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22/10/2025

22/10/2025

THE 4 SECRETS OF DEEP SENSATION

As an intimacy coach and s*xual wellbeing counsellorx I get one question asked very often. How do we have better s*x?

Now what better s*x actuall is is its own discussion. But there are 4 secrets that will change the way you have s*x and deepen the experience, the intimacy and sensation.

Presence is the key here.
The more present you are, in your body, in your sensation, in your breath and in your heart, the more you'll feel.
The more present you are the more you'll be able to connect with your partner.
The more present you are the deeper the intimacy will be.
The more present you are the more energy will flow within you, between you, around you.
The more present you are the more you'll be in your heart.
The more present you are the more surrender there is, to sensation, to feeling, to emotion, to the experience.
The more present you are the more you'll be with what is.
The more present you are the more open you'll be, more vulnerable.
The more present you are the greater possibility there is in the experience.
The more present you are the more you get away from performance, from pressure, from making something happen, from a goal, into the feeling, the sensation, the connection, the energy…

These secrets apply to whatever you're doing, kissing, touching, caressing, massaging, licking and penetrative s*x.

The first one is Slow Down.
Whatever you're doing, Slow Down.
Then slow down more, then more, and when you think that you're moving, touching, kissing, whatever you're doing slowly, slow down even more.
As soon as you slow down you become more present.

For so many, most people s*x, in whatever way they have that has become about or**sm.
I would never say don't have or**sms.
I spend a lot of time in my practice helping people have or**sms, teaching about different kinds of or**sms.
But when or**sm is the goal, when that's all there is, beside it creating pressure for both of us, besides it limiting the experience to be about or**sm rather than pleasure, when or**sm is all there is, we get into this mad rush to make it happen. So we don't actually feel much.
Our attention and energy are there, whatever we have to do to make that happen, rather than our attention being here.
As soon as we slow down, we come into here, now.
Into our bodies.
Into our energy.
And into connection.

The next thing that happens when we slow down is we actually feel, and in time, and the slower we move, the more we'll feel.
And the depth of sensation is limitless.

Slowing down also has incredible healing properties, as it allows us to let go.
Simply by slowly, we release, and when we add the other elements of this, that I'm going to share with you, healing and release happen naturally, physically, emotionally and energetically.

The second secret.
Breathe.
Breathe.
Breathe.
Deeply, slowly

Breath does so much when connected to sensation, touch, pleasure and s*x.
Breath brings us into our bodies.
Breath moves energy in our bodies.
Breath moves energy between us, around us.
Breath opens us.
Breath deepens what we feel.
Breath allows us to ride waves of pleasure that take us out into the ocean of bliss.

Which connects us to the third secret.
Relax.
Relax everything.
The more we relaxed we are the more present we are.
The more relaxed we are the deeper we can breathe.
The more relaxed we are the slower we can move.
The more relaxed we are the more energy can move.
The more relaxed we are the deeper we can drop into our hearts, into our bodies.
The more relaxed we are the more we can go into higher, deeper states of consciousness.
The more relaxed we are, the more we breathe, the more we slow down, the more whatever we're doing becomes an expression of energy. It transcends the body to become life-force, vitality, creation, mystery.

And the fourth secret.
Stop.
Be still.
So still in the moment.

When we're moving, even so slowly, there's stimulation.
When we stop there's integration.
Everything comes together.
Breathe in the stillness.
And that allows us to go deeper.
Stop.
And that allows everything we're feeling to spread through us, to reach every cell of the body, to fill it with light, with pleasure.
Stop.
That's where pleasure becomes a meditation.
Stop.
And in that deep stillness, in that deep quiet, Mystery reaches into us, touches us.
And we know what making love is.

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Great s*x should last at least an hour.
Any woman takes about 20 mins to warm up before she can reach the peak of climax and have an amazing or**sm.

Go down on your woman. Spend at least 20 mins on just foreplay to get her aroused and her va**na well lubricated and relaxed. A man that doesn't do cu*******us simply doesn't deserve to enter her.

