MindValve Emporium

03/06/2025

PRE-MENOPAUSE & MENTAL HEALTH

✅The events in your environment are strong precursor to the mental wellbeing of humans.
Growth pains such as pre-menopause is one of them.

✅The experience of the onset of menopause in some women could be like an encounter with the unknown eccentric part of themselves.
With hot flashes, unexplainable mood swings, pendulum emotions, extreme dryness of the V-palace etc.
These signs and other individual symptoms could make her appear as someone having a panic attack, anxiety disorders or seasonal depression.

✅Bad enough, a lot of men have misinterpreted this phase and formed our own opinions about it. The truth however is that your wife is still very normal but going through a phase that's probably misrepresenting her true self or intentions.

✅The bedroom challenge of the inability of the V-palace to accommodate the regular visitor poses the most prominent point of complaints for the husbands. Even a tube of lubricant might not be enough to create the expressway you desire.
Biko nu🙏🏿. On this, I plead for understanding because it shall surely come to pass.

✅So what is the husband role here...
1) UNDERSTANDING through seeking information and Knowledge.
2) Provide support
3) Don't use harsh words
4) Be gentle and patient.... sometimes you might be forced to cross to Long-suffering lane, but it would soon be over.

Thank you for reading

Mental Health Awareness is everyday affair 🎉
✅Be an Informed family
✅Be a Knowledgeable family
✅Don't allow pre-menopausal Mata scatter your groove 🎉
✅Seek professional support when the need arise.
🎉We are here to assist

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Weisz & Cooper LLC

mindvalve2020@gmail.com
+234 816 141 7373
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28/05/2024

"Ephraim has joined himself to idols. Leave him alone!!" 😭 Hosea 4:16-19

This is a difficult point to get to as a mentor, pastor and counselor whose passion wouldn't just let you do siddon look and watch pride-blinded folks gallivant into pit of life.

25/05/2024

Marriage is a blessed concept and a very possible success venture.
Marriage is a beautiful project.

Do you also know that the toxicity of the marriages you see around your space can have negative impact your own plans, or the functionality of your own marriage if not checked?

That is why you need to build new body of knowledge that can help you. There are opportunities for you to achieve Marital Literacy.

If you're in Abuja, let's see you this morning at the Marital Clinic starting by 10am at

Your seat is waiting.

24/05/2024

My very poor knowledge of the Hausa language called me out recently when holding a sensitization and training on Mental Health for a group of clinicians and health care providers in the Northern Nigeria.
Among the participants were a handful of Traditional healers who were very eager to share and learn but we had ----ba Hausa ba Turenchi challenge. Thank God I was later rescued by a few participants helped with the interpretations.
So, this is me in this pic 'listening' to the president of traditional healers in the state make a speech on how they understood and handle mental health challenges. They are group of fine gentlemen doing what they know to help their people.

I 'listened' to him share their experiences in Hausa and at a point they though I was not appreciating their efforts, so they brought out their Doctor..... ID cards to prove to me.
Honestly that was not the issue. The issues were on the matters around spirits and demons in the areas of Stress, Depression, Trauma etc..

In the class, we can only teach, and project principles and scientific/evidence-based facts around Mental Health, Therapy etc
It ended on a beautiful note with much lessons to learn from my participants.
In conclusion I enjoyed my time of interaction, learning and unlearning. Training facilitation is my core, it flows with ease, let us know how we can assist your organization build capacities in your desired areas of need.

Okay now, so, all of una, my Hausa-speaking friends......I am thinking of un-friending all of you if under your watch, I still dey do Ba-Hausa in spite of our plenty waka.
I dey look for teacher now.

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+234 908 377 2977

15/05/2024

Hello families......

AFRICAN FAMILY LIFE DELEGATE CONFERENCE 2024

29/12/2023

MY PERSONALITIES OF THE YEAR

1) Tunde ONAKOYA of Chess in the Slums Africa, is my main man of the year.
It's amazing how simple things could change people's lives.
It takes grit to do what he's doing with street boys and still achieve so much.
The only tribe in the world is called HUMANITY.

I don't have the million to support his exploits now but it will happen soon.

Welldone broda.
You're great man.✌️

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