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MY Psychology KK MY Psychology KK is founded in 2022 to provide psychotherapy and counselling services.

🎒 Understanding School Phobia: When Going to School Feels Overwhelming 🎒Does your child often complain of stomach aches,...
13/09/2025

🎒 Understanding School Phobia: When Going to School Feels Overwhelming 🎒

Does your child often complain of stomach aches, headaches, or refuse to go to school? While it may look like misbehaviour, it could be School Phobia (or School Refusal)—a condition where children experience intense anxiety about attending school.

🧠 So, what is School Phobia?
School Phobia isn’t simply about being “lazy” or “naughty.” It’s a form of severe anxiety that can be triggered by academic stress, bullying, separation anxiety, or struggles with learning.

💡 Common Signs of School Phobia include ➡️
🔸 Frequent complaints of physical symptoms (headaches, stomach aches) before school
🔸 Extreme distress, crying, or tantrums on school mornings
🔸 Refusal to attend school, but symptoms improve when allowed to stay home
🔸 Fear of separation from parents or caregivers
🔸 Declining academic performance and avoidance of school-related activities

🌱 With the right support, children struggling with school phobia can regain confidence, build coping skills, and return to school successfully.

Our clinical psychologists and counsellors can help by:
✔️ Identifying underlying causes of school refusal
✔️ Teaching coping strategies to manage anxiety
✔️ Working with parents and teachers to provide support
✔️ Helping your child rebuild confidence in school

📞 WhatsApp us: https://wa.link/lotj6c
🌐 Or visit: www.mypsychologykk.comto book your session

11/09/2025

“心理师,我怀疑我有不一样的人格。”

坐在我面前的她,语气很认真。
“有时候,我觉得自己换了一个人。前一秒很温柔,后一秒却暴躁到不认识自己。甚至,我会忘记刚才做过的事。”
她说着,眼神里带着慌张。
“是不是……我有多重人格?” (现在又名解离性身份识别障碍,但是以前的名字-多重人格障碍,比较好记。)
这样的提问,我已经听过很多次。
尤其在网络上,“人格分裂”“Dissociative Identity Disorder”成了某种标签,甚至有些人会把自己情绪的剧烈变化,解释为“我可能是DID”。

但是,作为临床心理师,我必须说实话:
解离性身份识别障碍(DID)确实存在,但它非常罕见。

我以前的督导,当了临床心理师差不多有30年,他也只遇过一名患有DID的男性患者。

所以其实,大多数觉得自己“变了一个人”的人,其实并不是DID。


1. 影视与网络的影响
电视剧、小说里常常把DID描绘得很戏剧化:一个人有多个截然不同的身份,甚至能瞬间切换。久而久之,大家把它当作“人格分裂”的代名词。
2. 症状的混淆
很多心理困扰也会让人觉得自己“不像自己”:
* 边缘性人格障碍(BPD):情绪极端不稳定,时常感觉自己变来变去。
* 创伤后压力症(PTSD / C-PTSD):会出现记忆空白或解离感。
* 焦虑与抑郁:当情绪崩塌时,人会觉得“这不像我”。
3. 标签化的寻求理解
在网络时代,很多人会用标签来解释自己的痛苦。

说“我是不是DID”,有时候不是因为真的是DID,而是想要找到一种方式,让别人理解他们的困惑与挣扎。


真正的DID案例,大多与严重、长期的童年创伤或虐待有关。
为了在极端的环境中生存,大脑会“切分”不同的身份:
* 有的身份承受痛苦
* 有的身份保持功能
* 有的身份像“守护者”,保护孩子免受进一步伤害

这种解离机制让他们得以活下来,但也造成了严重的身份断裂。

所以,DID不是单纯的情绪不稳,而是一种结构性的解离现象。

#当有人说“我觉得我有DID”

当你听到别人自称有DID的时候,请别急着否定对方。 我们能够尝试去聆听对方为什么会怀疑自己有DID,又或者为什么会需要这个“标签”来解释自身的痛苦。

怀疑自己有DID的背后,是否有长期被忽视的痛苦,又或者对方其实在发出求救讯号?

无论是不是DID的诊断标准。那份“我不像自己”“我很痛苦”的感受,都是真实存在的,都是当事人所能够感觉到的。

#写在最后
DID的确存在,但极其罕见。
真正需要的,不是去追逐标签,而是理解这些标签背后,那些渴望被看见的伤口。

因为有时候,哪怕只是被认真听见一次,也能让一个人觉得:自己没有那么孤单。

11/09/25
张庭锋
临床心理师
MY Psychology KK

🌟 Mental Health Awareness Talk 🌟The Lions Club of KK Sutera, together with Zone 15 clubs, warmly invites you to a meanin...
11/09/2025

🌟 Mental Health Awareness Talk 🌟

The Lions Club of KK Sutera, together with Zone 15 clubs, warmly invites you to a meaningful community event on mental health awareness. Join us for an engaging session designed to support parents, working adults, and teens in understanding and strengthening mental well-being.

