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05/11/2024

EVEN DURING S*X : SPARE CHILDREN FROM TRAUMA

"Every child's safety is a reflection of our society's values; protecting them is not just a responsibility, but a promise to our future……"Protecting children is not just a responsibility; it is a commitment to the future and a measure of our humanity."

Samuel Magombo

January 2017
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Children should never have to bear the weight of adult conflicts. Witnessing parental arguments or experiencing domestic turmoil can have profound long-term emotional effects. Kids exposed to these negative behaviors often struggle with anxiety, depression, and trust issues as they grow up. The instability in their home environment can lead to difficulties in forming healthy relationships and coping with stress later in life.

As you enjoy the video clips from Malabo, Equatorial Guinea; just think about the many innocent who have been put through this. Imagine they are your children. From my social work point of view, few things could tragic as these events in so far as children welfare is concerned.

The implications of domestic violence extend far beyond immediate harm. Domestic violence includes a situation in which children witness the turmoil in their parents’ relationship. People who violate children’s innocence this way deserve the harshest punishment possible. I am judging the sexual element of the issue. I don’t really care whatever people do with their bodies, it’s their bodies, but the component of children is something I am more than happy to disperse some good dose of justice. Of course at the right time.

Children living in homes filled with conflict or violence may internalize the chaos, believing that such behavior is normal. This can lead to a cycle of aggression, where they either replicate these behaviors in their own relationships or become victims themselves. The emotional scars can linger for years, affecting their self-esteem and overall mental health.

People who grew up in a household where the father was abusive in one form or another tend to become delinquent or abusive to their spouses.

Similarly, witnessing parental promiscuity or dishonesty can deeply affect a child’s perception of trust and intimacy. When children see their parents engage in dishonest behavior or betray commitments, they may struggle to form healthy, trusting relationships in the future. They often grapple with feelings of confusion and insecurity, questioning the authenticity of their own relationships as they grow older.

For the sake of your children; please hide your promiscuity in the same way as you hide your dunana or C**k. Ok, if you don’t care about how your children would be affected, the sovereign rep (the Hon AG) cares as parens patriae.

Parental hypocrisy can further complicate a child's understanding of values and morals. When parents preach one thing and practice another, children can feel betrayed and lost, leading to a fractured sense of self and morality. This can create a deep sense of disillusionment and may impact their ability to make ethical decisions in their own lives. That’s how important it is that you hide your sexual activities away from children.

Moreover, exposure to parental drunkenness can introduce children to unhealthy coping mechanisms and normalize substance abuse. This environment can lead to significant emotional distress and the development of unhealthy patterns in their own behavior, perpetuating a cycle of dysfunction.

The difficult husbands and wives you see today are a product of abuse.

It’s crucial that we recognize the impact of our actions and prioritize the emotional well-being of our children. By addressing conflicts in healthier ways and seeking help when needed, we can create a nurturing environment that fosters resilience and happiness. Our kids deserve to grow up in a space free from fear and filled with love and support. Together, let’s protect their innocence and help them thrive.

A broken home is the a prison for children.

03/11/2024

GREETINGS FROM MY BLOOD: Embracing the Bruises of Innovation

I greet you with this costly blood from this blessed hand.

"Even as I navigate the stormiest seas, I will not yield to despair, for my vision guides me; the lessons learned and the strength forged in struggle empower me. Through the doubts of those who cannot see, I press on, resolute and unwavering, fueled by the fire of innovation that burns within." — Samuel Magombo 2024
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At Smaac in the pursuit of innovation, we often romanticize the journey—the groundbreaking ideas, the moments of inspiration, the accolades that follow. Yet, behind every success story lies a deeper, often unspoken truth: the injuries we endure along the way.

Each innovative idea is a leap into the unknown, a venture fraught with risk and uncertainty. It’s not just the intellectual challenge we face; it’s the emotional and physical toll that comes with pushing boundaries. We pour our hearts into our work, and when it doesn’t go as planned, we feel the sting of disappointment. The bruises from relentless criticism and the blood from sleepless nights as well as from our chipped fingers; are testament to our commitment.

Failure is a constant companion on the road to innovation. Each setback can feel like a blow, leaving us reeling and questioning our path. We stumble, we fall, and we rise again, often carrying the weight of our failures. Yet, it’s these very injuries that teach us resilience. They sharpen our focus and fuel our determination.

Innovation is not for the faint of heart. It demands courage—the courage to challenge the status quo, to risk our reputation, and to expose ourselves to vulnerability. But within this pain lies potential. Each bruise is a badge of honor, a reminder that we dared to step into uncharted territory.

