06/01/2026
What men are consuming:
•Motivation, discipline, and self-improvement
•Level up culture
•Building wealth, abundance, and status
•Accountability, responsibility, and leadership
•Physical and mental resilience
•Content telling men they must become more to be chosen
•Messages that say women want a man who’s 6ft and earns 6 figures
At its core, men’s content is about building, accountability, and progress.
The underlying message is often you are not enough yet, work harder.
What women are consuming:
•Content framing men as dangerous or untrustworthy
•Messages about deserving more and raising standards
•Reinforcement that you are good enough as you are
•Narratives that say you deserve the world without needing to change
•Entertainment centered around drama, chaos, and instability
•Normalisation of casual s*x and the dismissal of motherhood
•Claims that traditional femininity or being a stay at home mother is anti feminist
•Messaging that fulfillment comes from career, independence, and consumption
•Messages that say you deserve a man who’s 6ft, earns 6 figures, and takes care of you
At its core, much of women’s content seems to revolve around validation, entitlement, and protection, rather than growth or accountability.
Maybe I’m wrong.
But this isn’t just algorithm talk, it’s based on real conversations with men and women.
If this observation holds any truth, here’s the uncomfortable question:
Can you see the disconnect?
One side is being told to build themselves into something worthy.
The other is being told they are already enough and should demand more.
When men are taught constant self improvement and women are taught constant self affirmation.
When both are fed fear and unrealistic expectations of the other is it any surprise relationships feel harder, trust feels rarer, and loneliness is rising?
This isn’t about blaming men or women.
It’s about questioning whether the content we consume is actually helping us build healthier relationships or quietly pushing us further apart.
