A MAN'S REHAB.

01/10/2025

We often go into marriage expecting it to bring comfort, security, and joy. Those are good things, but God’s purpose for marriage goes beyond our own happiness...✍🏽
It is one of the ways God shapes us to be more like Him. It’s not just about having a partner. It’s about learning patience, grace, humility, and love. It’s a tool God uses to grow our character, stretch our ability to love, and deepen our faith. Loving and serving another imperfect person shows us our own selfishness and helps us reflect Christ.

The good times in marriage, as well as the struggles both teach us to depend on God and allow Him to change us. So rather than seeing marriage only as a place of comfort, we can see it as God’s workshop.

His goal isn’t just to make us happy, it is the arena to transform us, for our good and His glory.

23/08/2025

As a man, always listen to your parent's advice. But if they don't make sense. Do your thing and always chase the bag.

13/05/2024

Never take your spouse for granted. Show them love, appreciation, and respect every day...✍🏾

13/05/2024

21/01/2024

THE BEST TIME TO MAKE LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE

Yes, you should make love anytime you both want but here are strategic times you don't want to miss and mean the whole world to your spouse.

1. Before they travel.

2. After they return from travelling.

3. Second to fourth days before and after menstruation for those with regular period and want love making without the drama of pregnancy, condom, pills or injection.

4. Ovulation period for those seeking babies.

5. All through 9 months pregnancy day in, day out as your power can carry.

6. When they are not happy.

7. When they feel so lonely or depressed.

8. On a cold rainy night.

9. Early harmattan morning.

10. During celebration e.g new job, business breakthrough, promotion, award of contract, etc.

11. When you are looking super sexy and he can't take his eyes off you.

12. When you are super charming and she is prowling all over you.

13. After settling your "quarrel".

Make your spouse feel super special during these periods, because during these times, they enjoy love making like never before and such times help them overcome sexual temptation out there and stick to you -their honey pot, sweet sugar pie and paradise zone forever *winks*.

So, there you go sweetheart, go rock your lover's bed. Here you go my brother, start doing some physical exercises, you need some energy to do your job during this period, laughs.

Seriously, there is no time limit or barrier to anytime you want to make love to your spouse.

Follow your schedule, rhythm passion, time table or whatever.

Don't neglect those special moments either, love making during those periods are more meaningful, deep and affectionate but each family differs. Just do what works for you.

I want you to experience uninterrupted bliss, joy and peace in every way you can in your marriage.

Keep the ball rolling!

20/01/2024

BEST SLEEPING HABITS FOR MARRIED COUPLES...✍🏾

1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results.

2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing.

3. Don't carry work to bed.

4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred.

5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two.

6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love

7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters.

8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up.

9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger.

10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory.

11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?

12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine.

13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation.

14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)

15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket.

16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night

17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes

14/01/2024

15 HABITS OF COUPLES THAT LAST:

1. They're affectionate even outside the bedroom.

2. They don't gossip about each other.

3. They hug and kiss to start the day and hug and kiss to end it.

4. They move towards the bedroom together each night.

5. They continually do small things for each other.

6. They celebrate in their partner's accomplishments.

7. They stand together and refuse to let outsiders call the shots.

8. They set aside time to regularly check in with each other.

9.They keep dating and treat date night as a sacred ritual.

10. When they argue, their goal is to come to a consensus, not to "win".

11.They are intimate about everything.

12. They say what they mean and mean what they say to each other.

13.They listen intently before replying.

14. They refuse to play the blame game.

15. They make daily sacrifices for each other.
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Class dismissed 🥂

03/12/2023

In the late 1800s early 1900s, It was tradition that on the 31st of December, the wife would kneel in front of her husband and apologise for everything she got wrong during the course of the year.

03/12/2023

If you are behaving in ways that create tension and discord in your relationship/marriage, you are participating in "plucking it down", that's foolish. Seek God and ask for the wisdom to see your own faults BEFORE you attempt to fix your partner's faults. Then repent and try again!
Luke 6:41

03/12/2023

Men

If you are building yourself with no inheritance on your name

Avoid entertaining women who come around in your life

Put your goals and dreams first for your own benefit

There's nothing as hard as a man building himself from scratch!