14/05/2024
For the past 5 months, I have been travelling by train for my clinical placement to a hospital outside of Colombo. They usually provide third-class tickets for this station. Yahh!!! That’s part of training, right?
One thing that surprised me was that most of the trains are approximately on time, and we can track the trains on an app for cancellations, changes of time, or new schedules every day! (Yup in Sri Lanka !! 😜)
So the journey began, first few days I was very anxious, went to the station way too early, got into the wrong trains and went to wrong destination, then figured how to go back to my location, got late for work, and most of all, was, drenched with sweat (I know!!! Early morning, starting the day with sweat 😔) and so many intrusive thoughts about contamination and dirt in the train!!!
It was unbelievably stressing and uncomfortable.
But did I have a choice?
Yes, I could go in an Uber or Pick me
Then why didn’t I?
Of cause thought about all the cost
And
Though I felt very uncomfortable travelling in the third class train, I loved the experience slowly, (Oops don’t look me like that 👀)
There were so many reasons why I like and you might not!!!
The people, the connection with the people without interaction just by non-verbal communication, the mild nuances in the behaviors of people and your psychology driven analysis and so so many things.
In psychology, there are so many ways we can tackle anxiousness. There are plenty of theories that talks about anxiousness
If the anxiousness is behaviorally driven, then doing the behavior repeatedly is the solution, even if you’re uncomfortable.
Your zone of tolerance increases, and you would actually learn some coping strategies to manage that anxiety.
None of us has an anxiety free life, everyone of us goes through anxiety, and we need to learn to manage our anxieties rather than living an anxiety free life.
Remember, all of us are anxious in new, challenging situations. It is very human behavior to be anxious. Facing the new, challenging situation is the most effective solution. Avoidance create more anxiety and keep you on your toe always.