🗓 Date: Saturday, 4 October 2025
🕒 Time: 3:00 PM – 5:00 PM
📍 Venue: SMJK Shan Tao Likas

Topics Covered:
✅ What is mental health?
✅ Stress, anxiety & depression
✅ Screening & where to get help

👤 Speaker: Mr Charlie R Wong

✨ For: Parents, working adults & teens
💰 Fee: FREE Admission

👉 Register here:
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScMqJsQQJ2cvjYl2Y9QM-fDqTz6J8RQBlqCaw8tlni9fuRDUA/viewform?usp=header

Organised by Lions Club of KK Sutera
A Zone 15 Joint Event

Supported by: My Psychology KK, and fellow partners

💙 Let’s come together to raise awareness, break the stigma, and learn how to care for our own mental health and that of our loved ones.

Two years ago, Joey first joined our center as an intern. At that time, she had just resigned from a center in Kuala Lum...
09/09/2025

Two years ago, Joey first joined our center as an intern. At that time, she had just resigned from a center in Kuala Lumpur that served special-needs children, and after completing her studies, she entered our team full of passion and curiosity to begin her internship.

Today, two years later, she has returned to MY Psychology KK—this time as a Clinical Psychology Trainee. She has completed her placement at Universiti Malaysia Sabah Hospital and is now entering the second stage of her clinical training. I will also be her supervisor, which means that every case she sees at MY Psychology KK will be under my supervision. ✨

I believe her presence will bring fresh energy to the mental health services here in Kota Kinabalu. 🌿

In addition, the 20 free therapy slots we launched earlier are still open for applications. If you or someone you know meets the criteria, feel free to apply. For those who do not qualify but would still like to experience therapy, you may book Joey’s sessions, which will be offered at a special trainee rate.

Whether for yourself, your family, or your friends—if support is needed, you are always welcome to reach out to us. 💙

06/09/25
Chong Tin Fung
Clinical Psychologist
MY Psychology KK

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09/09/2025

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🔄 Understanding Bipolar Disorder: Living Between Highs and Lows 🔄Do you or someone you care about experience extreme shi...
06/09/2025

🔄 Understanding Bipolar Disorder: Living Between Highs and Lows 🔄

Do you or someone you care about experience extreme shifts in mood—from intense energy and excitement to deep sadness and exhaustion? This could be more than just “mood swings”—it might be Bipolar Disorder.

🧠 So, what is Bipolar Disorder?
Bipolar Disorder is a mental health condition that involves dramatic changes in mood, energy, and activity levels, which can affect daily functioning and relationships.

💡 Common Signs of Bipolar Disorder include ➡️
🔸 Periods of high energy, restlessness, or impulsive behaviour (mania/hypomania)
🔸 Episodes of sadness, hopelessness, or loss of interest (depression)
🔸 Difficulty maintaining daily routines, work, or relationships
🔸 Struggling to manage mood changes without support

While bipolar disorder can feel overwhelming, the right therapy and support can make life more stable and fulfilling.

Our clinical psychologists are here to guide you in:
✔️ Understanding your condition and triggers
✔️ Developing strategies for managing mood swings
✔️ Building coping skills and routines for stability
✔️ Strengthening relationships and communication

📞 WhatsApp us: https://wa.link/lotj6c
🌐 Or visit: www.mypsychologykk.com to book your session

😨 Phobias: When Fear Takes Over Daily Life 😨It’s normal to feel afraid of certain things — like heights, insects, or cro...
30/08/2025

😨 Phobias: When Fear Takes Over Daily Life 😨

It’s normal to feel afraid of certain things — like heights, insects, or crowded places. But when that fear becomes overwhelming, persistent, and interferes with daily activities, it may be a phobia.

💡 What are Phobias?
Phobias are intense and irrational fears of specific objects, situations, or activities. Even if the danger isn’t real, the fear feels very real and can trigger extreme anxiety.

💬 Common signs of phobias include:
🔸 Feeling extreme fear when exposed to the object or situation
🔸 Avoiding certain places, activities, or people because of fear
🔸 Physical symptoms like sweating, trembling, dizziness, or a racing heart
🔸 Fear that feels out of proportion to the actual situation

🌱 How therapy can help:
Therapy for phobias helps you gradually face and manage your fears in a safe, supportive way.
Through evidence-based approaches like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and exposure therapy, you can:
✔️ Understand the root of your fear
✔️ Learn coping strategies to manage anxiety
✔️ Gradually reduce avoidance and regain confidence
✔️ Live more freely without fear holding you back

You don’t have to let fear control your life. With the right guidance, phobias are highly treatable.

