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04/02/2025

Six Years Lost, Seven Years Found: My Journey to Real Love
Six years. That's how long I invested in a relationship that, in retrospect, was a mismatch from the start. It felt like a lifetime, a chapter of my life I can't reclaim. Disappointment doesn't even begin to describe the weight of those wasted years. I questioned my judgment, my ability to discern true connection. Were there red flags I ignored? Did I prioritize comfort over genuine compatibility? The truth is, I probably did.
Those six years weren't all bad. There were moments of joy, shared experiences, and a sense of familiarity. But beneath the surface, a fundamental disconnect existed. We wanted different things, our values didn't align, and the spark that ignites a lasting relationship was simply missing. We were comfortable, not compatible. We built a life together, but it wasn't our life, not truly.
The breakup was painful, a necessary surgery on my heart. It forced me to confront the reality of those six years, to acknowledge the time I'd "lost." But loss can be a catalyst. It pushed me to reflect, to understand what I truly needed in a partner, what I wouldn't compromise on.
Then came the seventh year. It started like any other, but fate had a different plan. I met him. My fiancé. It was different from the beginning. No games, no pretense, just an instant connection, a shared understanding. We laughed easily, talked for hours, and discovered a deep resonance between our souls. He saw me, truly saw me, for who I am.
In just one year, I found what I'd been searching for during those long six. It's a testament to the fact that timing is everything, and sometimes, life has other plans. Those six years taught me valuable lessons, painful but necessary. They shaped me, prepared me for the love I have now. They taught me the difference between comfort and compatibility, between settling and truly connecting. And they made me appreciate, with every fiber of my being, the incredible

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22/01/2025

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WHY MAKE NOISE DURING S*X.Have you ever woken up the morning after some mind-blowing s*x and think: “Why did I tell him ...
27/01/2024

WHY MAKE NOISE DURING S*X.
Have you ever woken up the morning after some mind-blowing s*x and think: “Why did I tell him all that stuff while we were cuddling last night?” Apparently, you’re not unique. Recent research shows that women who had an or**sm disclosed more of their positive thoughts and feeling about their partner afterward than those who didn’t climax—and they don’t feel as if they’re taking a risk by doing that. Blame it on your brain chemicals making you feel trusting.
According to experts, an or**sm triggers the release of oxytocin, the feel-good neuro- chemical that also makes spooning (lying front to back with your partners) feet amazing. “People get loose-lipped after an or**sm because the oxytocin makes them think it’s the right time to say gooey things,” explains author Amanda Denes. “In serious relationships, a little sappy gab might not be a bad thing, but in casual situations, it’s sort of a mixed bag.

Professing your love to someone you’ve been seeing for a few weeks could scare him away, but it could also help take things to the next level. So when in doubt, err on the side of taciturnity and see if you still feet like spilling in the morning.”Deep down, we’re all animals in bed. After all, s*x is an extremely primal act, and when we use our verbal human brains to talk about it—it’s clear that the tongue and the groin are linked (in a much less graphic way that you readers are picturing right now!) “Language communicates not only information but also meaning, feelings and symbols of internal realities,”says Amanda Denes.
“We can use it to make s*x better in a mechanical, instructional sense, but it also makes the act more meaningful.” In fact, a few choice words can set off the arousal response as swiftly as a sensual touch —especially in women who are more turned on by ideas than by visuals. But an off-colour or way-too-raunchy phrase from a man in your bed can turn you off just as quickly.
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25/01/2024

LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN.

1. Every male( including a little boy) has the instinct to detect disrespect and dishonour from your words and actions towards them.

2. Men feed on honour and respect. They value it over food. Do all you like to a man but don't touch his respect and honour.

3. Men hate it when they're talking to you and you are talking back at him. He hates it when he is talking and you are walking away.

4. Men hate to be challenged by their wives. Challenging him is stirring up the beast in him. That is unprofitable for you, woman

5. Men can do anything for their peace of mind, even if it makes them look like a coward. When a man loses his peace at home, his life is about to relocate to another place to seek it with anyone who can give it to him.

6. When a man is complaining about a particular thing, he has reached his breaking point of endurance. Do your best to pay attention to that thing and find a way to help him.

7. When a man is talking to you, he needs you to be silent and pay attention to him by focusing on him. Your calmness can make him reduce the tone of his voice if he is shouting at you.

8. The silence of a woman scares a man naturally, he can do anything just to make sure he finds out what went wrong.

9. A man is never too busy for the woman he loves.
10. What a man wants from his woman after everyday activities is peace of mind. Keep the issues away from him till he has been refreshed with food and a warm/cool bath.

11. Whenever a man gets a gift for his woman, it means he has thought about her deeply before doing so.

12. A man is not always far from his investment. He either carries it in his mind or he goes with it anywhere he goes.

13. Men love s*x. Women love lo******ng.

14. Men shed the most honest tears after children since they rarely show emotions.

15. Every man you see has a baby side of them that yearns for deep pampering and petting. That's why we call them babies.

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21/01/2024

SIMPLE WAYS TO RAISE A RESPECTFUL CHILD
Teaching kids to treat all people (and you!) with kindness and decency is the duty of all parents. The key is to set the right example. Treating our kids with respect is how we raise them to be respectful, and a healthy society must have respect at its foundation. Thomas Lickona, Ph.D., a developmental psychologist and author of How to Raise Kind Kids, defines respect as "showing regard for the intrinsic worth of someone or something. We treat everyone, even people we dislike, as having rights, dignity, and worth equal to our own." "Respect means making choices that build relationships." Above all, respect should be mutual. We should give it to our children and expect it in return. Respect, like the Golden Rule, means treating others the way you hope to be treated yourself.
The following are some ways to approach parenting that will help you raise kids who will make the world a kinder, more respectful place.
1. Value your kids’ choices.
Respect your child's preferences and style as a way of laying the groundwork for respecting the fact that this human is different from you. For instance, you want to get out of the rain, but your preschooler wants to stand outside and watch the water gushing down from the gutters. Instead of just refusing him/her, you could let him stay out but go into the house and give them an umbrella. You can then explain that although they are excited about the water, it’s too cold to stay out in the rain and they could catch a cold. This act of honoring your child’s interest is important to your child and they feel respected.

2. Speak politely.
Always remember that how you speak to your child is the way he'll speak to you and everybody else. For example, why do you always take so long to put on your shoes?" could be better expressed as a respectful observation: "You're working so hard to tie your shoes! I wonder if we should start getting ready earlier so that you have more time to practice without my ru

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