22/08/2025
‘’医生，可以用哆啦A梦付账吗？‘’
这是今晚病人家属问我的一句话。
我也忍不住笑了。
可后来想想，也许答案是-可以。
我的诊所里摆满了哆啦A梦。
一方面是我个人的喜好，
但更重要的原因是：
我希望，当病人推开诊室的门时，
看到的不是冰冷的白墙和严肃的气氛，
而是一个能让他们稍微放松的地方。
因为来看妇产科，尤其是当面对的是一位男医生，
难免会觉得紧张，甚至尴尬。
需要很大的勇气，才能鼓起胆子走进来。
有时候病人紧张，我就胡乱开几个冷笑话，
让他们笑一笑，心情轻松一点。
病人常常会好奇：
“这些哆啦A梦积木都是你自己做的吗？”
我会笑着解释：
“那个竹蜻蜓的是去年朋友送的生日礼物，
另外两个是两个妹妹们做的，
其余都是朋友们送的心意。“
我还会补充一句：
“这个橱还是特地量身订做的，
本来要放六个，但另外三个来不及做完。”
如果有小朋友陪妈妈来，
我就对小朋友说：
“这个是老人的玩具哦！”
有时候我自己也佩服自己，真会胡说八道。
但其实，我心里很清楚，
我希望的，不只是让病人放松。
当我要告知一些坏消息的时候，
尤其是癌症，
我希望诊室里的这一点点温暖，
能让他们的眼泪少一些，
让他们在悲伤里，
仍然带着一丝力量，
坚强的去面对接下来的治疗和生活。
在这里，我见过不同的故事。
有的是喜讯—终于怀孕了，久等的好消息。
有的是痛苦—流产、滑胎、宫外孕、不孕。
也有沉重的—性病、甚至癌症。
喜与悲，生与死。
这些都不是我能完全改变的。
但无论如何，
我希望能和病人一起分担，
无论是笑声，还是眼泪。
或许，这就是我摆满哆啦A梦的原因。
因为哆啦A梦代表的，是童年、是陪伴、是希望。
我也希望，
在你最需要的时候，
你走进我的诊室，
能感受到的，不是孤单，
而是一种温暖的陪伴。
“𝐃𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫, 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 𝐃𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭?”
That’s what a patient’s family member asked me tonight.
I laughed.
But later I thought, maybe I should say yes.
My clinic is filled with Doraemon figures.
Partly because I love collecting them.
But more importantly, I want my patients, when they walk in,
to forget the sterile, clinical setting,
and instead find a corner of warmth where they can relax.
Because coming to see an O&G doctor
especially when the doctor is a man
can be awkward, stressful, even intimidating.
It takes courage just to step inside.
Sometimes I tell silly jokes to ease their nerves.
Patients often ask:
“Did you build all these Doraemon figures yourself?”
I smile and explain:
“That one with the take-copter was a birthday gift from a friend last year.
These two were made by my younger sisters,
and the rest were gifts from other close friends.”
Then I add with a grin:
“This cabinet was custom-made to fit their height.
It was supposed to hold six, but the other three weren’t finished in time.”
When kids come along with their mums,
I like to tell them:
“These are toys for old people!”
Sometimes I surprise myself at how much nonsense I can come up with
But deep down, I know why.
Because when I have to break difficult news,
especially cancer
I hope that little bit of warmth in the room
can soften the tears,
and give patients strength to face the journey ahead.
Here, I’ve seen every shade of life.
Joy — a long-awaited pregnancy, a long-awaited “yes.”
Sorrow — miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, infertility.
Heaviness — STIs, cancer.
Joy and grief. Life and loss.
I can’t change everything.
But I can stand beside you.
To share the laughter,
and also the tears.
Perhaps that’s why I fill my room with Doraemon.
𝘉𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘋𝘰𝘳𝘢𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱, 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦.
𝔸𝕟𝕕 𝕀 𝕨𝕚𝕤𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕨𝕙𝕖𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕨𝕒𝕝𝕜 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕪 𝕔𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕔,
𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝 𝕚𝕤 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕝𝕠𝕟𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕤,
𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕘𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕝𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕡𝕒𝕟𝕪.
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