17/09/2025
I don't regret what I did for people, I just won't do it again. I gave freely—my time, my energy, my thoughts, my heart—believing that my intentions alone could make a difference. I believed in trust, in loyalty, in the idea that kindness could change hearts and build bridges. I showed up when others didn’t, I offered support when it wasn’t asked for, and I held space for people even when they could not hold it for themselves. I thought love, care, and effort were enough to keep relationships alive, but I learned that not everyone values what they are given.
There were moments when my generosity was met with indifference, when my sacrifices went unnoticed, when my intentions were questioned or even used against me. And yet, I still gave, because I believed that giving was part of who I am. But life has a way of teaching lessons in ways we cannot ignore. I have learned that my energy is precious, that my time is not infinite, and that my heart deserves to be treated with respect, not taken for granted.
So now, I choose differently. I will protect my peace fiercely. I will invest in those who recognize the worth of what I offer. I will surround myself with people who honor my presence, my loyalty, and my love. I will no longer pour from an empty cup, nor lose myself in the service of those who take without care. I have learned to say no, to step back, to create boundaries, and to recognize that my value is not measured by what I give, but by who I am.
I don't regret what I did, for it shaped me, strengthened me, and taught me the importance of discernment. I just won’t do it again for those who do not see or appreciate it. From this point forward, my heart, my time, and my energy are gifts reserved for those who truly deserve them, and for that, I am finally at peace.