As we navigate this tumultuous journey, we must embrace the injuries we sustain. They are not signs of weakness; they are indicators of growth. They remind us that every great idea is forged in the fires of struggle and perseverance. So let’s wear our scars proudly, for they are proof that we are not merely dreamers, but doers—bruised yet unbroken, bloodied yet bold.

In the end, the journey of innovation is not just about the destination; it’s about the lessons learned and the strength gained along the way. Embrace the struggle, celebrate the journey, and keep pushing forward. The world needs your ideas, no matter the cost.

Yours

Samuel Magombo
Smaac

31/10/2024

DO NOT MAKE BABIES WITH FOOLISH PEOPLE:- MAKE A BABY WITH A SMART PERSON ONLY

When it comes to having children, choose wisely. We owe it to our Republic to raise intelligent, productive, and patriotic individuals who will uphold our independence and drive our nation forward.

For too long, society has promoted the idea of having children solely with those we love. While love is important, it's crucial to prioritize intelligence, responsibility, and kindness in a partner—qualities that should never be overlooked, even if they don't fit our romantic ideals.

Factors like religion; aesthetic beauty, politics, race, or tribe should not influence this choice. We need to ensure that the next generation is filled with capable minds. Not good-looking people who think and act idiotically. Idiots are very dangerous people, and I wonder why for far too long, we have downplayed not just their high prevalence, but most shockingly; their negative consequences on society.

My gender is notorious for child negligence compared to the other camp. So ladies in particular must be adequately advised to choose wisely in deciding who becomes their child gene source.

Our society is already burdened with enough ignorance; we don’t need to perpetuate it. Ignorance and its beholder are a menace to society; let us remember to choose our child’s mum or dad wisely.

Imagine this, we are still a society where the importance of having a toilet is not universally appreciated. We are still in the League of Nations where academic education has not yet fully exorcised the stupidity in some of our cultures and customs. We remain enslaved to the mumbo-jumbo of witches, wizard, miracle money and casting out some invisible but allegedly nefarious demons!! That’s how stupidity still controls our minds.
While romance and love are deeply personal emotions shaped by individual experiences and cultural backgrounds, there are certain aspects of human nature that remain universal. For instance, fundamental biological needs—such as the need for food, water, and shelter—are shared by all humans, regardless of their personal feelings or experiences.
Additionally, emotions like joy, sadness, fear, and anger are universally felt, even if their expressions can differ across cultures. The capacity for empathy and the desire for connection with others are also innate to humanity, transcending individual experiences. DO NOT MAKE BABIES WITH FOOLISH PEOPLE :- MAKE A BABY WITH A SMART PERSON ONLY

When it comes to having children, choose wisely. We owe it to our Republic to raise intelligent, productive, and patriotic individuals who will uphold our independence and drive our nation forward.

For too long, society has promoted the idea of having children solely with those we love. While love is important, it's crucial to prioritize intelligence, responsibility, and kindness in a partner—qualities that should never be overlooked, even if they don't fit our romantic ideals.

Factors like religion, aesthetic beauty, politics, race, or tribe should not influence this choice. We need to ensure that the next generation is filled with capable minds. Not good-looking people who think and act idiotically. Idiots are very dangerous people, and I wonder why for far too long, we have downplayed not just their high prevalence, but most shockingly; their negative consequences on society.

My gender is notorious for child negligence compared to the other camp. So ladies in particular must be adequately advised to choose wisely in deciding who becomes their child gene source.
Our society is already burdened with enough ignorance; we don’t need to perpetuate it. Ignorance and its beholder are a menace to society; let us remember to choose our child’s mum or dad wisely.

Imagine this, we are still a society where the importance of having a toilet is not universally appreciated. We are still in the League of Nations where academic education has not yet fully exorcised the stupidity in some of our cultures and customs. We remain enslaved to the mumbo-jumbo of witches, wizard, miracle money and casting out some invisible but allegedly nefarious demons!! That’s how stupidity still controls our minds.
While romance and love are deeply personal emotions shaped by individual experiences and cultural backgrounds, there are certain aspects of human nature that remain universal. For instance, fundamental biological needs—such as the need for food, water, and shelter—are shared by all humans, regardless of their personal feelings or experiences.

