03/09/2025
We are actually in the world where people don't really understand or value what is done for them until the doer stops doing it.
It beats my imagination that most times one becomes insensitive to level that he/she realizes what he or she has when he loses it.
I have grown to be an actor who believes so much in "do unto them what you would like them to do unto you" . Most often i sends text messages to those in my contacts list that i don't often see, chat or calls. Many would see it and snob it while many would react, some reciprocates the greetings and good wishes.
Many years passed there was increased scarcity of funds for such acts causing reduction which some of those who reacts or reciprocate the messages still gets same and those that snobs my messages were all snobbed but something happened yesterday, i wanted to see a friend who is also a renowned legal practitioner.
At my entrance to our meeting points, the voices within the place changed, i could hear some saying i know him, he a good and strong man, some he is a no go area, he is principled, he is very understanding bla bla BLA. While i was dialling my guy as the illumination of lights could barely allow you recognize the next person, then my guy picked and directed me to the men. Behold where the voice was coming from, there was a momentary silence as pleasantries were exchanged.
One of the big fishes there said comrade it has been awhile, no calls, no chats, no text messages and all that. As I joined the table discussion continued but this man kept complaining of not calling, texting and chatting but i used to do that for time immemorial but all of a sudden you stopped even your usual visit.
Since the complain is dominating the discussion i had to lunch disparity between KINGS and UPCOMING KINGS and how many views the yet to be great men.
Simply, sir you really didn't value those gestures but viewed it as a request symptoms but unfortunately it is not there i had to take a bow.
This summary is really happening to you in one way or another but don't be insensitive to understand and respond to it. Time changes everything and don't wait to lose what you have till you know the values.
Good morning.