📞 WhatsApp us: https://wa.link/lotj6c
🌐 Visit: www.mypsychologykk.com to book your session

One day, my front desk staff told me about a young man, around 20 years old, who had walked into our center. He said he ...
26/08/2025

One day, my front desk staff told me about a young man, around 20 years old, who had walked into our center. He said he had been lingering outside for a long time, hesitating, before finally gathering the courage to push the door open.

While filling in the form, he caught a glimpse of our price list. His hand holding the pen suddenly froze. He looked up and softly said to the receptionist:
“My savings… I think they’re only enough for one or two sessions with a psychologist.”

When I heard the story from the receptionist, my heart sank.
As a psychologist, I knew he truly needed support.
But as someone running a center, I also knew rent, salaries, and admin costs could not simply be ignored.

Even though I really wanted to say, “It’s okay, I’ll see you for free,” I knew deep down this wasn’t a sustainable solution.



Reflection and Exploration

Since then, I kept thinking: Is there a way to reduce the burden for people seeking psychological help?

In Sabah—what many call a “desert” of mental health—the number of registered psychologists in government hospitals can be counted on one hand, yet they must serve the entire state population. You can imagine how long one would need to wait to see a psychologist.

I realized that if affordable sessions were to be possible, we needed to start training the next generation of psychologists.

In clinical psychology training, there is a full year of internship. Interns are required to accumulate 1,200 hours of hands-on experience before becoming fully qualified clinical psychologists.

So, I decided to take up the role of supervisor. Under professional supervision, these interns can conduct real therapy sessions. And these sessions can then become the “more affordable” ones.

For interns, this is a precious learning opportunity.
For clients, it is psychological support at a lighter financial cost.



The Power of Resource Integration

At the same time, I have also been actively collaborating with Luyang Community Center 路阳社区中心and YB Phoong Jin Zhe(冯晋哲)

Because relying on one private center alone is limited. But when resources are integrated, more people can benefit.

Over time, we have worked with Luyang Community Center to host free mental health talks, and even provided one-on-one psychological screenings.

This time, I am especially grateful for the support of YB Phoong Jin Zhe. Ever since the tragic case of young Zara, he has expressed his wish to contribute more concretely to mental health causes.

Through such collaboration, private centers won’t be drained of resources, while government funding can be channeled more effectively to communities that truly need help.



Mental Health Should Not Be a Luxury

I have always believed that mental health should not be a “luxury.”
At some point in life, everyone needs a safe space where they can lay down the weight in their heart.

Therefore, with funding support from YB Phoong Jin Zhe, our center will be opening 20 slots, each providing 5 free therapy sessions (FACE-to-FACE only).

To ensure these resources truly go to those who need them most, a few conditions have been set:
(a) Household income below RM5000
(b) Malaysian citizens residing in Sabah
(c) Those under 18 must be accompanied by a guardian
(d) Commitment to completing all 5 sessions

This is my small attempt—a step I hope will contribute to the mental well-being of people in Sabah.

I want psychological support to no longer be a privilege for the few, but something everyone can safely reach for.

If you or someone you know meets the criteria, feel free to contact us via WhatsApp at 01133116211.

And if you share this vision, perhaps we can walk side by side, planting seeds of mental health across more corners of Sabah.

26/08/25
Chong Tin Fung
Clinical Psychologist
MY Psychology KK

⚡ Panic Attacks: When Anxiety Feels Overwhelming ⚡A panic attack can feel sudden, intense, and frightening — often comin...
23/08/2025

⚡ Panic Attacks: When Anxiety Feels Overwhelming ⚡

A panic attack can feel sudden, intense, and frightening — often coming with physical symptoms like a racing heart, shortness of breath, chest tightness, dizziness, or a feeling of losing control.
Many people mistake it for a heart attack or a serious medical condition.

💡 What is a Panic Attack?
A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. It can be triggered by stress, certain situations, or happen unexpectedly. While not life-threatening, panic attacks can greatly impact your daily life and well-being.

💬 Common signs of panic attacks include:
🔸 Rapid heartbeat or palpitations
🔸 Shortness of breath or choking sensation
🔸 Sweating, trembling, or shaking
🔸 Dizziness or feeling faint
🔸 A strong fear of losing control or “going crazy”

🌱 How therapy can help:
Our therapy approach focuses on understanding your triggers, managing anxiety symptoms, and learning techniques to regain a sense of control.
With the right tools and support, panic attacks can become less frequent and less intense — and you can reclaim your peace of mind.

If you’ve experienced panic attacks or live in fear of them, you’re not alone. Help is available.

📞 WhatsApp us: https://wa.link/lotj6c
🌐 Visit: www.mypsychologykk.com to book your session

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