Additionally, emotions like joy, sadness, fear, and anger are universally felt, even if their expressions can differ across cultures. The capacity for empathy and the desire for connection with others are also innate to humanity, transcending individual experiences.
Therefore, when choosing a partner with whom to have children, it may be wiser to consider qualities that are more universal, such as acute intelligence, the capacity for critical thinking, a drive for higher standards of living, and a sense of kindness and responsibility toward others and the environment. These traits can contribute to a more nurturing and sustainable future for both individuals and society as a whole; reinforcing the idea that while love may be subjective, the values we seek in partners can have lasting impacts across generations.
The pool of intelligent individuals is dwindling, and we cannot rely on those lacking in critical thinking to shape the future. It's time to take this responsibility seriously. In tumbuka language they talk of ukavu na uburu. We should not perpetuate mental genes of ukavu na uburu.
That is to say; Our society has enough idiots, there is no need to add more. The supply of smart people is shrinking because those of you who are smart are slowing down in the production of babies. This is very dangerous. We cannot leave this important aspect of life to those who are less privileged in the area of intelligence and clean mind.

Even if Malawi has 50 million people, it’s fine. We just need such people to be very smart. A larger population with a higher percent of extraordinarily intelligent people is better and best than few people who are idiots.

Yours

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Therefore, when choosing a partner with whom to have children, it may be wiser to consider qualities that are more universal, such as acute intelligence, the capacity for critical thinking, a drive for higher standards of living, and a sense of kindness and responsibility toward others and the environment. These traits can contribute to a more nurturing and sustainable future for both individuals and society as a whole; reinforcing the idea that while love may be subjective, the values we seek in partners can have lasting impacts across generations.

The pool of intelligent individuals is dwindling, and we cannot rely on those lacking in critical thinking to shape the future. It's time to take this responsibility seriously. In tumbuka language they talk of ukavu na uburu. We should not perpetuate mental genes of ukavu na uburu.

That is to say; Our society has enough idiots, there is no need to add more. The supply of smart people is shrinking because those of you who are smart are slowing down in the production of babies. This is very dangerous. We cannot leave this important aspect of life to those who are less privileged in the area of intelligence and clean mind.

Even if Malawi has 50 million people, it’s fine. We just need such people to be very smart. A larger population with a higher percent of extraordinarily intelligent people is better and best than few people who are idiots.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

29/10/2024

EULOGY TO A WOMAN I NEVER ACTUALLY MET

Born from the the type of town boys of yesterday; Sparks Jumbe, him of the Panoramic Panorama ahoy the hilltop near Chileka round about in Blantyre.

Very simple things like home district of Chiradzulo, affable, intelligent, smart, not bullish nor overbearing. Outgoing but decorous, vulnerable but not stupid. Motherly but not overindulging. Beautiful in every measure but never drunk of beauty! Spiritual as an angel and Zain at heart but not ludicrously religious.

Well, I did not attend Chancellor College, I am not a lawyer; she was not in my circle personally or professionally. She never knew me and I met actually met her.

But there are some people like her kind. You don’t need to have met them. You don’t need to know them up close. You don’t need to have attended their lectures.

They are the lamp of the world. Attractive to everyone everywhere. Very difficult to hate or hurt. The closest I know Ngeyi is that she is a sister to a friend and neighbor Anita Kalinde. That’s all. Yet here I am. There are things that this woman did not some of my friends. Listening to what she did to them and indeed observing the impact of her life to so many generations to come; one is left with no choice:-

"If we wish to express what we want the women of future generations to be, we must say: Let them be like Ngeyi! If we wish to say how we want our children to be educated, we must say without hesitation: We want them to be educated in Ngeyi’s spirit! If we want the model of a man or woman who does not belong to our times but to the future, I say from the depths of my heart that such a model, without a single stain on his or her conduct, without a single stain on his action, is Ngeyi!

Pepani Maloya. Pepani a Kanyongolo, Pepani kwa Jumbe and pepani Kwambiri a Malawi. Koma tatayika, tathyoka.

29/10/2024

DEMAND TO BE RESPECTED BECAUSE YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON

Let’s be real: nobody is perfect. We all stumble and learn, so it’s unfair to expect flawlessness from those around us. But there are lines that should never be crossed. When someone disrespects you, it’s time to take a hard look at that relationship—and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for your feelings. Being subjected to constant disrespect is not just unacceptable; it’s a violation of your worth. Remember, you can only demand respect if you’re willing to give it, but that doesn't mean you should tolerate anything less. Disrespectful people can sometimes make you question your sense of judgment, they manipulate you, and sometimes they may even guilty-trap you just to equalize - Never tolerate it.

