The Relationship Roundtable

28/01/2025

A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.

17/01/2025

"Being married is like having somebody permanently in your corner. It feels limitless, not limited

14/01/2025

There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage

11/01/2025

A good relationship is when someone accepts your past, supports your present, and encourages your future

06/01/2025

Little did he know, he was unintentionally facilitating the departure of his potential wife to another man. As fate would have it, the lady's relationship with the other suitor ended in heartbreak as he abandoned her for another woman. Seizing the opportunity, my friend stepped in, and declared his love for her, and they have since enjoyed a blissful and enduring marriage.

When I decided to look for the ideal life partner among the women around me, I found the search to be more challenging than I had anticipated. It was daunting to realize that I was about to choose a partner with whom I would spend the rest of my life, and that I had to make this choice from among many eligible ladies. This decision could significantly impact my life, destiny, and the destiny of my partner as well.

At first, I made a list of the qualities I was looking for in a woman to be my life partner. These qualities included spiritual and ethical values, physical appearance, intellectual capacity, emotional and social abilities, and other attributes. After creating a shortlist of women I knew, I assessed their qualities based on the criteria I had established. I carefully weighed the pros and cons of each woman and prayed for guidance from God. Ultimately, I chose one of them, whom I later married.

I didn't realize that I had been unconsciously observing her character and other qualities until the day when my mind started replaying her lifestyle like a video. I noticed her character, dress sense, dedication and commitment to the church, consistency, exemplary lifestyle, and respectful attitude. It seemed like she had a lot to offer. I never knew I was unconsciously taking note of her character and relationships

06/01/2025

THE SEARCH FOR A COMPATIBLE LIFE PARTNER
Before I found and eventually married my wife, I was actively searching for a suitable life partner. During this time, a friend and I were exploring various avenues to meet potential partners. Despite being part of a church community with many single sisters, we still felt the need to actively seek out the 'ideal' life partner. This involved attending christian social events, reaching out to mutual connections, and exploring various options to expand our search and increase the likelihood of finding a compatible match.

Not everyone wearing a skirt fits the description of an ideal partner. We contemplated expanding our search to other churches or locations in order to find our perfect match. During our pursuit, we sought the assistance of various individuals, and this collaborative effort persisted for an extended period. Eventually, we made the decision to shift our focus to the people in our immediate surroundings.

Oblivious to us, our life partners were right under our noses all along, but it never occurred to us that the objects of our search were very close by.

My friend eventually proposed to a lady who had been a close friend and confidant to him. He had been encouraging her potential marriage relationship with another young man, known to him.

02/01/2025

"I wrote an ebook on ‘How Single & Searching Ladies, Can Attract A Loving, Caring, Responsible and God-fearing Life Partner….. and where to Extablish that Connection for a Blissful Marital Union” I wrote it after observing the struggles, pains, mistakes, and failed expectations experienced by single women who are seeking to find their ideal life partner and settle down into a happy marriage. If you find yourself in this situation. We shall be exploring some of the key strategies that can make your expectations a reality. You will do well to follow this thread consistently.

30/10/2024

26/06/2024

Good morning family.
We shall start a series on how to identify your soulmate. You will do well to keep following.

Seven signs you’ve met your soulmate:

Perhaps you may feel an almost otherworldly connection with them. You feel as if you’ve known your love before in previous lifetimes. When you’re not speaking to them, the silence feels comfortable instead of awkward. However, during a conversation, you feel fascinated and stimulated by what they have to say, and you don’t need to hide or hold back your thoughts or feelings. Everything fits, and it feels like the pieces of your puzzle have finally started to come together.
You feel at home in their company and could talk for hours with them about everything and nothing at all. Being physically attracted to someone naturally happens all the time, but below the surface, we all want and need a deeper connection. When you’ve found this genuine bond, you know you have your partner for life.

2. You can see a future with them.
Soulmates usually have the same outlook or perspective on life, and may even share similar goals. When you have wildly opposing views about politics, religion, marriage, or any other significant ideologies, it makes it very difficult to make the relationship last. So, when you meet your forever partner, you will find it easy to mesh with them about important issues. Because of your compatibility, you can see a future with them, even after just a few dates.
Also, we’d like to add that having similar goals in life may help the longevity in the relationship. Not to mention, when you have the same interests, it enables you to bond in a more profound way and possibly create businesses and other pursuits together.