I Change the book of Life Coach Dr. M

I Change the book of Life Coach Dr. M I Change is a concept that helps people change and get back the Life they deserve. Life Coach Dr. M To start with I was innocent and ignorant. I Change was born.

A long time ago when I started out in life I had my share of challenges. Even as a qualified Dentist, which I thought would have been my passport to a rich and happy life, I was unhappy, suffered from anxiety and burdened with Debt. The stress of living through the challenges affected both my health and my relationship. Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) took its toll on both my energy and temperament

let alone a loss of Peace of Mind. I was running but seemingly on a treadmill going no where. My relationships were faring no better; both at work and at home! That moved me to take action. I didn't want to be toxic parent and spouse to my loved ones; something which I was fast becoming. I was blaming everyone else, the economic crisis, the competition, the government, people and even the traffic jams for my failures. I would have blamed the weather or climate change but these were non-issues back then! No Covid19 Pandemic back then as well. Somewhere after repeated failures and complaining, I woke up to the fact that if anything had to change, it would have to be me. A lot of people had advised me earlier, but I was adamant and always had excuses not to Change but kept blaming external factors. It took repeated failures and frustrations for me to finally wake up and try I Change. I did Change and kept on Changing, never complaining, blaming or making excuses. I took every hit, punch and kick in the ass with an even stronger determination to 'I Change'. As the small successes came as they surely would, I built on it and never gave up on the concept. Eventually leading me to write my book and publish it. Over the years, I have been invited to speak at all kinds of forum and even conduct workshops on this personal change - I Change. Even today organizations and leaders in general realize the mindset change and attitude stemming from I Change is a critical factor towards success in any field. However, despite the easy to read language used in the book, readers had problems navigating the I Change process in their unique situation leading to requests for Coaching. That pushed me to coaching my readers and anyone else who was determined to I Change and improve their Life. You too should consider accepting and working on the principles of I Change if you need Peace of Mind or just plain Happiness and Success in your Life. I Change transforms your life and guides you in the transformation from a Victim of circumstances to a Victor in Life. The concepts of I Change take you step-by-step in choosing your destiny. It is and always has been within you - The power to turn your life around! About the author:
Dr. Muruga (Dr. M) is a bestselling author, Life Coach as well as a management and performance consultant trainer based in Malaysia. He is the principal consultant of Creative Beings Consultancy, he shares his ideas of empowering individuals in this book which he believes can transform people, organizations and countries. Get your copy of the book by contacting us by email - coachdrm@gmail.com

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Think about it …. you control your Mind or your Mind controls you?

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Most people don’t realize that the Mind is not who you are—it’s an instrument within you. Like a powerful genie, it awaits your clear direction, intentions, and commands.

The moment you input a thought, desire, or belief, your Mind gets to work—without question. It doesn’t choose; it obeys.

And because it’s linked to the Universe itself, it must begin attracting and manifesting what you truly want—whether you’re conscious of it or not.

But unknown to you, your genie is often working with impurities and conflicting directions from your subconscious mind. That’s why results can be delayed, confusing, or disappointing—and why, sometimes, you need a good Life Coach to help clean the slate and align your inner code.

This is why Mind Mastery is essential.

When you master the Mind, you master the Genie. And when the Genie is under your command, your dream life begins to unfold—not by chance, but by conscious design.

Master the Mind. Command the Genie. Live the Life.i

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What we think we want — the goals we chase — may not always be what’s truly best for us.
Many times, we achieve what we desired… only to realize we paid a price that wasn’t worth it. A cost we didn’t see coming.
Think about it.

How often are our goals shaped by hidden drivers from deep within — from the fears, doubts, and suppressed memories stored in our Subconscious Mind?
If we don’t pause and reflect, we may be living out choices based on old fears rather than true fulfillment.

The wiser path?
Let the Universe guide you.
Trust that what is right for you will find its way — often better than what you think.

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The 4 Hidden Truths About Manifestation: What Self-Help Gurus Don’t Share with You About the Law of Attraction
Feb 13
Written By Muruga K

Are Conflicting Signals Manifesting in Your Life Now?

You’ve heard it before—"Your thoughts create your reality." The Law of Attraction teaches us that if we think positively, visualize our goals, and believe deeply enough, we will attract success, love, money, and happiness.