If you don’t smoke, it’s not just a preference; it’s your right to ask others to respect your space. If you avoid profanity, you deserve an environment free of it. Your kindness should be met with kindness in return, not taken for granted. Your standards for healthy relationships are not negotiable—they are vital. And here’s the hard truth: any lie, no matter how small, is a betrayal. Lies are a toxic form of abuse, and those who lie will stop at nothing to manipulate you.

Moreover, anyone who uses social media to attack others—especially those who may have done nothing wrong—doesn’t deserve your respect. When you condone or applaud social media bullies, you become an enabler. A bully is a bully, regardless of their wealth or status. This behavior only perpetuates a culture of cruelty and division, and it has no place in a respectful society.

Putting up with abusive and deceitful people can leave deep, lifelong scars. Over time, this tolerance chips away at your self-esteem, making you question your worth and your ability to connect genuinely with others. You may feel trapped in a cycle of anxiety and isolation, constantly second-guessing your instincts. The emotional toll can lead to chronic stress and open the door to serious mental health challenges like depression and anxiety.

Enduring this kind of toxicity not only robs you of your peace; it suffocates your potential for authentic connections and true happiness. It’s time to prioritize your well-being. By cutting ties with those who bring you down, you reclaim your power and create space for healthier relationships that uplift and inspire you. Remember: you deserve respect, and it’s time to demand it fiercely`

`Yours

Samuel Magombo.

28/10/2024

BEWARE OF THE LOUDEST

The person who mourns the loudest at a king's or queen's funeral isn't always the most sorrowful. Some tears, driven by overwhelming emotions, can also stem from profound joy. Similarly, those who speak warmly or praise you lavishly may not be the most caring. Consider the infamous betrayal: "Et tu, Brutus?"

The phrase "Et tu, Brute?" is attributed to Julius Caesar in William Shakespeare's play, symbolizing deep betrayal. In the context of the play, Caesar, the leader of Rome, is attacked by a group of conspirators on the Ides of March, 44 BC. Among them is Brutus, a close friend and ally. As Caesar is stabbed, he recognizes Brutus’s involvement and utters the words, which translate to "And you, Brutus?" This moment captures his shock and heartbreak, illustrating the profound sense of betrayal one feels when a trusted friend turns against them.

Historically, this betrayal played a significant role in the political turmoil of Rome, leading to Caesar's assassination and subsequent civil wars. It serves as a poignant reminder that loyalty can often be an illusion, and those we trust the most can sometimes cause the greatest harm.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

27/10/2024

DO IT TODAY

Even if your sole triumph today is gazing into the mirror, confront the chill of your tears and feel their sting. Let them flow freely; weep as you must. Wipe away the remnants and declare to your very soul that you shall rise and conquer. Act! Do not merely wish; forge your path, embrace the challenge, and seize the day.

I make no promises of ease, for the road will be treacherous. Expect more tears, dread, and chaos that will threaten to engulf you. The world will press upon you, and sense may flee. You may even face death, but better to perish in the pursuit of noble dreams than to live a wretched existence, bound by despair. Never draw inspiration from those with perverted self-confidence, nor admire the criminally inclined; instead, harness your strength to demolish evil and its agents.

Remember this: You owe nobody an explanation, and No one owes you one.

The likelihood is that you will not fall, but instead, you will emerge as a warrior of unmatched valor, a legend yet unwritten.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

26/10/2024

Never lose hope; it’s the fire that drives you to fight against the darkness.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

26/10/2024

Pain is your only ally in the fight against weakness. When the voice inside screams for you to quit, unleash your rage and keep grinding. You’re not here to be average; you’re here to dominate. Stand your ground—never be a pushover, never back down. For as long as you live, you have a duty to fight for your existence and happiness, not just for yourself but for everyone else who desires it. Break the limits, crush the doubt, and turn your suffering into your weapon. Intimidation has no place in your journey.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

25/10/2024

“You can’t wait until life isn’t hard anymore before you decide to be happy”

Jane Kristen Marczewski (Nightbird)

23/10/2024

DO NOT FEAR - YOU WILL BE FINE

The long fuel queues can feel like a symbol of our collective frustrations, reflecting deeper anxieties that many of us carry. It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed—when the lines stretch endlessly, it’s easy to let the weight of our other struggles seep in. Whether it's the sting of betrayed love, the sorrow of lost income, or the feeling of being unaccepted and unappreciated, these experiences compound the stress of everyday life.