If a woman let's the man enter her before she is wet enough and aroused enough she will grow angry with herself and it will be a bad energy exchange for both involved. If she says yes when she means no it is equivalent to her allowing the energetics of r**e. She will feel used and abused and she will hate her man for it as much as she will hate herself. If the man doesn't feel so lucky to have his woman as to court her all day and let the entire day be foreplay through loving gesture he is not happy with himself or his woman.

A man that is happy with himself and his partner will make efforts to woo her all day long and lavish her with affection and attentiveness and make sure his woman feels loved. Foreplay to such a man is also conversations, pillow talk, making her breakfast in bed, taking her to dinner, watching her favorite show, slow dancing in the kitchen between doing dishes, going for a nice walk or exercising together. The list of what foreplay can be is only left to the imagination to such a man.

And his woman will be radiant and glowing as a result and they will be deeply attracted to one another, making their s*xual intimacy reach otherworldly heights as their love making will be a deep spiritual affair and energy exchange of the purest kind, heart to heart, Soul to soul.
The value of a man is shown in the radiance of his woman. The value of a woman is shown in the playfulness of her man. He keeps her safe, she keeps him wild. She a beauty, He a beast.
To stay in this kind of passionate partnership it is imperative you keep doing what you did in the beginning to get her.
Never stop romancing and courting each other. Never stop playing and having fun. That's when the love dies.

**ra

16/10/2025

**Unveiling the Silent Scripts: Rewriting Intimacy’s Story**

Many intimacy coaches, like me, soend quslity time sitting with the tender truths of couples and individuals as they unravel the knots of their s*xual lives. Too often, they lament: “Our s*x life is broken.”

But let me tell you a secret: s*xual problems are rarely about s*x itself.

They’re about the silent scripts we carry—those insidious beliefs, 10 or 12 of them, all variations on the theme of “I’m not good enough.” These internal narratives, like shadows in the bedroom, shape how we show up, or fail to, in the dance of intimacy.

Consider this: a woman, let’s call her Indira, lies beside her partner, silent, her needs unspoken. Her script? “I have no voice; there’s no room for me.” She feels invisible, her pleasure a ghost in the sheets. Or a man, like Govind, who believes, “I’m not desirable enough,” so he performs, eyes averted, chasing approval instead of connection.

These are not isolated thoughts but a chorus: “I’m not s*xy enough,” “I’m too broken,” “My needs don’t matter,” “I’ll be judged,” “I’m too much,” “I’m not enough,” each a riff on inadequacy, stifling desire before it can breathe.

These faulty beliefs develop in infancy, sometimes in the preverbal stage. They’re part of our emotional fingerprint and predate our current relationship. They aren’t just thoughts; they’re barriers. They keep us from showing up authentically, from saying, “This is what I long for”.

It’s not about new positions or toys; it’s about rewriting the story. Take Indira we explored her belief, “My needs are a burden.” Your pleasure isn’t a luxury; it was a birthright.

Recognizing these scripts shifts everything. In 2025, 60% of couples cite disconnection as their core issue.

Unraveling takes courage—but it’s transformative. Imagine Govind, once paralyzed by “I’m not enough,” now meeting his partner’s gaze, saying, “I want us to explore together.” The bedroom becomes a sanctuary, not a stage.

So, pause tonight. Ask: What script holds me back? Name it, share it, and watch authenticity rewrite your intimacy. You are enough—exactly as you are.
**ra

16/10/2025

The air is heavy with jasmine.
She stands in the kitchen, her back half-turned,
hair swaying with the rhythm of her breath.
The golden light kisses her skin,
and for a heartbeat, I forget hunger, thirst, the world itself.
All I crave… is her.

When the flowers brush her neck,
I move closer — unable to resist.
Her scent wraps around me like warm smoke,
and my fingers, trembling yet sure,
find their way from her shoulder down to the rise of her chest.
Each touch steals her breath… and gives mine back.

My lips follow the trail my fingers leave,
devouring the spaces between sighs.
From her cheek to her throat,
from her throat to the secret slopes that beckon,
I descend — not in haste, but in worship.
She gasps, half a whisper, half a surrender.

Like a worshipper lost in the divine,
I find salvation in her warmth.
Her body arches to meet my touch —
a door opening to the temple within.
And when she turns, her eyes blaze — half love, half command.
In that look, I burn willingly.

