07/08/2021
"On February 5th, I became mother of a lovely baby boy. We named him Turup. Like every mother,I also decided to do my level best for his well-being and to keep him healthy and it was a learning process for me too. The importance of breastfeeding is known to all. Breast milk is considered to be the most nutritious food for newborns. The longer you can breastfeed,the better for your baby.
Initially I had faced a lot of difficulties regarding breastfeeding. It was new to me as well as to my son. So it was a heck of a phase! There were times when I felt like giving up,I had extreme back pain, I was sleep deprived....but I survived😊. It's been 6 months that I'm breastfeeding my son and I wish to do so for a year more at least, if I can manage. And trust me, I feel great, I feel proud, I feel satisfied that I could do this for my baby ( it's difficult,let me confess, really difficult).
Having said these, let me tell you, it's a completely natural biological process. Some may have lot of milk flow, some may not. I'm lucky that my baby was exclusively on breastfeeding. Now, he will be introduced to solid food slowly. There were very rare occasions, when I had to give him formula. But if a mother is not having enough milk flow, it's completely okay. It's not in anybody's hand. There are lots of babies who grow up having formula. Please, let us not give guilt trips to those mothers who are not having enough milk flow. It's so hurtful for the mothers. Already, we, the new mothers go through a lot of physical, mental and emotional ups and downs in all these months. So, please don't make things more difficult for us. WE give birth to the babies. If something goes wrong, WE really feel helpless at the first place. I personally have felt this. Please give us support, give us care, help us to make this bumpy road a little bit smoother. Rest, we can take care well. And understand, we are new mothers. Everything is new to us. So we need time to get accustomed to this new life, new responsibility. And, one more thing, which is really important, the time has changed, so, the way our mothers used to handle us, take care of us, would definitely not be the same now. Accept it.
Lastly, all my best wishes for the new mothers. We are Rockstars 🤘🏻. Stay healthy stay happy. Much much love. ❤️"
-Sneha Chatterjee, Actor