14/12/2025
SUNDAY RAMBLING
I have a 5-year-old going on 50 that lives part-time with me. She's as smart as a whip, they would say, with too many words in her vocabulary for her age.
At our gate, we have a patch filled in with river stones.
She decided she was going to play with them, so from breasts to pregnant woman to cooking she was having a grand time. A young man passing said "Little girl mind the stones and your fingers " and before I could look up the 5-year-old whipped back "Mind your tongue and my business "
Help!
Some of my friends are saying it's me she's learning from, but I believe she's a breed unto herself.
I still laugh every time I remember π€£ π
Then, a few of my plants πͺ΄ needed attending to. So I got to it this morning. While tending to them, wiping the leaves with EM5, I got quite a few good mornings and conversations, and advice, and I even paused a few times to do some distributions and assistance.
But ....
A man came along, I don't know him, not acquainted with him...
"Bout she deh wipe dung flowers, wha di f###x she deh do ah man deya wah sumaddy fi rub dem dung to f###x" and he kept quarreling all the way up the road. Mi laughed so till, I had to leave the plants and sit down and phone a friend to help me laugh π
My healing journey is challenging, life has so many challenges for me at this time, but it was just this morning that I said to myself, and then to someone else, each morning is a blank slate and we get to decide how to title it and I intend and will be have a good morning.
After that man passed, nothing can make me not smile for a while.
Yes, got a few bad news today but....
How you face the day is really a choice!