09/09/2024
Bad manners and habits that instigate hatred admist cordial relationship, married and singles who wish to enjoy long lasting healthier and happy relationship should avoid.
Consider a situation whereby people who used to love and relate well with you suddenly develop hatred and decided to disassociate with you; sometimes you do not know why but you want to know, read on.
Careful observation will tell you that something is wrong somewhere when a friend or partner who loves you gradually start hating you and doesn't want you or have anything cordial to do with you any longer. Have you thought of it twice? It can happen to anybody, but mostly, among business partners, married, engaged lovers, and friends. Many engaged lovers and happily married couples have become victims, disappointed and hopes shattered as a result.
Those bad manners and habits are demons behind many people's misfortunes, especially, apprentice, students, servants, singles, married women, and even children. It is an arrow of breakdown or disappointment that has no respect of position, power, wealth or how long you have been happy and cordial in your relationship. It can only be handled by a man or woman of wisdom who always watch and pray.
20 Bad Manners and Habits Behind People's Misfortunes Married and Singles Should Avoid.
1. Ingratitude:- Feeling too big to say thank you or appreciate any good done .
2. Disobedience:- Refusing to obey simple instructions or do the right thing pleasing as expected by your partner.
3. Rude:- Impolite, showing no respect or regards for other people, and their feelings, mostly, during discussions.
4. Leaking mouth:- Always revealing secrets and cannot be confided on.
5. Untruthful:- Often a lier, saying things that you know are not true perhaps to have a breakthrough.
6. Harsh:- Unkind, very difficult to please, and unpleasant to live with.
7. Heartless:- Merciless, feeling no pity for other people. Easy to attack someone, destroy things and can kill.
8. Rage:- Always offensive, hot temper, violent, difficult to control or calmed.
9. Distrust:- Dishonest, and cannot be relied on.
10. Unfriendly:- Harmful, Unkind, unhelpful, uncaring, always frowning face and unpleasant to live with .
11. Pride:- Egocentric, feeling that you are better or more important than others. Hence disregarding and devalue other people's view, ideas, and their useful recommendations, mostly from those who live or come to you.
12. Jealousy:- Feeling angry or unhappy when something good happens to someone.
13. Gossip:- Always conversing about other people and their private lives. Busy spreading information or stories about other people's private lives.
14. Malice:- Embitter, and always desiring evil to harm someone.
15. Haste:- Lack self-control, and hardly exercise patience.
16. Quarrel:- Trouble maker, nagging and unending angry argument or disagreement.
17. Lazy:- Unwilling to work, inactive and doing nothing as little as possible.
18. Lavish:- Too expensive to keep or maintain. Always extravagant.
19. Irresponsible:- Not showing a feeling of responsibility at all with all kinds of pretence and excuses. Making the partner angry, overworked and depressed without having a feeling or thinking about the effect of what they do, and their negligence.
20. Unconcern:- Deaf ears, lack of care, uninteresting and never worry about something that matters in the family or what other people care about.
Watch out if there's any of those bad manners or attitudes in your life.
Those who keep doing them hardly get human favour and good recommendations.
Those bad habits or lifestyles are some of the reasons many good opportunities, relationship, and marriages are lost.
Don't allow anything to push you into such devastating act, because, it could cause you a lot of setbacks.
Nobody has died from being single, but so many have died from being with the wrong partner.
Life is too short to be wasted living or having wrong partner around you.
It can only be handled by a man or woman who derives wisdom from the word of God, alert watching prayerfully.
It can only be dealt with by these five methods:
W -> watch your words daily and pray
A -> watch your actions or attitude daily and pray
T -> watch your talking daily and pray
C -> watch your character daily and pray
H -> watch your habits daily and pray.
The word of God should be your mirror detector and daily guide. Leave or avoid it, you can't manage it till harmful damages are done.
If you are married, what things can you do, what attitudes do you need to change, in order to be more closely united with your spouse and loved ones? If you're not married, what changes do you need to make in order to have better and closer relationships with the people around you? If you can carefully observe your life and make necessary adjustment and changes, things that made you unhappy will gradually give way for your breakthroughs. It is a matter of choice. What do you say?