The negativity that can stem from toxic friendships or relationships only adds to this burden. Yet, amidst these frustrations, there’s a flicker of hope. Even when it seems like everything is spiraling, there’s a resilience within us that can help us navigate through these challenges.

No matter how tough things get, we must hold on to the one constant that can never be taken from us: our love for our mother Malawi. This connection, this deep-rooted affection for our home, is a source of strength. It reminds us that even in the face of adversity, we have a foundation to lean on.

So, while the fuel queues may test our patience and our spirits, let’s remember that these challenges are temporary. Together, we can find a way forward, and we will emerge stronger, with a renewed appreciation for the things that truly matter.
In the face of uncertainty, it’s easy to let fear take hold. But I want to remind you: you are not alone, and you are stronger than the challenges you face.

“From the time you take your first breath, you become eligible to die. You also become eligible to find your greatness and become the one warrior.” These powerful words serve as a stark reminder of the duality of life. With every breath, we are reminded that our time here is limited, but that same breath also carries the potential for greatness.

Your ability to remain positive and motivated can never come from outside sources; it must come from within. Understand this: motivation and positivity may feel fleeting right now—they can be useless if not anchored in something deeper. What you truly need is knowledge. Accurate knowledge.

Within a certain period of time, you and your fears will be ashamed because things will be fine. It may seem distant now, but with commitment and action, that reality is just around the corner. Take action today and start putting in the tough and difficult work of turning things around. Each small step you take builds momentum, transforming your fear into fuel for your journey.

Know this: you are resilient, you are capable, and you will be fine. With this understanding, let go of fear. Every trial is an opportunity for growth, and you have everything it takes to rise above.

So, when fear whispers that you can’t go on, respond with your fierce determination. Take a deep breath, gather your strength, and move forward. The dawn always follows the night, and your brighter days are on the horizon.

Trust in your journey. Embrace the struggle. We will be fine.

Yours

Samuel Magombo

21/10/2024

DEFINITION OF THE WORD YOUTH

If you’re over 35, you are not young. Stop pretending to be part of the youth. You’re a fully grown adult, capable of achieving anything, including becoming head of state. It’s time to recognize your age and stop taking opportunities meant for younger people. Embrace your adulthood and leave the youth claims behind.

According to official records, Bakili Muluzi was born in 1943 and was 61 when he left the presidency. After Bingu Mutharika was sworn in as President of Malawi in 2004, BBC reporters Paul Bakibinga-bbc and Uduak Amimo asked Muluzi about his post-presidency plans. He replied, “Well, there are a lot of things I can do; after all, I’m still young and have a lot to offer the country.” Paul quickly responded, “Who told you that you’re still young?” This was on BBC FOCUS ON AFRICA �

This exchange highlights how the definition of youth can differ in politics compared to societal norms. Ultimately, older individuals often struggle to accept their age. As for me, I acknowledge that I am old now and no longer have any claims about youth.

In the context of Malawi, the legal definition of "youth" plays a crucial role in shaping policies and programs aimed at empowering the younger generation. According to the National Youth Policy, youth are typically defined as individuals aged between 10 and 35 years. This age range acknowledges the diverse challenges and opportunities faced by young people in various stages of their lives.

Understanding this definition is essential for fostering a supportive environment where youth can thrive. It emphasizes the importance of education, employment, and health services tailored to the unique needs of this demographic. By recognizing youth as a vital segment of the population, Malawi aims to harness their potential for national development and social progress.

Moreover, this definition reflects the aspirations and capabilities of young Malawians. Engaging youth in decision-making processes ensures that their voices are heard and considered in matters that affect their futures. If we genuinely want youth to participate in politics, we must recognize the unique challenges they face. Unlike older candidates, many young people lack the experience and financial resources to effectively compete in elections. A practical solution would be to set aside special parliamentary seats exclusively for individuals aged 35 and below, with lowered participation requirements.

Unfortunately, it is disheartening to witness individuals well beyond the age of 35 who falsely present themselves as youth. This greedy behavior undermines the integrity of programs designed for genuine young people and enables corrupt individuals to exploit resources intended for the rightful demographic. To combat this, we must make it illegal for anyone over 35 to claim the status of youth, just as we prevent those under 35 from running for the presidency. We can retain our exclusive privilege to contest for the highest office while allowing younger generations to fully enjoy their youth and engage meaningfully in political discourse. By standing firm against these injustices, we can ensure that authentic young Malawians are empowered to lead and innovate for a brighter future.

Yours

Happily 46 years Old man

Samuel Magombo

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