19/05/2025
Listen up, Men! “Never listen to any woman's complaints about her marriage”
Every time a married woman comes crying to me, telling tales about how “useless” her husband is, how “tired” she is of her marriage, how she’s “suffering” with a man — I don’t pity her. I don’t even blink.
I laugh. Why? Because you’re still in a better position than most of the women in the dating market.
Let’s break it down raw and clear.
You're married. You’ve got a man under your roof.
You have someone to protect you at night.
You’ve got consistent preeq access.
You wear the “MRS” badge that society still respects.
Even if he’s broke, even if he’s struggling, you’re not facing this harsh world alone.
So miss me with the pity party.
You say he’s useless? Leave him.
Enter the dating streets and see what your single sisters are going through.
Men ghosting. Men lying. Men vanishing after a meal.
The streets are cold, ruthless, and ugly.
But you? You’ve got a man in bed, a shoulder to lean on — and you're still crying?
You chose that marriage with your eyes wide open.
You saw the man’s pocket.
You saw the man’s hustle.
But you said “yes” because you wanted that MRS title. Now hold it with your chest.
Some of us are waking up every day to silence, carrying bills alone, sleeping with emptiness and no consistent masculine presence.
Yet you want us to pity you because you don’t like your husband’s earnings?
At least you have a man. At least you have a partner. At least you have company.
The real issue?
You thought marriage meant comfort without effort.
You thought the ring would automatically make your life soft.
But marriage to a struggling man is still better than being out here fighting battles alone.
So instead of complaining, team up with your man and build.
Because two struggling people under one roof still have more power than one person facing the fire alone.
Don’t use your mouth to destroy the same man you share a bed with.
And don’t expect sympathy from people out here hustling.