It sounds simple. Almost too simple.

But if that’s the case, why do so many people struggle? Why aren’t more people achieving their goals and living their dream life?

If you’re like most people, you’ve probably read about the Law of Attraction and Manifestation and may have even experienced some level of success. But somehow, the bigger goals—the life-changing breakthroughs—continue to elude you. Certainly nowhere near those rare success stories you see in advertisements that claim to teach you this very thing.

I’m assuming you’ve done the work. You’ve set your goals, practiced affirmations, and created vision boards. And you keep following the exact steps they tell you. Patiently. You’re probably even feeling positive and optimistic.

But then reality hits.

Somehow, things aren’t turning out the way you hoped. Certainly not within your expected timelines. Perhaps you’ve even found yourself manifesting new struggles instead of solutions, setbacks instead of success.

The truth is, manifestation is not just about what you consciously desire. There is another force at play—your subconscious fears, doubts, and past experiences.

In this article, we’re going to explore the six hidden forces shaping your manifestations—the ones no one talks about. And by the end, you’ll understand why Mind Mastery is the real key to unlocking the life you desire.

Law of Attraction and Manifestation

Embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth. Life and executive coaching offers a unique opportunity to enhance your performance and realize your potential. Focus on your goals, overcome challenges, and unlock new possibilities. Take the first step toward a more fulfilling future today.

1. You Are Always Manifesting—Whether You Like It or Not



Most people believe manifestation is something they choose to do—that they can turn it on when they want something. But the truth is, you are always manifesting—whether you like it or not, whether intentionally or unintentionally. For better or worse, your thoughts and emotions are constantly shaping your reality.



Think about the experiences in your life—the ones that seem to happen no matter how hard you try to avoid or change them.



Perhaps you’ve been stuck in debt for years. You budget, you cut expenses, you work extra hours—only for an unexpected financial emergency, like a car repair or medical bill, to set you back even further. Just when you think you’re finally getting ahead, another debt hits you, and your debt increases. It’s almost as if life is working against you.

Or maybe you’ve had a painful breakup in the past and vowed to be more careful next time. You analyzed what went wrong, maybe even went to therapy, took time to heal, and when you finally met someone new, you thought, This time, it’s different. But a few months in, you start to see the same red flags. Somehow, despite all your efforts, you’ve attracted yet another toxic relationship.

And what about your career? You’ve worked hard, hit every target, even earned praise from your manager. You were supposed to be next in line for that promotion. But just when your opportunity arrived, company policies changed. The promotion went to someone else—and even you had to admit, under the new rules, she was the better fit. You start to wonder, Am I doomed to be stuck here forever?

Does any of this sound familiar?

If so, it’s because manifestation isn’t just about what you want—it’s about what is deeply embedded in your subconscious mind.

And whether you realize it or not, those deep-seated emotions and hidden beliefs—some of which you may not even be aware of—are silently manifesting your reality.



2. Why Visualization Alone Won’t Work—Your Hidden Fears Are Also Manifesting

We’re often told that thinking positively and visualizing success is the key to manifestation. But what if your mind is secretly working against you?

You can tell yourself, “I am attracting wealth.” But if a deeper voice inside whispers, “I’ve always struggled with money… I probably don’t deserve this because I’m not that smart anyway,”—which do you think has more power?

Consider the entrepreneur who dreams of building a thriving business. She sets bold goals, visualizes success, and even starts seeing small wins. But deep down, she remembers how her parents struggled financially. She was taught that “money is hard to come by” and that success comes with sacrifice—literally blood, sweat, and tears!”

So, while she’s attracting clients, she’s also attracting exhaustion, self-doubt, and the stress of keeping it all together—along with the constant fear that it could disappear at any moment.

Or take the man who finally lands a great job but can’t shake the feeling that he’s not “good enough” for the role. He works harder, tries to prove himself, but his subconscious fear of failure makes him second-guess his decisions. Eventually, his confidence wavers, and his performance suffers—until one day, he makes a critical mistake and gets sidelined—or worse, he loses the job altogether.

It’s not just what you consciously visualize that manifests—it’s shaped by your self-esteem and the limiting beliefs you’ve absorbed over time. Your subconscious mind is always working, influencing your manifestations—whether it’s working for you or against you depends on what is buried subconsciously.

