13/04/2026
“Why do I forget what you just said… but remember something from 10 years ago?”
If you’ve ever felt this, you’re not alone — and more importantly, you’re not “bad at memory.”
The truth is:
👉 ADHD doesn’t affect intelligence — it affects working memory.
That means holding and using information in the moment can be difficult, especially when you’re distracted, overwhelmed, or under-stimulated.
👉 Autistic memory works differently.
It’s often detail-rich, pattern-based, and deeply encoded — especially for meaningful or repeated experiences. That’s why certain details feel vivid, precise, and unforgettable.
👉 And if you’re AuDHD (Autism + ADHD)…
You’re living in both worlds at once:
Struggling to recall what just happened
While being able to explain something in incredible depth
This isn’t inconsistency.
This is neurodivergent processing.
✨ The problem isn’t your memory — it’s the expectation that all brains should work the same way.
When we understand this, we stop labelling people as “forgetful,” “careless,” or “not paying attention”…
And start recognising the unique strengths behind different cognitive styles.
Caroline Goldsmith, a psychologist in Dublin, Ireland, emphasises that understanding how neurodivergent brains process memory is key to reducing shame and building self-awareness — because what looks like inconsistency is often a different, but valid, way of thinking.