13/06/2023
I’m a believer in Marriage and No beloved I’m not Married…Marriage is a lot of work daily …. Too often couples get caught up in power struggles, which means they work against each other. It's a common scenario, as each feels a need to maintain their independence and sense of self but it’s no 50/50 when you are 100% invested…
You have to commit too listening, letting go of control, practicing vulnerability, overcoming resistance to change, being honest, even in the face of fear, and focusing on each other rather than trying to change your partner….Like mastering any other new skill, it takes a lot to hang in there and muddle through needs and wants Its a lot of effort and the challenge can give you a headache , leading many to conclude that it’s not worth it or that they don’t have the stamina and perseverance to work forever at this intensity….while most couples have experienced varying degrees of difficulty in their relationships, after they make it “over the hump," the downward pull of gravity diminishes greatly and the amount of effort and energy required to sustain and nurture the relationship is greatly reduced. Further, the experience of nurturing the relationship no longer feels like effort or work, but literally becomes a labor of love that feels more like a gift, a joyful opportunity for which we feel grateful and blessed.
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