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02/12/2025

When a marriage fails, dont involve the kids in the name of punishing your ex.

Dont complicate the situation for them any further.

Effect of a broken homes on kids can be very traumatizing.

Most kids struggle with it secretly for life. While you may be oblivious to thier struggles.

Keep your differences aside.

They did not bargain for this.

Try to co-parent together irrespective of who has the kids.

Its not there fault so make intentional effort to make the effect of the break up easy on them.

Divorce is not the time to turn the kids against your ex. No matter what may have caused it.

Fathers, try to pay for school fees and other upkeep without delay.

Where the mother has the kids, dont try to poison them against their father or deliberately manipulate them against him especially when he's actually trying to be there.

And as for the men, oh God I dont even know what to say. I know of too many men who have abandoned their responsibilities and left the mother to cater alone for his kids.

I cant fathom why.

There is NOTHING macho or nice about avoiding your responsibilities towards the kids in the name of " I did not ask her to go with them"

Please do the needful. The kids are innocent and do not deserve to be caught in the middle of your battles.

You are a father and you have responsibilities towards your children. Dont fail them.

As single mothers in a situation like this, be diplomatic and be patient.

With the right approach, the man will do the needful eventually. For now, I send you a virtual 🫂 🤗 hugs and lots of prayers.

I spoke with a woman recently that Inspired this post....When a marriage doesn’t work out, don’t drag the children into ...
02/12/2025

I spoke with a woman recently that Inspired this post....

When a marriage doesn’t work out, don’t drag the children into the fight.
Co-parent with sense, no matter who the kids are staying with. They didn’t cause the breakup, so be intentional about making the transition easier for them.

If you’re the father, try to be responsible for school fees and other upkeeps without delay. Stop stressing children because of issues you have with their mother.

If you’re the mother and the kids live with you, don’t poison their minds against their father—especially when he’s genuinely trying. Manipulating children to “punish” your ex only damages them.

And to the men who abandon their children—honestly, I don’t even know where to start. I know too many cases where the mother is carrying the full load while the father disappears. Totally out of picture.

I have seen this first hand too many times.

There is NOTHING strong, macho, or admirable about avoiding your responsibilities and saying, “I didn’t ask her to go with them.”
They are your children. Step up.

Please, do the needful.
These children are innocent. They don’t deserve to be caught in the middle of your battles.

Have you bottled up so much inside of you?Do you need a safe and confidential space you can let it all out without being...
02/12/2025

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Your peace of mind matters

After more than a decade I recently met with some old classmates and I saw how time has changed most of us in positive w...
30/11/2025

After more than a decade I recently met with some old classmates and I saw how time has changed most of us in positive ways.

I especially noticed how most of the guys had greyed even though they are apparently doing well.

It shows thier dedication to strive hard to provide for their families.
To succeed and to lead.

Then something hit me when I was looking at them in the picture.

These are hard working men trying hard to provide for thier families.

Some may be well appreciated while some may not be.

Infact, some women may not even acknowledge their efforts not to talk of appreciating it. Some will even belittle your efforts and compare you to other men.

During misunderstanding, some women challenge their husbands asking:

" What have you ever done for me since you married me?" And lots more..

This can feel demoralising and frustrating.

I have met men who are enduring so much in silience.

Who dont speak out as they are trying to man up.

I have met a few who begged me to help them find second wives due to conditions at home.

Some of these men can change from being nice and slowly withdraw.

Dear responsible brothers,
On behalf of your wives, I see you.

I see your efforts.
I see your struggles.

And I pray:

May your efforts never be in vain.
May they always yield beyond your expectations.
May the Almighty crown your efforts and always meet you at your point of need.

May he always direct you to greatness and bless all that concerns you.

I SEE YOU

And to my sisters:

Its not easy out there
Not in this hard times.

Please try to be...
☑️understanding
☑️️Supportive
☑️Soft & Feminine
☑️His comfort n peace.
☑️Respectful and allow him to lead.

Study him, know his soft button and learn to use it. Be diplomatic and patient.

May the Almighty bless our homes and provide the singles with their hearts desires.

AMEN

30/11/2025

Dear men, please 🙏 dont assume a local village girl will be a better wife than a city girl. Many did and are in regrets.

