Bindu Sanganee - Law of Attraction Coach

18/03/2021

Apprehension vs Strengths. What are you focussing on?

Why is that we don't change gears (job change) or change lanes (career change) inspite of being unhappy in our current job for many years?

It is because we let our imaginations run wild, we become apprehensive of what the future holds, instead of focussing on our strengths & the opportunities lie ahead of us.

The reason for this apprehension & restlessness is FEAR.

Watch this video to know more.

https://youtu.be/1_D9Q6sgiHY

16/03/2021

Validation vs Growth? What are you focussing on?

*Do you constantly seek validation from Others? Or Do you know someone who regularly seeks validation from others? Most times, it's an unconscious behaviour & has become a part of us, over the years.

There is an underlying reason for this behavioural pattern & it is covered in my today's video. Remember, there is no wrong or right here but certain behaviour can be changed to bring in more productive results.

Don't know how, ask me now!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sQrStdTvTwA

* Do you constantly validation from Others? Or Do you know someone who regularly seeks validation from others? Most times, it's an unconscious behaviour & ha...

11/03/2021

“”Your destination is on your side””

Year 2020 offered lot of learnings not only to those who were open to it, but also to those who were close-minded – as 2020 seriously didn’t care WHO you are. Whether you're a Millionaire or a Nillionaire, the treated all of us alike with the , etc.

After the “special 2020” we all had as far as our professional life is concerned, what “special effort” are you taking in 2021, especially as quarter 1 is about to end?

If you don’t like where you are, Move ” – you’re not a TREE. Adopt alternate roads which are productive & oriented. & keep taking consistent actions towards your .

Move From Worrying To Witty ; From Wanting To Wholesome; From Waiting To Working; From Wishing To Winning

*Look for the *

04/03/2021

Test the Relationship ==> Result :- "Examiner = FAILED"

We as humans take our loved ones for granted after a level of comfort is achieved, which is fine. But it is important to know & understand the limit to which we can do that. Each one of us want to feel wanted, loved, valued etc. Once this desire is unmet for a prolonged period, we feel the other person has changed or their feelings for us have changed. And sometimes, we’re tempted to test the other person. It is at this point, where one starts walking on thin ice and although it is the test of the other person, it is the examiner who fails & here’s why -

• This temptation is felt by most of us in our teens where we test our friends & sometimes it sparks a kind of joy, love, romance etc but as adults it could swing in a nasty direction.

• Do not test them as they might not understand your test & might respond drastically different to your expectations. There are chances that during the test period, the other person has lot on their mind or their focus & priority maybe different, maybe they are stressed about something, you have no clue about.

• Hardly anyone has ever liked “surprise test” or done well at them. So please do not put others on the spot. The chances are that when tables are turned and it’s your time to appear for test, you’re going to not do well either.

So “being mature” about your relationships, how much people matter to you and how much you value a relationship is the right way to go. If someone loves you, values you – take their word for it. Instead of testing, use empathy to understand, take initiative to rekindle the lost spark.

A relationship is like the driving school car, if the examiner is only interested in taking test and not using his side of steering wheel or brakes for safety, it’s going to be fatal for the all parties involved.

14/01/2021

In order to reach somewhere, we need to take off from somewhere. Ask the kite? 🪁

Some key lessons that I learnt from the kite 🪁 –

1. Go with the flow of the wind & enjoy the bumpy ride.
2. When I meet challenges/obstacles on my way, I am going to trust myself & the universe & the Divine force who is holding my strings & HE’s going to divert me, where he wants to.
3. Taking a detour does not mean I have quit. It only means that I am following my Master.
4. Being free flowing & flexible will help me attain much higher levels of inner peace than I can imagine.
5. I am the candle kite, who wants to brighten up the world.
6. Even if I am torn or broken, my essence is still the same.
7. If I get stuck & stranded on some tree, I am going to “accept & surrender” & let nature take its course & show me the way!

