know better than you know now, you'll definitely do better than you're doing now.

You communicate assertively and seek clarity on issues that seems vague without any form of assumption.

You understand your partner's love language and communicate same so as to fuel the passion of love and keep the flame burning.

You have a mentor or a counselor that you relate with should the need arises.

You wouldn't fly a plane without the requisite skill and Knowledge, everything has rules and functions effectively when the rules are obeyed.

The methodology might differ but the rules are sacrosanct.

Knowledge is key, seek knowledge and act wisely. Do not wait until things get sour, upgrade your knowledge even when everything is sweet and smooth.

Be a wise man.



From: McNana-Osei Kofi Mfum Jacob (Counselor)

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