He is not supposed to touch you inappropriately. Infact he has no business touching you at all. Especially as Muslims. A...
28/11/2025

He is not supposed to touch you inappropriately. Infact he has no business touching you at all.
Especially as Muslims. And especially since you are not comfortable with it. Its highly discouraged in Islam.
If you are not comfortable with such then you are not supposed to enable an environment where such can happen.
Remember, you are not supposed to be in isolation with the opposite s*x especially if you dont want such to happen.
He is a full blooded man who probably cares for you and have feelings for you.
So naturally, he may not be able to control himself around you.
I am not making excuses for him but if he ticks most of your checklist then I 'd say give him a second chance.

That should not be the 'ULTIMATE ' deal breaker .

Except of course if you have other concerns.

That been said, I think you should check out our pre-marital coaching course for engaged couples and those in a serious relationship.

27/11/2025

I told her yes, people are still having solid marriages.

And even those struggling today can become solid later. If both involved are willing.

The best marriages are built by two people who show up fully:

Each striving to excel in their responsibilities. When both partners feel genuinely lucky to have each other, love thrives.

But the moment one begins to feel “not good enough,” imbalance sets in.

A healthy marriage grows when both hearts stand tall, not when one shrinks for the other to shine.

In essence , you dont have to dim your shine for you to have a solid marriage.

If your marriage is currently feels too exhausting then its time to restrategies, reflect on what is causing you stress in the marriage and see what you need to do differently.

Some men have gotten used to leaving their wives for too long to fend for themselves.Marriage should not be like this. M...
23/11/2025

Some men have gotten used to leaving their wives for too long to fend for themselves.

Marriage should not be like this. Make more effort and make yours standout

Marriage was not made to make you suffer. God does not want you to suffer.You are not meant to endure, you are meant to ...
22/11/2025

Marriage was not made to make you suffer. God does not want you to suffer.
You are not meant to endure, you are meant to enjoy.
Marriage is companionship.
Its friendship
You as a woman in your marriage is a partner NOT a lesser being.

Respect your husband
But dont forget to respect yourself too.

What do you think about this?
17/11/2025

What do you think about this?

She shared her story..He's doing that for her to feel very much vulnerable and scared to.leave. I was in the same situat...
16/11/2025

She shared her story..

He's doing that for her to feel very much vulnerable and scared to.leave. I was in the same situation. Always having so much insults from him. A very practicing "muslim" it made me doubt my self worth and felt there's nothing I can do without failure. Loneliness, rivers of tears and depression became my companions. He took in another and the maltreatment became unbearable. I was literally doing everything for myself.
There were times I contemplated "m*rder and "suic***de" I was going thru so much oppression, and so much insults to the extent even my mum of blessed memory was constantly insulted. Only Allah knows my pain and everyday tears I shed, and sometimes a whole week without a wink of sleep.
My first step was going to the university. A dream I almost gave up because of marriage. I'm now in my final year studying gender and dev. studies.
I didn't even have the money to pay for that but Allah made ways I never thought will come.
Finally I've left his house staying on my own, doing my little business and still working. The pain is still very fresh, because I gave him everything I had in my life. The day i left even me didnt blv it. I had some words he was saying not knowing i was listening to him in my room because he was outside. Those words broke me down completely. Oh i cried!!!! My fullest support, dedication and all of me, i gave to him but he took me for granted and verbally told me he doesnt value me and im of no use to him. A woman who bore kids for him with so much pain. Who was his support when things were very rough, was publicly told shes of no use or value, and labelled a witch who is destroying his life. My Lord knows it all. He will surely fight for me because trust me, i will.never forgive hom for all he did to me. The shame, public disgrace and humiliation.

Staying in toxic marriage will drain everything in you. I endured for so long hoping for change before I finally left. I was only married in the eyes of the public but in my home, I was nothing near marriage. No voice of my own, no respect, no companionship, no intimacy, taking care of myself all alone, sleeping all alone and so much more.

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Choose wiselyYour peace of mind matters.Dont think you know better.Dont rush in only to rush outBe guided
15/11/2025

Choose wisely
Your peace of mind matters.
Dont think you know better.
Dont rush in only to rush out
Be guided

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