Never Getting Off the Starting Blocks



3. Your Manifestations Never Got a Chance to Get Off the Starting Blocks

Some manifestation efforts don’t fail because of doubt or fear—they fail because a hidden part of you never even allows them to begin.

It’s like standing at the starting line of the most important race of your life, fully prepared, heart pounding with excitement, ready to sprint toward your dreams—only to realize you’re tied down, held back from the word ‘go.’No matter how hard you try to push forward, something invisible is holding you in place. Any attempts at progress are decimated before you even get a chance to manifest.

You might think you’re doing everything right—setting intentions, visualizing success, believing in your goals. But deep beneath the surface, a powerful emotional resistance is shutting down your manifestations before they even take form.

These blocks don’t announce themselves loudly. They aren’t the obvious doubts or fears that you can recognize and work through. Instead, they are so deeply embedded into your subconscious that they feel like a natural part of who you are—an unseen force keeping you stuck.

If you ask the so-called experts, they might say it’s genetic potential, hereditary limitations, or simply not your “mojo.” But the truth is, these are just excuses that reinforce self-imposed barriers. If you understand Mind Mastery, nothing is impossible—because if your mind can conceive it and believe it, you can achieve it.

It’s not that you’re thinking negative thoughts—it’s that these emotional blocks are silently working in the background, sending contradictory signals to the universe.

You may be trying to row your boat forward, but there’s an unseen current pulling you in the opposite direction. And despite your herculean effort to push ahead, your boat remains stuck—or worse, starts drifting backward.



4. You Might Attract the One Thing You Didn’t Want!

They say, “Be careful what you wish for.” But what if the real warning should be: “Be careful with what you do Not want”?

Because sometimes, manifestation does work—but the end result isn’t what you truly desired.

You get the promotion, but with the added responsibilities come longer hours, higher expectations, and overwhelming stress. At first, the extra income feels rewarding, but soon, your health begins to suffer, and your time with loved ones fades into the background. You’re making more money, but at what cost?

Your bank account is growing, but the “good life” isn’t so good when you’re too busy to watch your kids grow up while battling health concerns. Sound familiar?

Perhaps you grew up in a financially challenging environment, where both your parents had to work tirelessly just to make ends meet. And they paid the price—with parental neglect and their declining health.

They worked hard to educate you, hoping you would break the cycle. But without realizing it, in a strange and ironic way, you’ve ended up in the same situation as they did. The only difference? Now there’s money in the bank.

Be careful what you want—because if what you don’t want is stronger, it may end up manifesting itself.

So, don’t blame the Law of Attraction or Manifestation if you didn’t want to end up in some situation—but eventually did.

We don’t realise that our actions and behaviour are strongly influenced by the childhood memories and experiences we car...
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We don’t realise that our actions and behaviour are strongly influenced by the childhood memories and experiences we carry within us in our subconscious mind.
Sometimes we are aware but mostly it is hidden yet it exerts a strong influence on our choices and decisions.
Our behaviour and character at work and at home is strongly determined by this deep subconscious emotions we carry - our emotional luggage. If we don’t deal with it, we will continuously suffer the consequences of our past.
Time to let go and move forward.
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W e don't realise that our actions and behaviour are strongly influenced by the childhood memories and experiences we ca...
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W e don't realise that our actions and behaviour are strongly influenced by the childhood memories and experiences we carry within us in our subconscious mind. Sometimes we are aware but mostly it is hidden yet it exerts a strong influence on our choices and decisions. Our behaviour and character at work and at home is strongly determined by this deep subconscious emotions we carry - our emotional luggage. If we don't deal with it, we will continuously suffer the consequences of our past. Time to let go and move forward.

Have you ever found yourself reacting to something or someone in a way that surprised even you—an overreaction that you couldn’t quite explain? Perhaps it was a casual remark from a coworker that left you feeling defensive, or a minor disagreement with your partner that spiraled into a heated ar...

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we play this activity during the Emotional intelligence workshop to demonstrate how we need to be empathetic to our team mates and downline as they may not see things the way we do. We just need to be understanding as they are often in the dark. Empathy is a strong component of Emotional intelligence

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