04/02/2026
My personal spiritual perspective on miscarriage. The full original post appears below in English.
זו הפעם הראשונה שאני כותבת כאן בפומבי על נקודת המבט הרוחנית שלי על הפלות.
למעלה מופיע סיכום קצר בעברית (בעזרת AI), ובהמשך הפוסט המלא באנגלית, כפי שנכתב במקור.
הפוסט מציג נקודת מבט אישית ורוחנית על הפלות, שנוצרה מתוך שנים של ליווי רגשי־אינטואיטיבי של נשים בארץ ובעולם. הוא נולד מתוך מפגש חוזר עם השאלה ״למה זה קרה לי?״ — שאלה שנשארת פתוחה עבור נשים רבות, גם זמן רב אחרי ההפלה. נקודת המבט שמוצעת כאן אינה מבקשת לתת תשובה אחת או להסביר הכול, אלא להציע דרך אחת להבין חוויה שלרוב מלווה בכאב, בלבול ושתיקה.
על פי התפיסה הזו, בשלבים הראשונים של ההיריון מתקיים מרחב עדין של בדיקה, ובמקרים מסוימים ההפלה נתפסת כצעד מודע של הנשמה — לא ככישלון, אלא כחלק מתהליך רחב יותר. לעיתים מדובר בעומס רגשי, פחד או מציאות חיצונית קשה, ובשנים האחרונות גם בהשפעה של חיים בתוך חוסר יציבות ומלחמה. הפוסט נוגע גם באפשרות של חזרה בהיריון אחר, וגם במצבים שבהם תפקידה של הנשמה היה לעורר שינוי פנימי עמוק בחייה של האישה.
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How I See Miscarriage — A Personal Spiritual Perspective
I want to share a spiritual perspective that developed through my work with women around the world who experienced miscarriage or early stillbirth. Over the years, I’ve been accompanying women emotionally and intuitively, and I’m also the sole administrator of an active Hebrew-language Facebook support group with over 3,000 members. What I’m sharing here isn’t meant to explain everything or convince anyone — it’s simply one way of making sense of an experience that is often painful, confusing, and hard to talk about.
Since around 2010, many women who came to me carried the same open question: “Why did this happen to me?” I kept hearing it again and again — sometimes right after the loss, sometimes many years later. I began looking deeply into this question, both through research and through my work with women around the world. Over time, through conversations, questionnaires, and intuitive readings, a spiritual understanding gradually formed for me — one in which the unborn soul has choice.
In the early months of pregnancy, I experience there being a very delicate phase of checking and alignment between the soul and the fetus. Sometimes, the soul miscarries itself — not because something went wrong, but as a conscious step back. This can happen when there is a heavy emotional load surrounding the mother’s womb, a lot of fear, or circumstances that make staying impossible at that moment. In other cases, the woman herself needs to go through changes before she can receive that soul.
Seen this way, miscarriage can act like a wake-up call — or what I sometimes think of as a spiritual slap. Like a serious accident or illness, it interrupts life abruptly and forces a pause. It may bring attention to things that were ignored, postponed, or carried silently, and it often changes the direction of a woman’s inner life, whether she wants it to or not.
In the past few years, especially during the ongoing war, I noticed something I hadn’t encountered so clearly before. The outside reality itself became part of the picture. Fear, threat, and constant tension outside the body sometimes felt overwhelming — for the soul, for the woman, or for both — at the moment of release. In many of these cases, women described a sense that the soul would return at another time, when conditions might feel safer or calmer.
In about half the cases I’ve encountered, a soul will try to be born again in a future pregnancy. In other cases, the soul may have known from the beginning that it would not return — that its role was not to stay, but to create a deep inner shift in the woman’s life. Each unborn soul’s story is different, and each has its own reason.
These words come from a personal place. If this perspective meets you in any way — whether with agreement, questions, or discomfort — you’re welcome to respond in whatever way feels right to you.
