14/04/2026
G-**OT HOLDING FOR HEALING AND PLEASURE
There is such healing power in pleasure.
Conscious Pleasure.
Pleasure opens us.
Pleasure changes our bodies chemistry, Pleasure touches our nerve-system.
Pleasure reaches deep inside of us, to a place beyond words.
In pleasure there is release, there is letting go.
In pleasure our energy changes, our patterns change.
In pleasure there is healing, deep healing.
Pleasure is the space of possibility.
One of the practices I offer, and teach, is that of G-**ot Holding, an experience where healing and pleasure meet.
An experience where the body, the tissues of the Yoni are able to soften, to open, to let go.
Of emotional blockage, of emotional hurt.
Some if it has to do with our s*xuality, some if it has nothing to do with s*x, it all has to do with life. It all has to do with love.
Conscious Pleasure as an experience of self-love.
To allow ourselves to receive, and in this to free ourselves into feeling, into softening, into opening.
G-**ot Holding for Pleasure and Healing.
Many women don't feel their G-**ot, it's not awake, alive, sensitive. This is the result of physical blockage, emotional blockage, the past, guilt, shame, embarrassment, patterns and conditioning. This is where release and healing comes in. When this magical part of your body is awake the experience is possible.
There's something interesting about touch and pleasure touch, s*xual touch. We think that we need to move, and move all the time.
And for many of us the pattern of movement is hard and fast, harder, faster.
Our bodies have become conditioned to this style of stimulation, both men and women. So much so that when a different touch comes along, particularly a slower touch, a gentler touch, we often don't feel much.
I teach a lot about patterns, of the body, the mind, the heart. So what happens when we change the way we touch, the way we're touched? We start to allow for a different experience. And one that is beautiful, that has deep pleasure, that's an experience of s*xual energy, is about holding, not moving.
It's an experience of presence, and this makes it intimate, presence being an element of intimacy. It takes time, and this makes it intimate, time being an expression of intimacy.
And time is important when it comes to pleasure. More often, women more than men, pressured in terms of time.
Pressured to come quickly. As soon as that pressure is there it's about the or**sm only. That takes us out of pleasure, out of feeling, out of sensation, out of the moment. Come, have the or**sm. So we satisfy, appease someone else. It's not about us.
When we make time, when we have time, we're honoured. Our experience is honoured. It becomes about pleasure, about everything pleasure includes. Maybe that's an or**sm, or three, and maybe not. It's about your body expressing itself, your energy expressing itself, where it is now. It's about understanding that in the field of pleasure there are many possibilities, many experiences, or**sm is just one of them.
G-**ot Holding is also about presence.
It's a meditation of touch.
A communication with the body, with the being, with the heart, through the touch.
There's a stillness we drop into, a quiet.
And you'll feel worlds opening under your fingers, layers that part to reveal more, an endlessly opening flower, that takes us both deeper into an inner space that has no end.
We’re not doing anything with this practice.
We’re present, and the healing, the pleasure, the sensation, the feeling, arise in the body.
Come and experience, come and learn, I invite you…