♦️ What have you learnt from the kite?
♦️ Have you taken off to reach your goal?
♦️ Have you taken the first step?
♦️ Are you afraid of the bumpy ride? Is it preventing you from taking action?

❓ Don't know how?
🎯 Ask me Now! 📩📞

Let my (BIBO) Framework be the string that enables U to reach new heights.

I would love to know your thoughts.❤️

09/01/2021

A few years ago, I lived in London & was taking driving lessons in order to get driver’s license. After each lesson, my instructor told me either that I don’t hold the steering well, or that I don’t take smooth turn or I don’t reverse well or my parking isn’t correct etc. I got only negative feedback about my driving skills. I started to dread the days I had driving lessons & would get nervous & wait for that one-hour class to finish.

I took a few more lessons & booked a driving test which was due in 5 week’s time. When I informed my instructor about this, he wasn’t particularly happy about it. Infact, his criticism & fault finding increased. One day, I had enough & I decided to confront him. I asked him “Can you point out one thing that I do, right?” after all these lessons. He was startled & couldn’t answer. He said he thinks I should take 2 hours lessons from now on, since my test was approaching. By this time, I was sure that “More lessons for me = More earnings for him”. I cancelled all my future classes with him.
My confidence had taken a hit but I believed in myself, so I called another school & booked a new instructor since my test was 3 weeks away.

My new instructor was this 70-year-old man, short & feeble but he was a powerhouse of confidence. Because of my previous experience, I was nervous & I expressed my concern to him. He was encouraging from the word go & all he kept telling me is that “you’re doing fine”. He never gave me a single tip except for the technical ones which was part of the driving exam. He just let me drive & drive with confidence. I used to look forward to the sessions with him and enjoyed every bit of it. I passed my exam smoothly with no even a single minor error.

My “self-talk” helped me pass with flying colours. If you’re receiving only negative feedback without any evidence, make sure you take your side, at least. Don’t tell the world define your fate.
As kids, we’re often told how or what to say to others but we need to learn how or what to talk to ourselves and more importantly, we need to teach our kids the same.

“Self-talk” is more than just positive affirmations, it's a game-changer & forms part of my BIBO Framework. To know more, please connect with me.

(BIBO)

01/01/2021

Happy Year Everyone & a Super Prosperous 2021.

The word "new" is intentionally omitted because I cannot wish you anything New. It is for you to create the New(ness) in your life. So, if you’re living the same way as you did 12-24 hours or months ago, then it’s not NEW is it?
Just changing the calendar year or date doesn’t make anything NEW.

So, if you really want a new year – create a new day with a new thought, a new habit, a new attitude, a new behaviour, a new belief, a new purpose, a new goal, a new way of being”. And you can only do this when you make space for it by letting off what is old, what is bad, what is bitter & what is sad. & in order to let go off the bitterness, let me share with you 5 key takeaways based on my BIBO framework -

1) Gratitude – Thank the Lord or the universe that they took care of you during the pandemic and Thank your loved ones for being there for you, always!
2) Courage – You need to grow courageous enough to let go & forgive and forget, what’s happened in the past. Remember, carrying the baggage from the past is like driving a sinking ship – whether you drive it slow or fast, you’re going to sink with it. If you’re struggling to “Forgive & Forget”, you know where to find me.
3) Acceptance – You need to increase your acceptance levels as far as people or events are concerned. I am not sure if you know this but it takes more effort to expect things from people than to accept them. Set people free and see the miracles that unfold in your life.
4) Learn – I always heard that one should learn at least one new thing a day and I thought that was impossible until I gave it a try. Have a thirst for learning as that will make each day different / new than the other.
5) Simplicity – Keep things simple, as it’s very easy to complicate things and make a mess. Simplicity will bring you more fulfilment than you can imagine.

I, Bindu Sanganee, am therefore wishing you all “More Power, More Love & More Light”, so you can create the “NEW” in this HAPPY YEAR, 2021 and not only make it “NEW” but also make it “YOURS”, make it “COUNT” and make it “AWESOME”.

