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26/09/2025

Ndegwa na Kai wanacheka juu wake zao Naomi & Diana wametoka kuwadigidigi tu saa hii 😂

26/09/2025

Huyu amesema anataka msaada yenu specifically

26/09/2025

On this day I went to meet her pastor for the first time. It was my first day wearing a fitting suit 😅. I was so much in love with this beautiful 😍❤️ woman of my life. Mtswah mtswah Naomi sweetheart wa Ndegwa

26/09/2025

Utajuaje Husband Yako Ni Wa Sisi Kwa Sisi?

Hana mda wa tendo la ndoa na wewe. Anaku-avoid kitandani mara nyingi. Excuses pile up. He’s tired. He’s stressed. He’s never in the mood. Weeks turn into months. Your body craves him, but he seems disconnected.

He’s overly interested in men – na sio tu Ile ya kawaida, haieleweki anachokitaka kwao. Anasifu maumbile yao, mavazi yao, au mambo mengine, kuliko wanawake.

He hides his phone. Passwords everywhere. Unexplained late nights. He gets defensive when you ask simple questions. He deletes messages. Privacy is one thing – secrecy is another.

Hataki ushinde ukimuita “husband” in public. Na hapendi kukuonyeshana kwa watu. He looks uncomfortable with open affection. Hataki umshike mkono au umkumbatie mbele ya watu.

Marafiki anao wa sisi kwa sisi au wanaosemekana kuwa ni wa kikundi hicho. There’s nothing wrong with friendship – but if you notice patterns of secrecy, late-night meetups, and emotional closeness that shuts you out, take note.

Huwa anatumia p***o sana – and not the kind you expect. You notice sisi kwa sisi content. Or he clears history too quickly. His eyes don’t lie, even when his words do.

He shows signs of double life. Kila saa ako kwenye masafari zenye hazieleweki. Too many unexplained gaps. Always restless, never fully present. You feel like he’s hiding a part of himself from you.

Don’t jump to conclusions too fast. But pia usi-ignore hizi ma-signs. Hizi ma-patterns zina-speak louder than ma-excuses. If your instincts scream, listen.

Truth may be painful – but it’s better than living in denial. Utapata healing utakapokubali ku-face reality.

Dr. Ndegwa Steve GM
Psychologist and Pastor

Salamu nyinyi kutoka kwa Lavishia lasti borni wa Ndegwa

25/09/2025

I've seen the definition of true love in these two little women, Laurentia secondi borni wa Ndegwa and Lavishia lasti borni wa Ndegwa.

25/09/2025

Who has realised, from the few or many interviews we have attended, that this woman is very wise?

25/09/2025

Hawa ni wawili wasichana wa Ndegwa, na wanapendana k**a chanda na pete, ni mabest friends, Laurentia na Lavishia mnapendeza sana

24/09/2025

You don’t pray or meditate together with your partner but when troubles come, you ask God questions. Last night I received a call from a prayer partner at 3am. My wife Naomi challenged me, "Wake up and Pray!" I loved that.

You ask, “Lord, why us? Why now? Why this?” But you never built a foundation of faith in your relationship. You never invited Him into your conversations, your decisions, your love life.

A relationship without shared prayer is like a house without a roof. It may stand for a while, but the first storm will expose everything. Rain doesn’t cause leaks; it only reveals them.

You can’t neglect the spiritual and expect strength when pressure comes. Faith is not an umbrella you borrow when it rains. It’s a roof you build before the clouds gather.

Many couples want God’s rescue but not His guidance. They want Him to fix what they never allowed Him to direct. They want miracles without discipline. Blessings without obedience.

If your partner cannot kneel with you before God, then standing together in life’s battles will be twice as hard. You’ll fight storms as individuals instead of as a unit.

Stop asking God questions after the crisis. Start seeking Him before it. Make prayer and reflection a culture, not an emergency exit. Align your hearts in His presence daily, and you’ll find strength you didn’t know you had.

Because a couple that prays together doesn’t just stay together—they grow together, and they overcome together.

©️ Ndegwa Steve GM
Psychologist and Pastor

24/09/2025

Always have a few minutes and if possible hours with your kids, just playing and talking

22/09/2025

Does the Bible Tell Wives to Love Their Husbands?

I touched this topic in an event which I was emceeing last Saturday. From people's looks, I realised that many think the Bible only tells men to love.

True, Paul is clear in Ephesians 5:25: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church.” But look closely at Titus 2:4 - older women are instructed to train younger women “to love their husbands and children.”

So yes, wives are called to love too. The difference is this: men are commanded directly because love is not their default mode of expression. Women are taught because sometimes familiarity and routine can choke out affection.

The truth is - men want to be loved as much as women do. They may not always say it, but they long to feel admired, cherished, and wanted. For a husband, love isn’t just respect - it’s also tenderness, affection, warmth, and companionship.

Wives, don’t assume your husband doesn’t need love simply because he acts strong. Even lions need warmth. Even leaders need reassurance. Your love is not wasted - it’s fuel.

So, the Bible is balanced: men, love your wives sacrificially. Women, love your husbands sincerely. When both do their part, the home becomes heaven on earth.

©️ Ndegwa Steve GM
Psychologist and Pastor

22/09/2025

Good morning friend. Allow me to remind you that God is still remembering your prayer and he has an answer that will leave you wordless. Stay blessed and have a great week ahead

20/09/2025

In my line of duty as a therapist, I have something to confess: There’s a growing number of people who carry silent regret - why they let their first marriage collapse and rushed into another.

At first, the excitement of a new start blinds them. But with time, they realize they didn’t solve the real issues; they only changed the characters in the script. The same patterns, the same weaknesses, the same frustrations resurface.

Some confess that if they had slowed down, sought help, and worked through their first union, they would be far ahead today - in peace, in stability, In love, and even in family progress.

This is not to condemn second marriages. Many thrive beautifully. But it’s a sober reminder: sometimes what we think is an escape is only a detour that brings us back to the same lessons we refused to learn.

Before you give up on your current marriage, pause. Heal what is breaking, fix what is bleeding, and confront what is hiding. It may be the very thing that saves you from living with the heaviest regret of your life.

©️ Ndegwa Steve GM
Psychologist and Pastor

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