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19/01/2023

Dear QUEENS,

MEN DRIVE THE COMMITMENT WHEEL IN RELATIONSHIPS

It's time to face the truth: when it comes to commitment, men are the ones behind the wheel.

They hold the power to decide when and if they want to take the next step in a relationship.

As much as you may want to influence a man into proposing, the reality is that you can only hope and expect the best.

You can't force someone to take the leap if they're not ready. But, that doesn't mean you should give up all control.

Instead, it's important to make sure you're on the same page as your partner.

If you're content with being in the courtship zone, then play it cool.

But, if you're ready for more and he's not, it's important to have that conversation and see if you're truly on the same path.

At the end of the day, remember that true commitment is built on mutual understanding and respect.

So, don't be afraid to have that conversation with your partner.

It might just be the first step towards a lifetime of happiness together.

I just say make I remind you!

Cheers!!

18/01/2023

If your partner doesn't respect your boundaries; If your partner is constantly jealous or possessive, it's a

06/01/2023

Dear YOU,

DON'T DENY YOURSELVES S*X

If your partner dismisses your feelings or concerns or constantly denies you of intimacy, it's a . Don't be an ALEX-FANCY

If your partner is constantly dismissing your feelings or concerns, it's a sign that they may not be fully invested in the relationship.

Intimacy is also an important aspect of any healthy relationship. If your partner is consistently denying you intimacy, it could be a sign of a deeper issue. They might be cheating with someone else.

If you feel like your concerns are being dismissed or your needs are not being met, it may be time to reassess the relationship.

Remember, a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and communication.

You can't be h***y and be pretending because you don't want to bruise someone's ego or simply because your partner is being selfish.

Scripturally, only when you have agreed to fast that your spouse may have an excuse, otherwise, fire down as many times as your body can carry.

I just say make I tell you!

Cheers!!

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03/01/2023

Tips: Every good gesture done to you by the opposite gender should not lead to relationship, s*x or marriage.

03/01/2023

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02/01/2023

Dear YOU,

SEEK DIVINE DIRECTION AS YOU SET GOALS

Happy New Year once again! As we begin this new year, it's important to remember to set goals for ourselves.

But it's even more important to make sure those goals align with God's will for our lives.

In Habakkuk 2:1, it says "I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me..."

Let's take some time this year to seek God's face and ask for His divine direction in our goals and pursuits.

Don't lean on your own understanding because there is God's factor in all human endeavours.

Have you asked the Lord about His plans for you this year?

If not, there is still time to do so!

I just say make I remind you!

Cheers!!

Idogun Sam Idogun

29/12/2022

Tips:
It's not everyone that deserves your attention. some deserve a SMILE
while
others deserve a FROWN.

29/12/2022

: The biggest mistake you can make as a man is to allow another man make your wife happier than you make her. Her Emotions will shift to the Happier Experience

29/12/2022

Post and Share To All Married Couples!

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:
TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future!

3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS

Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.

7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage.

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Cheers!!

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28/12/2022

Dear YOU,

GIFT A WOMAN SOMETHING BEFORE 2022 ENDS

Our Moms, wives, and daughters are the backbones of our families and communities.

I don't know how you plan to end the year, but I want you to end this year by buying a gift for a woman in your life or in your cycle of influence.

They face and overcome so many challenges, both big and small, from monthly me**es wahala to pregnancy and yet they always seem to keep a positive attitude.

From childbirth and raising children to balancing work and family responsibilities, these women face several life-threatening experiences.

And through it all, they remain strong, resilient, optimistic, caring and cheerful.

So today, let's take a moment to appreciate and thank our mothers, wives, girlfriends and daughters in our lives for everything they do.

Buy a woman a Gift this season even as little as a pad, headscarf, roll-on, beads, women accessories, anything at all etc.

Appreciate the women in your life before you jump into 2023.

They are truly an inspiration to us all.

A. If you're a lady, mention the gift you want in the comments section and you might just get your wish.

B. If you're a man, choose the lady you will like to gift something from the comments section and follow through.

May the Gate of Continuous Wealth be opened to you as you Give and Receive the gift In Jesus name.🙏

Enjoy your day!

Cheers!!

Sam IDOGUN
Founder, SMC

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28/12/2022

tip: Don't be afraid to seek support when needed. Whether it's from friends, family, or a professional therapist, seeking help can strengthen your relationship.

27/12/2022

tip: Make time for each other. Relationships require effort and attention to stay strong. Set aside quality time to spend together regularly. Join: https://bit.ly/SinglesandMarried

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