12/03/2026
The "Good Girl" tax is real.
Being the "Good Girl" was rewarded when we were children. We were praised for being quiet, helpful, and "low maintenance." But as adults, that same trait often transforms into Superwoman Syndrome—the inability to say "no" without a mountain of guilt.
If you find yourself managing everyone’s emotions just to "keep the peace," remember: your reliability is actually a childhood survival skill that is now costing you your health.
The shift starts here:
1)Acknowledge the Load: Your hyper-vigilance isn't a personality trait; it's a response to your environment.
2)Prioritize Wellness over "Goodness": Being "well" is more important than being "good" for everyone else.
3) Set the Boundary: Self-care isn't selfish; it’s a medical necessity to regulate your nervous system.
It’s time to retire the cape and start being well. 🤍