Our lips collide.
Heat spills, hearts race, breaths clash.
Her hands pull me closer,
as if she fears the world might steal me away.
When we part, even for air,
the silence throbs — charged, alive.

Is this love? Or something deeper —
a death we both welcome, just to be born again in each other’s arms?
There are no answers, no words, no retreat.
Only the pulse of skin against skin,
and the wild, unrestrained fire
that dares to call itself

**ra

16/10/2025

Places to Touch Her (Foreplay Map Every Man Should Know)”

Most men only focus on two areas during foreplay and that’s why they never get far.

A woman’s body is full of hidden pleasure zones, and when you touch them right, you wake up her whole system.

Here’s your real map, King 👇

1. The Neck

This is one of the most sensitive parts of her body.
Don’t bite — kiss slowly, breathe warm air on her skin, trace her collarbone with your lips.
When you get it right, you’ll feel her body arch and her breath change.
That’s her nervous system reacting to you.

2. The Ears

Whisper softly, let your lips brush the edge.
Your voice alone can send shivers down her spine.
Say something confident but calm — like “you smell incredible.”
It’s not about the words; it’s about how you say them.

3. The Inner Thighs

This area is full of nerves that connect directly to her core.

Tease her here with soft kisses, gentle fingertips, but don’t touch the center yet.

The longer you build the tension, the more explosive her reaction will be.

Foreplay is a slow burn, not a sprint.

4. The Lower Back

Place your hand on her lower back when you pull her close.
It’s protective, masculine, and makes her feel safe.
That small touch builds comfort and comfort builds arousal.
When she feels secure, she fully lets go.

5. The Collarbone (Clavicle)

This spot is criminally underrated.
Kiss it slowly. Let your lips drag lightly across it.
The contrast between softness and warmth makes her melt.
Women love when a man takes time to explore, not rush.

6. The Lips

Stop attacking them.

Alternate between soft pecks, deep kisses, and short pauses.
Let her wait for your next move.
Foreplay is about rhythm — the balance between action and anticipation.

7. The Lower Stomach (Just Above the Pelvis)

This is a secret weapon.
It’s close enough to her core to excite her, but far enough to tease her imagination.
Kiss here slowly while maintaining eye contact.
It drives her wild because it builds suspense.

Every touch tells a story don’t rush the plot.

When you take time to explore, you make her trust your touch, crave your presence, and remember your energy.

16/10/2025

Don’t make it all about her body

Talk to her during foreplay.

Tell her what you love about her, whisper what you’re going to do.

The right words in the right tone make her imagination explode.

Men touch physically women respond emotionally.

Stimulate her mind and the body will follow.

Words are your first caress, let them trace her soul's hidden curves.

In whispers, paint futures where her heart races ahead of your hands.

Ignite her mind's fire; her body will dance in its eager flames.

Words layered with intent create desire no hands alone can.

Telling her what you love and what you’re going to do is more than foreplay, it’s leading her into surrender.

The mind is the gateway, the body just follows

**ra

15/10/2025

THE EROTIC POWER OF A WHISPER

Its all about an erotic possibility with you.
I use the word possibility because it's not a technique, that would reduce it to mechanics.

Maybe experience would be a better word, but I still prefer possibility because of where it can take you.

Like many possibilities of great power it's also simple. And like all deeply simple things there is such nuance, such subtlety to explore here.

What gives it power is it's from your heart.
It's an expression of deep intimacy and connection, with yourself and your lover.
It can take you to place within yourself, and with your lover that is sublime, that has flavours, tastes, colours that reveal themselves on ways of such beauty.

Whisper.
Softly.

Talk softly, so softly.
Bring your mouth close to your lover's ear.
Tell them, tell them of their beauty, tell them how they arouse you, excite you, tell them the things you'd like to do with them, to them, the things you'd like them to do with you, tell them your fantasies, tell them your desires, tell them about the curve of their neck and their moan in your lo******ng, tell them how watching them sip their foamy coffee delights, tell them softly and slowly.

Each word has such power, such range.
And breathe.
Oh yes, breathe.
Don't talk, don't say a word.
Breathe.
From your heart.
A sigh, a sibilant breath.
Close your eyes, breathe.
It's just so...delicious.

A world of possibilities…