(BIBO)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1S0yfszI_E

Happy Year Everyone & a Super Prosperous 2021. The word "new" is intentionally omitted because I cannot wish you anything New. It is for you to create the Ne...

31/12/2020

In 2020:
• The world has seen unprecedented love, support & care float around in the form of food supplies, meals, donations etc to meet the brutal effects of Covid-19
• We saw thousands of volunteers who reached out to millions.
• We’ve seen the world applaud the bravery & service of not only the front liners but also of the security guard or the delivery man.
• We saw personal, job or business loss & suffering but we also saw the touch of caring & compassion growing.
• When we were under severe threat, we appreciated even the smallest gesture of help.
• We were made to Redefine our needs, the way we function, & also the way we celebrate our special days.
• We saw our kids grow manifold as they took responsibilities at home.
• We practised social distancing but we were more socially connected than ever before.

😇 God Forbid 🙏🏻- What if we had another year like 2020 in terms of lockdown, social distancing, isolation, quarantine (minus the deaths & illness caused)?

1. What is it that you would do differently?
2. What would you do more of or less of ?
3. How would you do it?

The threat of virus (or variant of it) is still out there & we cannot turn a blind eye towards it just because we have run out of patience. If nothing, then 2020 has made us far stronger, smarter, resilient, brave, loving, caring, & responsible. So, congratulate yourself for achieving what you have in 2020.

(BIBO)

19/12/2020

The best way to end 2020 with a bang is get your ticket to 2021. The ticket to 2021 will bring with it, Sam Cawthorn & Kate Cawthorn messages for 2021, 7 Amazing speakers, Golden nuggets from the Feedback Expert, 1 Electrifying EMCEE, several Powerful Global & India Tribe Leaders, Proximity with the core team members & the Tribe itself. What else can one ask?
Plus, as a Bonus, we’ve some fun & entertainment to Celebrate Christmas, Santa & Angel messages for all and some snacks & refreshments (in your house! 😊) to make this Mega Event Grand Finale extremely memorable.

So, grab your ticket to the Speakers Tribe INDIA 21st Virtual Summit & Christmas Celebration NOW!!

Please note the timings -
Door Opens - 3.15pm IST
Show Starts - 3.30pm IST

17/12/2020

👏👏Ladies & Gentlemen, please give a BIG round of applause to the Speakers Institute 👏👏

❓EMCEE: So, what’s the occasion?
💠ME: Speakers Institute India Tribe is celebrating Christmas 🎄with Sam Cawthorn & Kate Cawthorn 🎅

❓EMCEE: Please share your journey with the Speakers Institute
💠ME: From Bootcamp in Sept., 2020, to a 3-time speaker (Mumbai, India, Mumbai) in 4 months’ time to Now to being an EMCEE at the Grand Finale of Speaker India Tribe with powerful speakers followed by🎅 Christmas celebrations 🎄. It is going to be HUGE. 👌👌

❓EMCEE: How do you feel about your experience?
💠ME: Wow!! My journey with Speakers Institute gets better each day. I have never experienced so much learning & exponential growth ever, in the 24 years of my professional life. The opportunities that Speakers Institute India offers to its Tribe members & its Protégé is unprecedented. 👌👌
So, I Thank Sam Cawthorn , Sethi & Asootosh Kkant& my seniors & fellow tribe members for providing me an amazing space for blossoming. ❤️🌹

♦️EMCEE: Best Wishes Bindu Sanganee for being an EMCEE of this huge event on Saturday
💠ME: Thank You! 🙏🙏😊😊

(BIBO)

14/12/2020

As you all know that I spoke at Speakers Institute - Mumbai Tribe last Saturday.

Wow... What a session it was! The feedback I received is a witness to it.

Special Thanks to Sethi for gracing us with your presence.
My sincere gratitude to Huzefa Merchant Premraj Kalapadan for your valuable feedback and to Khemani for being an awesome coach and Mendes for being a Beautiful Emcee...