12/03/2024
While shyness and social anxiety often get used interchangeably, there are some key differences between them:
Shyness:
Feels uncomfortable in social situations, especially with unfamiliar people.
Prefers smaller groups or one-on-one interactions.
May experience nervousness, but usually manageable and doesn't significantly interfere with daily life.
Often overcomes with time and familiarity.
Social Anxiety (Social Phobia):
Intense fear or anxiety in social situations, even with familiar people.
Worry excessively about being judged, scrutinized, or embarrassed.
Physical symptoms like blushing, sweating, racing heart, or difficulty speaking.
Avoids social situations due to fear, leading to significant distress and impairment in daily life.
Doesn't usually improve without help.
Here's an analogy: Imagine a spectrum. Shyness sits on one end, characterized by mild discomfort in social situations. As you move towards the other end, the anxiety intensifies, becoming more persistent and disruptive, eventually reaching the realm of social anxiety, where fear significantly impacts daily life.
It's important to remember:
Both shyness and social anxiety are real experiences that can cause distress.
There's no shame in experiencing either, and help is available if needed.
If you're unsure where your experience falls on the spectrum, consider talking to a therapist or mental health professional.
While MindLoops offers online therapy services for various mental health concerns, including social anxiety, we acknowledge that it's not the only path to help.
May experience nervousness, but it is usually manageable and doesn't significantly interfere with daily life.