01/02/2023
Before you rush to teach your child how to count from 1-10, alphabets and colours all by the age of two, please consider teaching them *FEELINGS* first.
Teaching your child on feelings is a very important aspect of emotional and mental development. It highly improves their understanding of themselves, those around them, improves relationships, greatly improves their communication skills and also is a long term benefit on their mental well being. Things like tantrums will reduce and your child's speech and brain development will also be improved. When I talk about feelings what I mean is simple things like ..
Feeling hot, feeling hungry, feeling happy, feeling sad, feeling angry, feeling tired etc. When a child for example doesn't want a sweater on and you can clearly see it is hot, ask them, why don't you want a sweater, how do you feel about wearing it? They may not be able to say they are feeling hot or cold but they may cry, shrug shoulders, say they don't want and all that. Ask the child, is it that you're feeling hot? And use actions... Slowly your child will learn the difference.
Or, every morning ask your little toddlers how they are within the day. Ask them are they happy or sad. Use an expression to explain happy and another to explain sad. Or even a drawing of a dad and a happy face. With time they begin to associate a bright face on someone who is energetic and at peace and jolly as being happy and a gloomy face on someone full of negative emotion as maybe sad or upset.
These are just examples. For older kids we use other play therapy methods that we will talk about next time.
Highly engage your child like an adult but in a child friendly way. Exposing them to only screen time will make them miss some of these very important developmental stages before you know it.
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